Survey: How much is too much?

Seafarer227 · 10-03-2007, 07:27 AM

Mrs. Seafarer: "Normal people don't do it this much."
Seafarer: "OMG!!! We're not normal."

So, how frequently do you "normal" folks do it? And, what's the context? How long have you been together, what's the status of your relationship, etc?

niczeegs · 10-03-2007, 07:33 AM

4 years together.
1-3 times a week.

We're trying to make it more, but it doesn't help when we work different shifts, we have class and we don't live together. So, I guess we're doing alright?

AWESOME POST BY THE WAY. I'm interested as well.

Tethys · 10-03-2007, 07:42 AM

Not married, but been together a year and a half and living together. Very happy.

We have it probably five times a week on average, but we do try to at least get six days in on most weeks if possible. If it weren't for work and school, it would probably be seven days!

d24 · 10-03-2007, 07:55 AM

two years, whenever she initiates because i generally don't.
on average i'd say maybe once a week?

astrobaby · 10-03-2007, 08:40 AM

With my last ex, at least once a day, though 3 or 4 times a day wasn't unusual for us.

Up and Down · 10-03-2007, 09:45 AM

with my last girlfriend it started out strong and then went to maybe once a week. Other girlfriends have always been at least three times a week or more, that includes a six year relationship.

It is frustrating when you have miss matched sex drives as my last relationship proved. One thing I have read is that some therapists recommend that even when a woman isn't in the mood that you forge ahead because once you get going, usually the woman starts to enjoy it. Just a little tough to light the fire. Also therapists have found that couples that have sex on a regular basis are better couples.

Mousty · 10-03-2007, 09:55 AM

I'd probably say 6 times a week. I like having a night off a week to cuddle =)

amtjrtcet · 10-03-2007, 09:56 AM

1.5 yrs together, we only see eachother on the wknds. About 4 times a wk.

ghost69 · 10-03-2007, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by amtjrtcet

1.5 yrs together, we only see eachother on the wknds. About 4 times a wk.

same or more with fooling around too. if this changes i would be out. a 'less' of a change of course. i like my girl's body and i love sex. they go hand in hand so i get aroused a lot. another reason i'm with my girl. it's only healthy.

confused&troubled77 · 10-03-2007, 02:20 PM

Been together for almost 2 years. We only do it about once a month sometimes less. In the beginning we were way more active but my man is going through some things right now so it effecting our intimate lives. I am sure that we will make it though this and be stronger for it, it is just hard not to be intimate right now!

10-03-2007, 07:27 AM	#1
Seafarer227 Offline Join Date: Sep 2007 Gender: None Specified Posts: 1	Survey: How much is too much? Mrs. Seafarer: "Normal people don't do it this much." Seafarer: "OMG!!! We're not normal." So, how frequently do you "normal" folks do it? And, what's the context? How long have you been together, what's the status of your relationship, etc?

10-03-2007, 07:55 AM	#4
d24 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: UK Gender: Male Age: 25 Posts: 1,064	two years, whenever she initiates because i generally don't. on average i'd say maybe once a week? __________________ "You act as though you haven't seen trees bow to an unborn child before?"

10-03-2007, 09:56 AM	#8
amtjrtcet Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Gender: None Specified Posts: 2,876	1.5 yrs together, we only see eachother on the wknds. About 4 times a wk. __________________ Whah, whah, whah, whah, whah...... Does this knife in my back make my ass look big? ~ Dancers are the athletes of God. ~

10-03-2007, 07:33 AM	#2
niczeegs Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Ontario, Canada Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 255	4 years together. 1-3 times a week. We're trying to make it more, but it doesn't help when we work different shifts, we have class and we don't live together. So, I guess we're doing alright? AWESOME POST BY THE WAY. I'm interested as well.

10-03-2007, 07:42 AM	#3
Tethys Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Golden State Posts: 2,165	Not married, but been together a year and a half and living together. Very happy. We have it probably five times a week on average, but we do try to at least get six days in on most weeks if possible. If it weren't for work and school, it would probably be seven days!

10-03-2007, 08:40 AM	#5
astrobaby Offline Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: uk Gender: Male Age: 29 Posts: 317	With my last ex, at least once a day, though 3 or 4 times a day wasn't unusual for us.

10-03-2007, 09:45 AM	#6
Up and Down Offline Gold Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Age: 34 Posts: 723	with my last girlfriend it started out strong and then went to maybe once a week. Other girlfriends have always been at least three times a week or more, that includes a six year relationship. It is frustrating when you have miss matched sex drives as my last relationship proved. One thing I have read is that some therapists recommend that even when a woman isn't in the mood that you forge ahead because once you get going, usually the woman starts to enjoy it. Just a little tough to light the fire. Also therapists have found that couples that have sex on a regular basis are better couples.

10-03-2007, 09:55 AM	#7
Mousty Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Quebec Gender: Female Age: 24 Posts: 2,689	I'd probably say 6 times a week. I like having a night off a week to cuddle =)

10-03-2007, 02:20 PM	#10
confused&troubled77 Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: USA Gender: Female Age: 32 Posts: 76	Been together for almost 2 years. We only do it about once a month sometimes less. In the beginning we were way more active but my man is going through some things right now so it effecting our intimate lives. I am sure that we will make it though this and be stronger for it, it is just hard not to be intimate right now!