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09-27-2007, 04:53 PM
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Upsetting Dreams
I have been having alot of upsetting dreams lately where I would go to the ex's house and I would see her there with another guy & she would try to hide it from me. Or just times when I go there & she is having sex with other another guy.
There just dreams, this isn't really happening (Well i hope!). Just wondering why? There very disturbing. I been about a month now of very very strict NC, last time she rang was when she was drunk & she was toying with my head. Just wondering if any one else has these? Maybe its like the brain is preparing for the worst or something?? |
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09-27-2007, 04:56 PM
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to tell you to move on shes cheated. shes not worth the time you have, your a much better person. this girl is just a immature lady with problems.
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09-27-2007, 05:00 PM
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I am having the same type of dreams...
The reason I am having them is because those are some of my thoughts I think of during the day. It really is not good for our health to think like this...it will only make us hurt. I am almost positive that these thoughts are crossing your mind during the day, so try and stop those thoughts and replace them with something more positive...that will hopefully help. Im saying this since that is exactly what my Doctor finished telling me around an hour ago. let me know if it works for you and I am going to do the same. Good luck..I know how awefull it feels... |
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09-27-2007, 05:00 PM
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I am moving on, going OK. I don't think she means to do what she does but.
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09-27-2007, 05:02 PM
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Yeah I do think about it during the day & I try to make myself stop straight away. |
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09-27-2007, 05:02 PM
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maybe shes troubled in her life, you still care about her, but you don't know quite how to let go so your brain is telling hey look shes a sl*t get over it completely.
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09-27-2007, 05:06 PM
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09-27-2007, 06:05 PM
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Well, subconciously evolution is trying to keep you from straying, but it doesn't always work out. I hope things in caveman times were way simpler.
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09-27-2007, 06:49 PM
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i get these drems all the time........either he comes back to me and aplogises, or hes seeing someone else, or he ignores me....... theyre all so realistic. it sucks, theres no escape from it, even wen ur asleep. i just keep hoping with time theyll dissapear.
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