If he is somewhat infertile, can you still get pregnant?

yeawutever · 12-11-2007, 06:00 PM

Ok I admit that on several occassions (not many but 3-4 I think and it wasn't really pulling out mehtod) he wasn't using a condom but later on did put it on and after a long while cum on it. I know pretty stupid but I just took his words when he say he has an infertility problem or he thinks he is b/c in his previous relationships when he didn't use a condom nothing would happened. Or the time a girl tricked him with a paternity test in which it came out that he wasn't the father (she's now currently living with the real father who's abusive).

Then there was a kinda scary moment when it was done anal, he cum and the condom broke but he say nothing would happened.

Well nothing has happened but (else I would have gotten preg already). So if he has infertility problems can he still gotten me pregnant?

RayKay · 12-11-2007, 06:03 PM

"Don't worry, I am infertile as I have never gotten anyone pregnant" - that must be one of the oldest lines in history.

Unless he has been to a doctor and had his little swimmers tested, he is not "infertile" and it only takes once. And even if he is not VERY fertile does not mean he is COMPLETELY infertile. Plenty of men with slower swimmers (or less swimmers) still get women pregnant.

Just because you have not gotten pregnant yet does not mean you won't....all it takes is the right timing.

yeawutever · 12-11-2007, 06:09 PM

True I did risked myself (I trust him that's why). I guess I got lucky. Though last time we talked he kinda change his version to saying that yes even if he is infertile, the odds were very little but there was still 1 in 10 that his sperm can work.

danielj · 12-11-2007, 06:11 PM

Even if he does have 'infertility' issues as he claims, it only takes one sperm making it to where it needs to go at the right time to get pregnant. So there is always a chance of becoming pregnant. Best thing to do is to play it safe and make sure to use a condom every time.

CarnelianButterfly · 12-11-2007, 06:11 PM

Birth control is the best way to prevent pregnancy, don't go on some unfounded line about his fertility. Has he seen a doctor? Probably not. He could be very fertile, but the women he's been with weren't.

Use condoms, lube, and the pill, the smartest and most effective way to stay baby free.

yeawutever · 12-11-2007, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by CarnelianButterfly

Birth control is the best way to prevent pregnancy, don't go on some unfounded line about his fertility. Has he seen a doctor? Probably not. He could be very fertile, but the women he's been with weren't.

Use condoms, lube, and the pill, the smartest and most effective way to stay baby free.

Well he did say once he got a paternity test b/c the girl claimed it was his kid and it turn out that it wasn't. He was inform of having low sperm count. Now we're on a long distance relationship and one of the first thing he asked was if I gotten my period and yes I did. I was like ''You know it would have been your fault if you gotten me preg'', to which his response was ''Yes I know it would be my fault''.

Yes you're right, shouldn't have ever risked it. I was playing the Russian wheel.

EQD · 12-12-2007, 08:44 AM

yeah you are going Russian Roulette with this one Ailec, when a guy says "don't worry i am infertile" they are just trying to get away with not using a condom... unless he went to the Dr and had his sperm tested specifically for fertility.. well they even have over the counter tests out now actually.. Even if he did have a low count he is still in some way fertile and making a big gamble with your life.

Also its a bad sign that he hasnt been using condoms with other women.. one of whom obviously was sleeping with another guy, have you even considered he could be spreading STD's??

southerngirl · 12-12-2007, 10:00 AM

I read your first post, and not the other replies...

Do not trust anyone that says they are infertile, unless they have gone to a doctor and been tested and told this.

Use a condom each and every time you have sex until you are ready to make a baby.

Batya33 · 12-12-2007, 10:15 AM

Totally agree. Are you and he ready to be parents emotionally and financially? Are you willing to have abortion be your birth control method? This is not just about you - you could be the next one in court having to prove his paternity (and court is not a great place to bring a little baby for hours).

Sounds like a teenage mother I know - she was told that drinking hard liquor before the act would kill his potency. She ended up homeless for a few years.
Luckily it all worked out for her lovely child. She talks to teens now to try to set an example for what not to do.

Good luck.

ghost69 · 12-12-2007, 11:25 AM

if there is a sperm count of 1, you can get pregnant. chances are slim as the female body tries to kill sperms. this is why a high count is much more desired. but it doesn't stop it.

12-11-2007, 06:00 PM	#1
yeawutever Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: None Specified Age: 22 Posts: 5,671	If he is somewhat infertile, can you still get pregnant? Ok I admit that on several occassions (not many but 3-4 I think and it wasn't really pulling out mehtod) he wasn't using a condom but later on did put it on and after a long while cum on it. I know pretty stupid but I just took his words when he say he has an infertility problem or he thinks he is b/c in his previous relationships when he didn't use a condom nothing would happened. Or the time a girl tricked him with a paternity test in which it came out that he wasn't the father (she's now currently living with the real father who's abusive). Then there was a kinda scary moment when it was done anal, he cum and the condom broke but he say nothing would happened. Well nothing has happened but (else I would have gotten preg already). So if he has infertility problems can he still gotten me pregnant? __________________ Opened-minded to those in need of help. Not everything is black and white as it seems.... If you're gonna do something, think twice and make sure it's something worthy that you don't later on regret!!!!!!!!!!! Still in a LDR with boyfriend. Last edited by yeawutever; 12-11-2007 at 06:06 PM.

12-11-2007, 06:03 PM	#2
RayKay Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Middle of Canada Gender: Female Age: 30 Posts: 13,270	"Don't worry, I am infertile as I have never gotten anyone pregnant" - that must be one of the oldest lines in history. Unless he has been to a doctor and had his little swimmers tested, he is not "infertile" and it only takes once. And even if he is not VERY fertile does not mean he is COMPLETELY infertile. Plenty of men with slower swimmers (or less swimmers) still get women pregnant. Just because you have not gotten pregnant yet does not mean you won't....all it takes is the right timing. __________________ [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=darkolivegreen][B]<--- [COLOR=sienna]Carbun the Super-Bunny[/COLOR][/B][/COLOR][/FONT] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#556b2f][/COLOR][/FONT][/B] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=darkolivegreen][B]At the end of the day, how you imprinted on someones life and heart is the only true mark any of us leave on this earth and is what we are most proud of... [/B][/COLOR][/FONT][I][SIZE=1]- My Biggest Hero and Mentor: My Mum.[/SIZE][/I] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=orange][B]Il faut d'abord durer [/B][/COLOR][/FONT][I][SIZE=1]- Ernest Hemingway[/SIZE][/I]

12-11-2007, 06:09 PM	#3
yeawutever Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: None Specified Age: 22 Posts: 5,671	True I did risked myself (I trust him that's why). I guess I got lucky. Though last time we talked he kinda change his version to saying that yes even if he is infertile, the odds were very little but there was still 1 in 10 that his sperm can work. __________________ Opened-minded to those in need of help. Not everything is black and white as it seems.... If you're gonna do something, think twice and make sure it's something worthy that you don't later on regret!!!!!!!!!!! Still in a LDR with boyfriend. Last edited by yeawutever; 12-11-2007 at 06:11 PM.

12-12-2007, 08:44 AM	#7
EQD Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 5,977	yeah you are going Russian Roulette with this one Ailec, when a guy says "don't worry i am infertile" they are just trying to get away with not using a condom... unless he went to the Dr and had his sperm tested specifically for fertility.. well they even have over the counter tests out now actually.. Even if he did have a low count he is still in some way fertile and making a big gamble with your life. Also its a bad sign that he hasnt been using condoms with other women.. one of whom obviously was sleeping with another guy, have you even considered he could be spreading STD's?? __________________ http://sumitsays.com/2009/05/29/in-your-headlights/

12-12-2007, 10:00 AM	#8
southerngirl Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: NW Georgia Gender: Female Posts: 3,032	I read your first post, and not the other replies... Do not trust anyone that says they are infertile, unless they have gone to a doctor and been tested and told this. Use a condom each and every time you have sex until you are ready to make a baby. __________________ A wise man learns by the mistakes of others, a fool by his own. Latin Proverb

12-11-2007, 06:11 PM	#4
danielj Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 35	Even if he does have 'infertility' issues as he claims, it only takes one sperm making it to where it needs to go at the right time to get pregnant. So there is always a chance of becoming pregnant. Best thing to do is to play it safe and make sure to use a condom every time.

12-11-2007, 06:11 PM	#5
CarnelianButterfly Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Too far from home Gender: Female Age: 28 Posts: 4,473	Birth control is the best way to prevent pregnancy, don't go on some unfounded line about his fertility. Has he seen a doctor? Probably not. He could be very fertile, but the women he's been with weren't. Use condoms, lube, and the pill, the smartest and most effective way to stay baby free.

12-12-2007, 10:15 AM	#9
Batya33 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 19,073	Totally agree. Are you and he ready to be parents emotionally and financially? Are you willing to have abortion be your birth control method? This is not just about you - you could be the next one in court having to prove his paternity (and court is not a great place to bring a little baby for hours). Sounds like a teenage mother I know - she was told that drinking hard liquor before the act would kill his potency. She ended up homeless for a few years. Luckily it all worked out for her lovely child. She talks to teens now to try to set an example for what not to do. Good luck.

12-12-2007, 11:25 AM	#10
ghost69 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Desert Gender: Male Posts: 33,444	if there is a sperm count of 1, you can get pregnant. chances are slim as the female body tries to kill sperms. this is why a high count is much more desired. but it doesn't stop it. __________________ Not only am I friendly, but I'm invisible too. Too perfect of a relationship is too weird-g69 If you say you are normal, I'd think you are weird-g69 The world can only get better, it depends on how you look at it-g69 'As wicked as you are, you're beautiful to me'-5fingerdeathpunch you cannot control the world, you can only live in it the best you can for you-g69 NooOoOoooOOoOoOoooooo