are we "dating" ?

pieceofu · 02-05-2008, 08:10 PM

-I've hung out with a guy 2 times outside of work ( dinner and watched a movie & went shopping )
-We plan our breaks at work so we have them together
-constantly txting
-flirty
-visit eachother in our different departments at work
-i got a litte tipsy and messaged him at 2am- he told me he wants to "see me all the time and every time i'm able"

So are we "Dating"?

and how do i bring up a convo about "what we are" or "where this is going" because i really like him & now i'm confused.
Or do i just go with the flow and not scare him with some "talk"

Batya33 · 02-05-2008, 08:31 PM

Completely agree with belledonna. I would not do the text messages you described until you are dating at least a month or so exclusively.

ghost69 · 02-06-2008, 09:49 AM

did you have an exclusive talk to where he said he wants to be bf/gf? then no. dating/seeing each other? yeah, i guess. doesn't sound too serious yet though.

midnightrambler · 02-06-2008, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Batya33

Completely agree with belledonna. I would not do the text messages you described until you are dating at least a month or so exclusively.

i wish i would have followed that advice years ago......great insight

02-05-2008, 08:10 PM	#1
pieceofu Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 5	are we "dating" ? -I've hung out with a guy 2 times outside of work ( dinner and watched a movie & went shopping ) -We plan our breaks at work so we have them together -constantly txting -flirty -visit eachother in our different departments at work -i got a litte tipsy and messaged him at 2am- he told me he wants to "see me all the time and every time i'm able" So are we "Dating"? and how do i bring up a convo about "what we are" or "where this is going" because i really like him & now i'm confused. Or do i just go with the flow and not scare him with some "talk"

02-06-2008, 09:49 AM	#3
ghost69 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Desert Gender: Male Posts: 33,424	did you have an exclusive talk to where he said he wants to be bf/gf? then no. dating/seeing each other? yeah, i guess. doesn't sound too serious yet though. __________________ Not only am I friendly, but I'm invisible too. Too perfect of a relationship is too weird-g69 If you say you are normal, I'd think you are weird-g69 The world can only get better, it depends on how you look at it-g69 'As wicked as you are, you're beautiful to me'-5fingerdeathpunch you cannot control the world, you can only live in it the best you can for you-g69 NooOoOoooOOoOoOoooooo

02-05-2008, 08:31 PM	#2
Batya33 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 19,059	Completely agree with belledonna. I would not do the text messages you described until you are dating at least a month or so exclusively.