father of 1 but 3?

Artique · 12-05-2007, 10:53 PM

I have one biological child, and 2 step children. The thing is that with my son, I was around since he was 2mo in the womb, and our dauther I met when she was 3 years old. Its fair to say that my son is my son and my dautghters father was scumbag that had his way with her when she was young and I take care of her. I meet my GF when she was pregnant and I never had a kid until this year in August. But I adapted to children well I love them to death, its just Im expected to be a boyfriend, that resembles that of a 24 year old with no kids, or just one. I had taken on 2 extras and I focus on that, as my GF pushes marriage and all the stuff I dont do, when She clearly doesent play with the kids, doenset like seeing or hearing the kids, doesent clean, dosent drive, dosenet care about (excuse me if Im being EMO) my emotions. Im a sensitive guy and I try to do what I can to give them the world yet I forget to ask for my world giving to me. And being a father and a man in this day in age you really dont get much help, becuase men never gave birth. But If I could I would. And Since I cant I wont be able to. If I knew one person that could share my thoughts without being too much a guy or too much a girl just a real human I would love it.

Thank you

JadedStar · 12-05-2007, 11:03 PM

I am confused. YOu said your g/f wants you to do all these things...yet she doesn't play with the kids or like hearing them,etc. are these HER kids?

glegend · 12-05-2007, 11:37 PM

This is a funny post, I'd like to give you an answer but you lost me.

Artique · 12-06-2007, 11:02 PM

Sorry I kinda rant sometimes. Long story short. 2 are her kids, 1 is mine, but I take responsibility for them all. without attacking her she doesent really like to deal with the, so I try. I guess what Im saying is that I dont know if anyone else has this same situation. but then again you probley cant understand what I was saying since I tend to rant... Thank you for trying anyways

We do need space. 2 bedroom apt. 3 kids and a depressed lady and anxious man..

12-05-2007, 10:53 PM	#1
Artique Offline Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 10	father of 1 but 3? I have one biological child, and 2 step children. The thing is that with my son, I was around since he was 2mo in the womb, and our dauther I met when she was 3 years old. Its fair to say that my son is my son and my dautghters father was scumbag that had his way with her when she was young and I take care of her. I meet my GF when she was pregnant and I never had a kid until this year in August. But I adapted to children well I love them to death, its just Im expected to be a boyfriend, that resembles that of a 24 year old with no kids, or just one. I had taken on 2 extras and I focus on that, as my GF pushes marriage and all the stuff I dont do, when She clearly doesent play with the kids, doenset like seeing or hearing the kids, doesent clean, dosent drive, dosenet care about (excuse me if Im being EMO) my emotions. Im a sensitive guy and I try to do what I can to give them the world yet I forget to ask for my world giving to me. And being a father and a man in this day in age you really dont get much help, becuase men never gave birth. But If I could I would. And Since I cant I wont be able to. If I knew one person that could share my thoughts without being too much a guy or too much a girl just a real human I would love it. Thank you

12-05-2007, 11:37 PM	#3
glegend Offline Gold Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 2,429	This is a funny post, I'd like to give you an answer but you lost me. __________________ The car doesn't make the driver, the driver makes the car It's not the ride, it's the rider.

12-05-2007, 11:03 PM	#2
JadedStar Offline Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: On a star far, far away... Posts: 16,347	I am confused. YOu said your g/f wants you to do all these things...yet she doesn't play with the kids or like hearing them,etc. are these HER kids?

12-06-2007, 11:02 PM	#4
Artique Offline Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 10	Sorry I kinda rant sometimes. Long story short. 2 are her kids, 1 is mine, but I take responsibility for them all. without attacking her she doesent really like to deal with the, so I try. I guess what Im saying is that I dont know if anyone else has this same situation. but then again you probley cant understand what I was saying since I tend to rant... Thank you for trying anyways We do need space. 2 bedroom apt. 3 kids and a depressed lady and anxious man..