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Old 01-09-2008, 06:18 PM   #1
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Question Catch Him and Keep Him? Christian C's ebooks

Hey all,
Just wondering, have any of the women on this forum purchased any of Christian Carter's ebooks under his "Catch Him and Keep Him" program? If so, did you get anything out of it? Or do you think getting guys' advice here on eNA is sufficient?

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Old 01-09-2008, 06:32 PM   #2
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Ok, I'm not a woman. But.....

1) I will not comment on the eBook.

2) I will say that - in my opinion - that "getting guys' advice here on eNA" is NOT sufficient

It helps but it shouldn't be the only source.

It's like the way some people treat the world's religions. They take a little bit here and there and make their own.
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Old 01-09-2008, 06:44 PM   #3
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I've read some of it, and to tell you the truth, I think it's all pretty basic.

I agree with RC, dont just take the advice you read here...some of these ppl are really jaded and have been so hurt that it may lead you astray. lol
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Old 01-09-2008, 06:52 PM   #4
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some of these ppl are really jaded and have been so hurt that it may lead you astray. lol

Agreed...you need to do what works for you.
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Old 01-09-2008, 07:29 PM   #5
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I have heard he is the same guy that advises men how to be Pick Up Artists....if true, that to me (giving advice in opposite directions) is a bit questionable.

I used to get his emails for some reason (somehow I was on his mailing list!), if his e-books or CD's are any bit as long-winded as his emails (saying things in 10 paragraphs that you both already know, and could be done in two sentences) I think it's not worth it - it is pretty basic and stuff you can figure out through various advice given here, or even just buying a decent relationship or self-help book for a lot less money. Essentially, his message is same as the main message I and others give out here - you need to be confident in yourself as a person - THAT is attractive, and learn how to communicate - and choose men that aren't duds.

I know someone whom has a copy of one of his programs (CD's/workbook) (not sure which one....); I am quite sure she would part with it if you were interested in having it - PM me if you are.
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Old 01-09-2008, 09:31 PM   #6
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I used to get his emails for some reason (somehow I was on his mailing list!), if his e-books or CD's are any bit as long-winded as his emails (saying things in 10 paragraphs that you both already know, and could be done in two sentences).
YES YES YES! Thats why I quickly lost interest. He just goes on and on about the same thing, and it takes him forever to get it out!
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Old 01-09-2008, 09:39 PM   #7
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ha ha.. yeah i got those emails too... and a lot of it is just common sense.

Things like,

Don't be clingy and needy.

Dont' say i love you on the first date.

Because i thought this was just someone's way of making money, you know what i did? I signed up for these emails for the GUYS... to see what they had to say about "How to attract a woman"

And it was all a bunch of poo.

So I thought, if someone is telling a guy how to pick up women like this, and it seemed totally ridiculous... then surely its the same way around for the advice for the woman.

Anyway, people can give you all the advice in the world, whats right for them... but it might not be right for YOU and the future love of your life.
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Old 01-09-2008, 10:26 PM   #8
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Thanks for the responses!

I've gotten the emails in the past and besides being long-winded, the grammatical errors and typos were enough to make me wonder. Didn't know if the actual products would be a bit more concise and with more info.
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Old 01-11-2008, 06:59 AM   #9
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Giving girls "catch & keep him" advice is the same as giving "Get the worlds sexiest woman" advice to men or "become a millionaire in 30 days" advice to people in general - maybe "the one" will pass you by while you're reading that useless crap...

It's all about getting as much contacts as possible with other people - the more you know, the more friends of friends you'll meet & so on, which will grow your possibilities of getting a partner in high-speed...
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I get those emails too none of his advice worked and I managed to get a sweetheart without his poo!
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