Does it get better

TrinaF · 08-04-2008, 11:18 PM

I am pretty short at 5 1 but i have a really big bust (DD). They drew so much attention through my early years but now in my late 20's it seems like they still are the focus. Real or fake questions and the stares. Is there a point in life where the actual woman takes the focus over her bust size? I have thought of breast reduction but then i think why make them smaller for other people? And i just cant do that. Input welcome.

okay · 08-04-2008, 11:47 PM

Seems like U’r gift is also U’r curse.

Question to U is what do U feel about U’r body? Do U like them like that?

So U’r question is how to find person who loves U & not just want to f**k U. Many agree that all guys get attracted to body not personality; personality if happens is later.

Good news is that U have lots of choices. Don’t give guys what they want, first find out if person is what U want, if they respect & love U.

TrinaF · 08-04-2008, 11:51 PM

i understand what your saying, but is not like i can keep them at home until i find a guy who likes me for me and say buy they way i also have these LOL.

pinkelephant · 08-05-2008, 12:13 AM

how do you dress?

my mom huge boobs. they're like, as big as her head haha. but she's a very serious woman professionally and not one peep out of the men.

TrinaF · 08-05-2008, 12:19 AM

There always covered. I work at a bank so always professional outfits there. I dont have any tops that show much cleavage at all. I wear tight sports bras alot to help keep some what in check but being short and small waisted they just stick out like the old sore thumb

okay · 08-05-2008, 12:27 AM

What I'm saying U may not have choice about guys getting attracted to U'r boobs, but by taking it slow & not giving them what they want, U can find out if they like who U're & if U like them.

RockabillyLove · 08-05-2008, 12:30 AM

DD isn't very big..

I'm a 14GG, and I'm 5"7!

Just be proud of your body, it could be a hella lot worse!

pinkelephant · 08-05-2008, 12:36 AM

14? don't they go from 32 to like 40?

anyway, no they don't get better. my bestfriend has huge boobs and so guys pay attention a lot to those as well, not much you can do except develop thicker skin. i'm not sure how, but my mom never gets them. guys are mostly scared of her though lol.

TrinaF · 08-05-2008, 12:40 AM

Scared of your mom?

Loki71 · 08-05-2008, 12:40 AM

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s there a point in life where the actual woman takes the focus over her bust size?

I am sure you know by now that there will always be people looking. Sorry but I doubt it will ever stop, but will you find someone who is into you and not just them? I believe you will. My wife was like you but her back was always hurting so I told her she should get them reduced and I would support her because I didn't care what size she was. So yes there are some of us men that are not in to a womans chest and don't care what size they are.

08-04-2008, 11:18 PM	#1
TrinaF Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 47	Does it get better I am pretty short at 5 1 but i have a really big bust (DD). They drew so much attention through my early years but now in my late 20's it seems like they still are the focus. Real or fake questions and the stares. Is there a point in life where the actual woman takes the focus over her bust size? I have thought of breast reduction but then i think why make them smaller for other people? And i just cant do that. Input welcome.

08-05-2008, 12:30 AM	#7
RockabillyLove Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Melbourne, Australia Gender: Female Posts: 90	DD isn't very big.. I'm a 14GG, and I'm 5"7! Just be proud of your body, it could be a hella lot worse! __________________ 1955 Cadillac- I can see Paradise by your Dashboard Light

08-04-2008, 11:47 PM	#2
okay Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 61	Seems like U’r gift is also U’r curse. Question to U is what do U feel about U’r body? Do U like them like that? So U’r question is how to find person who loves U & not just want to f**k U. Many agree that all guys get attracted to body not personality; personality if happens is later. Good news is that U have lots of choices. Don’t give guys what they want, first find out if person is what U want, if they respect & love U.

08-04-2008, 11:51 PM	#3
TrinaF Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 47	i understand what your saying, but is not like i can keep them at home until i find a guy who likes me for me and say buy they way i also have these LOL.

08-05-2008, 12:13 AM	#4
pinkelephant Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Lala land Gender: None Specified Posts: 2,617	how do you dress? my mom huge boobs. they're like, as big as her head haha. but she's a very serious woman professionally and not one peep out of the men.

08-05-2008, 12:19 AM	#5
TrinaF Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 47	There always covered. I work at a bank so always professional outfits there. I dont have any tops that show much cleavage at all. I wear tight sports bras alot to help keep some what in check but being short and small waisted they just stick out like the old sore thumb

08-05-2008, 12:27 AM	#6
okay Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 61	What I'm saying U may not have choice about guys getting attracted to U'r boobs, but by taking it slow & not giving them what they want, U can find out if they like who U're & if U like them.

08-05-2008, 12:36 AM	#8
pinkelephant Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Lala land Gender: None Specified Posts: 2,617	14? don't they go from 32 to like 40? anyway, no they don't get better. my bestfriend has huge boobs and so guys pay attention a lot to those as well, not much you can do except develop thicker skin. i'm not sure how, but my mom never gets them. guys are mostly scared of her though lol.

08-05-2008, 12:40 AM	#9
TrinaF Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 47	Scared of your mom?