For those in their thirties, do you ever feel it, feel like time is running out, that you haven't accomplished all you want, etc? Yesterday, a coworker brought in their new baby. The baby is sooo cute, only three months old, with a nice head of red hair. The coworker is in her thirties and this is her first child.
Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have a kid. I've always been on the fencepost about having kids, mainly because I'm not sure I have the means to give it a good life (although my mom has come to the point that she wants grandkids SOON and she has said that if either my brother or I have one, she would care for him/her and stuff like that, like spoil the child and she has the money to do it). My mom is pressuring my brother to get married ASAP. She brought that up to my brother, in front of my brother's gf, at dinner on Father's Day. I found that kind of distasteful.
For those in their thirties and without a SO, do you guys ever get the twinges of wanting kids and worried that time is running out to have one.
And no, I am not rushing out to find a bf to procreate. Lately, I haven't really been looking for a bf either. I do find it nice to talk to guys. I know I am attractive in my own way (even though I'm not that thin), and guys do chat me up. Seen that at my pottery class.
Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to be a single mother in their thirties and have a child then.