I've post a few times since my breakup. BF broke up with me about 2 weeks ago...going on week 3. We hadn't really talked much until xmas. Then we started talking and texting each other and it actually felt normal and I felt good. We did speak the day after xmas and I broke down and got upset on the phone. We did sort of end the conversation on a good note, I had told him all the things that had happened within the past two weeks that he didn't know about (getting a new job, starting school. etc).
He called me 4 times Thursday night and 2 times Friday. His last voicemail was very irritating because he kinda gave me an ulimadium. He said "well this is my last time trying to call you before I leave for my trip. if you dont call in the next hr, then I guess I'll talk to you when I get back." I still didnt' return his call cause I know it would be the same ol BS, me getting upset and him getting mad.
My question: I haven't heard from him since. I know he is out camping, and there is a possibility he does not have any service where he is. Though it's hard for me to believe that he'd go an entire week without checking his phone and/or email. (he works constantly). Which is why I'm leaning to believe he's ignoring me. I did send him a text saying I attempted to call but it went straight to voicemail.
Just trying to get people's thoughts. I am mailing a box of his stuff off today. I was originally going to wait for him to send my stuff, but I'd rather be done with it sooner than later. I tend to feel bad after I talk with him, which is why I didn't answer his calls. It's almost like too much damage has been done and everything he says, adds to the wounds. I think we have reached a "point of no return." Which is why I'm wondering if I should ever talk to him again.