so a little bit of an update/ IM SO ANGRY!!!

gift from the gods · 05-13-2008, 04:56 AM

Well ive kind of sorted things out with everything (in the post i did before i was confused about liking this girl, didnt know what would happen with her etc)
We both decided that relationships is a no, we have been "fooling around" but nothing more than kissing etc, and considering my boyfriend broke up with me only a week ago (and is regretting his choice) i have decided not to rub it in his face and its slightly secret what we are doing.

Well anyway last night we decided to go out, im one of the only people that can drive of my mates, but the other people lived near by so they got a taxi, where as me and this girl live furthur away, so i had to drive.

So i gave this girl a free lift there, and was planning on driving her back too, just because she had never been to this place before. If she hadnt come i would have drunk, and slept at a different friends house.
So i picked her up, took her to a shop etc. all was well and good till we got in this club/bar where we met up with other friends (some of which i hadent met before).
We all started talking to different people, which is fine obvously, but she dissapeared with this girl. We are not together so i am not bothered (although to begin with i was a bit jealous because we had both spoken about the fact that neither one of us would like to see each other with someone else in front of each other) but she literly didnt say 1 word to me, or our friends we were ment to join up with the ENTIRE night.

So there i am, sober having a rubbish time, so i decided to leave about 11pm-12am (leaving her to have to get a very expensive taxi home)

I don't know if its just me that thinks what she did is TOTALY out of order....you dont turn up with someone who is driving you free of charge because you cant afford £50+ for taxi's, who is staying sober so you can have a good time, who you say you "really like" and have "loads of feelings for" and F**k off with some girl you have JUST met the whole night and not even apologise. ARGH i was so angry!!!!
Im not looking for advice on this one, more of a rant i think.

But i went and stayed at my ex boyfriends that night (no sex or anything, but i did kiss him) i know it was the wrong thing to do, but i know he loves me and cares about me loads, and at the moment i just feel totaly used by this girl. ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

trying2forget · 05-14-2008, 04:19 PM

Ouch. That blows. I'm sorry about that.
Seems to me that this girl is either: a. confused with her feelings about you or b. using you. I hate to say that but there are many people out there who can, unknowlingly to the other person (you), manipulate them into doing things for them all the while [you] think it's your idea and will do it for them. I would just suggest that you consider this.
Once again, I'm sorry about what this girl did to you. You deserve better, I'm sure

05-13-2008, 04:56 AM	#1
gift from the gods Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Uk Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 155	so a little bit of an update/ IM SO ANGRY!!! Well ive kind of sorted things out with everything (in the post i did before i was confused about liking this girl, didnt know what would happen with her etc) We both decided that relationships is a no, we have been "fooling around" but nothing more than kissing etc, and considering my boyfriend broke up with me only a week ago (and is regretting his choice) i have decided not to rub it in his face and its slightly secret what we are doing. Well anyway last night we decided to go out, im one of the only people that can drive of my mates, but the other people lived near by so they got a taxi, where as me and this girl live furthur away, so i had to drive. So i gave this girl a free lift there, and was planning on driving her back too, just because she had never been to this place before. If she hadnt come i would have drunk, and slept at a different friends house. So i picked her up, took her to a shop etc. all was well and good till we got in this club/bar where we met up with other friends (some of which i hadent met before). We all started talking to different people, which is fine obvously, but she dissapeared with this girl. We are not together so i am not bothered (although to begin with i was a bit jealous because we had both spoken about the fact that neither one of us would like to see each other with someone else in front of each other) but she literly didnt say 1 word to me, or our friends we were ment to join up with the ENTIRE night. So there i am, sober having a rubbish time, so i decided to leave about 11pm-12am (leaving her to have to get a very expensive taxi home) I don't know if its just me that thinks what she did is TOTALY out of order....you dont turn up with someone who is driving you free of charge because you cant afford £50+ for taxi's, who is staying sober so you can have a good time, who you say you "really like" and have "loads of feelings for" and F**k off with some girl you have JUST met the whole night and not even apologise. ARGH i was so angry!!!! Im not looking for advice on this one, more of a rant i think. But i went and stayed at my ex boyfriends that night (no sex or anything, but i did kiss him) i know it was the wrong thing to do, but i know he loves me and cares about me loads, and at the moment i just feel totaly used by this girl. ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! __________________ So mesmerising, so hypnotising. I am captivated, i am liberiated.

05-14-2008, 04:19 PM	#2
trying2forget Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 47	Ouch. That blows. I'm sorry about that. Seems to me that this girl is either: a. confused with her feelings about you or b. using you. I hate to say that but there are many people out there who can, unknowlingly to the other person (you), manipulate them into doing things for them all the while [you] think it's your idea and will do it for them. I would just suggest that you consider this. Once again, I'm sorry about what this girl did to you. You deserve better, I'm sure __________________ You may say that I'm a dreamer But I'm not the only one I hope someday you'll join us And the world will be as one