Do emotionally abusive men like being chased? And do they get pleasure out of hurting their loved ones? My bf and I have constantly broken up.. mostly him doing the break up.. and of course I'd be stupid and cry and beg for him back. Many times he would tell me "its too late" or "this is the last straw".. and then when I would finally give up and back off.. he would find a way to come back in my life and then I'd end up getting back with him. I love him to death.. but its emotionally draining when he refuses to talk to me for days because of a fight or he will threaten to break up with me. I'm getting to the point where im sick and tired of this and im ready to leave.. but I still love him so much and we have so much history together. He can be a kind and loving man but when he's angry, he can get so ugly. I feel like he's a different person. I don't understand him.. does he enjoy making me miserable? He knows how much i love him and would do anything for him. And why is it that if hes the one that always breaks up with me.. when I finally decide to really leave and stop fighting for him, he comes back to me? I'm so confused..