My gf of 6 months used to say I love you all the time - every other e-mail, used to text me randomly saying it, everything. Now I hear it once a day, when we get off the phone at night. I asked her how come, she said she doesn’t know, almost like she didn’t realize it.
She still talks about “our kids” and when we get married and everything, so I’m not sure what’s going on.
Last weekend I was on her computer doing some work and I did a google search for something. When you punch in the first letter, all other searches done starting with that letter show up. One of them said “Is it love, or do I love the idea of ‘us’?”. It worried me, so I brought it up and asked her if there was something she needed to talk about. She said she didn’t even remember typing that in, so if she did do it, it was either referring to her ex when they were dating, or really early on when we started dating. She told me I could always come to her about that sort of thing since we should be able to communicate as a couple, and said she has no doubts about me and that she loves me.
So what is it? Do people just stop saying it as much like that? Or am I just thinking too much into it? I know she’s always thinking about school and what she wants to do with her life, so maybe that’s why - her mind’s preoccupied with that?