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Old 12-08-2007, 02:38 PM   #1
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What does Happiness mean to you?

Have you ever taken much thought to answer this question?

I think we often can get caught up in letting life just happen.

Have you ever taken a step back and really looked at your life and what you want and need to be truly happy?

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Old 12-08-2007, 02:52 PM   #2
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Have I ever given that question any thought? LOL

that's all i thought about a few months ago!!

i believe that we are responsible for our own happiness. crappy things happen to everyone, some more crappy than others. when they do happen we have two choices: allow them to affect our mood, get us down and basicaly just wallow in self pity OR we can accept things as they are, if possible try to find the silver lining and move on.
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Old 12-08-2007, 02:56 PM   #3
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Buckdawg is right about this.... I'm unhappy cause I'm still heartbroken, I can imagine once I'm through this being ok..... thats all I want... to get over the sad stuff, and be myself again...

But you know it isn't as easy as it sounds either....
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Old 12-08-2007, 02:56 PM   #4
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What does Happiness mean to you?

Mindfulness.
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Old 12-08-2007, 03:01 PM   #5
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What does Happiness mean to you?

Mindfulness.
wise in the way of Buddha you are lol
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Old 12-08-2007, 03:16 PM   #6
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What does Happiness mean to you?
It means the feeling - "I can't wait to wake up in the morning" .
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Old 12-08-2007, 03:36 PM   #7
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I would say self-acceptance. Acceptance that I am not perfect and full of flaws but knowing, really believing, that I'm worthy and capable of love anyway...love for myself and from others.
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Old 12-08-2007, 03:39 PM   #8
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I would say self-acceptance. Acceptance that I am not perfect and full of flaws but knowing, really believing, that I'm worthy and capable of love anyway...love for myself and from others.
You really nailed that one. Totally agree.
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Old 12-08-2007, 04:27 PM   #9
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What does Happiness mean to you?

Mindfulness.
Thank you for this reminder easyguy.
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Old 12-08-2007, 04:49 PM   #10
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Having serenity.

Which usually means I have acceptance, I am comfortable in my own skin, I am comfortable with where I am at in life, with where I am going in life, and there is harmony - harmony with myself and in my relationships with others. Things are just calm and balanced, but excitement doesn't really apply.
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