Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 123 LastLast
Results 11 to 20 of 28
  1. #11
    Bronze Member
    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Posts
    236
    here's one for ya.. im 5'8 and the love of my life is 5'5. I even wear heels.. Sometimes I get mad self conscious when I do that run/jump hug thing. Its funny for us now, but once you get your insecurities out in the open and you get more comfortable with yourself with HIM, you'll be fine. If you're insecure, so he will be too. fyi. Just enjoy this hun.
    Yes, Yes, 8675309.. Hello LOIS? DAM you Tommy Tutone!

    Let's try 1111112, Lois? no
    Let's try 1111113, Lois? DAM!!

  2. #12
    Silver Member
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    Posts
    502
    I've always been a bit scared to put my weight on my boyfriend. He'll sit in my lap, but I've never sat in his. He's a good 6'2 and about 150-160 lbs and I'm 5'3 and about 107. He took me snowboarding and I was surprised he could hold my weight. I know that my fear is silly, but I certainly understand where you're coming from. I recently lost 20 lbs and it hasn't make me any more comfortable about sitting on my boy's lap. I'm sure if he's asked you to sit on his lap he is aware of your build and can handle it.

  3. #13
    Bronze Member BlondGuy's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2007
    Posts
    155
    While my ex gf weighed less than me (she was 130 I was 165) I would often ask her to lay on my back and put pressure on me. For some reason I found this really relaxing and would almost fall asleep after a couples minutes of doing this. It soothed me.

  4. #14
    Platinum Member JeckyllNHyde's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    Posts
    5,415
    Gender
    Female
    I wouldn't worry much. As DN said, if you are too heavy he WILL mention it. You can also tell him: tell me if I'm hurting you.
    Once/IF you do he will tell you. Chances are he will be enjoying you too much to care too.
    You're just too good to be true... Can't take my eyes off of you...

  5. #15
    Gold Member laboheme's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Age
    28
    Posts
    1,098
    Gender
    Female
    You'll be fine! I've had people sitting on my lap who were considerably heavier than I am, and it didn't bother me at all, unless it was for a really long time. There are no vital organs to crush there, and the 30 pound difference is not enough to break bones. Plus, if he's a runner, his leg muscles will definitely be able to handle it.

    Hey, just recently, I had a guy not much bigger than me physically pick me up and pin me against a wall, no problem. So, no worries!

  6. #16
    Silver Member Red Fox's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    367
    Gender
    Male
    I have had people heavier than my sit on my lap and it's not been uncomfortable.

    I wouldn't worry because the weight will be evenly distributed along his legs and is therefore not likely to be uncomfortable. If you were to stand on him and lift one leg up and balance on your one heel, then all your weight would be pressing on a small area and it would probably be uncomfortable. But because all your weight is spread over the whole length and width of his legs there is no one small area which is taking all the weight - therefore it is I think very unlikely for it to be uncomfortable for him.

    If you took 5lb of steel and made it flat so it covered a larger surface area it would still weigh the same as a 5lb piece of steel compressed into a small 3d cube. If you put the 5lb cube on your stomach it would feel heavier than the 5lb sheet because it's pressing on a smaller area - however they both weigh the same. It's the same kind of idea - your weight will be spread over an area and won't be as uncomfortable as you think - I suspect he'll think it's great.
    Who Dares Wins

  7. #17
    Bronze Member Delusional Kisses's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Posts
    267
    Gender
    Female
    There are many men out there that look for girls much bigger than them to do just that....sit on their laps, their faces...whatever. I am a big girl...not gonna give up my weight or anything, but if a guy asks me to sit on his lap or anything of that nature, he is very much aware of my weight (he does have eyes...he knows I'm large) and should expect a great deal of pressure on his legs....I haven't gotten a complaint from anyone that asked for it....lol.

  8. #18
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Age
    34
    Posts
    963
    Gender
    Male
    meh, you're sooooo not going to crush him. I sit on my gf all the time. I'm 170lb and she's 120lb.

  9. #19
    Platinum Member ghost69's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    Desert
    Posts
    33,119
    Gender
    Male
    you will not crush him. he just wants some pelvis action with some booty rubbin. lol

    i remember i used to do the dead weight thing on my gf playing around. it was funny. i'm 210. she was fine.
    Not only am I friendly, but I'm invisible too.
    Too perfect of a relationship is too weird-g69
    If you say you are normal, I'd think you are weird-g69
    The world can only get better, it depends on how you look at it-g69
    'As wicked as you are, you're beautiful to me'-5fingerdeathpunch
    you cannot control the world, you can only live in it the best you can for you-g69


    NooOoOoooOOoOoOoooooo

  10. #20
    Platinum Member Bunney's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2006
    Location
    Europe
    Posts
    1,526
    Gender
    Female
    I wouldn't worry about it, hun. Just go for it It really isn't a big deal.

Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 123 LastLast
Related Articles & Books
by Margarita Nahapetyan
One of the biggest causes of stress and unhappiness in life are failed relationships. Making a relationship work is one of the most important life ...
by Margarita Nahapetyan
It has been universally acknowledged that having a long distance relationship is not such a good idea, especially if there is no known end-date to ...
by Margarita Nahapetyan
Some people say that when we deeply love or care about someone we automatically open the door to betrayal. I am not sure whether such statement holds ...
 

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Expert Advice

Online
CallChat
$3/minute
Caring professional willing to talk about all types of sexual issues. Serious, open discussions with the ages of 18 and older.
Online
CallChat
$1.75/minute
25+ YEARS EXPERIENCE. Repair and restore the joy of your relationship by alleviating sexual dissatisfaction, dysfunction and a wide variety of sexual challenges.
Online
CallChat
$4.99/minute
Make your Sex Life Better, even amazing! I can help you learn how; Desire, LGBT, BD/SM, Fetish, Cross Dressing, Performance, Porn Addiction
Online
Chat
$2.99/minute
A lot of people have trouble in their sex lives but almost all these problems can be solved. Talk with a friendly non-judgemental Therapist about it and improve your life!
Online
CallChat
$2.75/minute
My experience as a psychotherapist, life coach and academic specialist in human sexuality, and non-judgmental, practical approach allows me to help you. LGHBTQIA-supportive.