Worst case scenario

Completely Lost · 08-31-2007, 08:16 AM

So, what do I do when I find out that my 44 year old wife is having sex with OUR 20 year old son?

fmjosie · 08-31-2007, 08:21 AM

ummmmmmm, report her to the police?

Satsuma · 08-31-2007, 08:26 AM

You have suspicions of this happening? Well if it was to be true then reporting it to the police is an idea because its incest. What makes you think this is happening may i ask?

beth116 · 08-31-2007, 08:28 AM

I agree with fmjosie. That's obviously wrong on so many levels. Morally and legally she should be held responsible.

There's no two-ways about it.

Shin kensen · 08-31-2007, 09:09 AM

Bleh, I don't like to get the police involved in personal business like this, by the way if you're in the US I don't think the police can do much as there's no "probable cause" from what you're saying at least. in the UK, they can do something as there's no need for probable cause.

Now, what to do depends how you're feeling, if you're sad, upset, you may leave them behind, deposit money in an offshore bank account, leave everything behind, go restart somewhere else, don't look back.

But then if you're angry you may turn to violence, hurt someone pretty badly.

If you were still in love with her, you may speak to her tell her to get confidential psychological help (for both of them).

There's no one size fits all, and it's annoying you don't realise this. Choose a route to go, there are more than the 3 I mentionned, but for the love of God, don't bother with the police.

fmjosie · 08-31-2007, 09:19 AM

yeah..... this is either a really horrible situation, or a really bad troll post.

Dako · 08-31-2007, 09:45 AM

I'd confront them both, then call a lawyer, not the police.
They're both consenting adults and each is committing incest, but you're the real victim.

I hope this isn't happening.

Jake11 · 08-31-2007, 09:52 AM

I don't believe this is true. I call troll.

Completely Lost · 09-01-2007, 12:35 PM

For those of you that do not believe it's true, I couldn't really give a rat's ass. As for the police, the absolute max is 3 years and I'd have to prove it first. Me walking in and catching them in the act isn't considered proof in a court of law.
Shin, I do realize that there is no fix all, cure all for this situation. Therefore, your annoyance is unjustified.
I thank all that have offered their advice, but I have made my decision.

"In this world of give and take, there are few willing to give what it takes."

This will be my last post. God speed to all.

girlpower24 · 09-01-2007, 02:24 PM

I am so sorry that u had to deal with this kind of shock. I would say the best would be to leave and move as far as possible because this is not a situation that can be resolved. Please let me know what u decided!

08-31-2007, 08:16 AM	#1
Completely Lost Offline Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 2	Worst case scenario So, what do I do when I find out that my 44 year old wife is having sex with OUR 20 year old son?

08-31-2007, 08:26 AM	#3
Satsuma Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: UK Gender: Female Posts: 199	You have suspicions of this happening? Well if it was to be true then reporting it to the police is an idea because its incest. What makes you think this is happening may i ask? __________________ Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, if you are told you are silly or stupid for it then ignore them, they are the stupid ones for not accepting that someone has a different view to them <3

08-31-2007, 08:28 AM	#4
beth116 Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: I come from the land down under Gender: Female Age: 24 Posts: 145	I agree with fmjosie. That's obviously wrong on so many levels. Morally and legally she should be held responsible. There's no two-ways about it. __________________ utilitarianism is not for winners

08-31-2007, 09:09 AM	#5
Shin kensen Offline Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Lancaster University Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 400	Bleh, I don't like to get the police involved in personal business like this, by the way if you're in the US I don't think the police can do much as there's no "probable cause" from what you're saying at least. in the UK, they can do something as there's no need for probable cause. Now, what to do depends how you're feeling, if you're sad, upset, you may leave them behind, deposit money in an offshore bank account, leave everything behind, go restart somewhere else, don't look back. But then if you're angry you may turn to violence, hurt someone pretty badly. If you were still in love with her, you may speak to her tell her to get confidential psychological help (for both of them). There's no one size fits all, and it's annoying you don't realise this. Choose a route to go, there are more than the 3 I mentionned, but for the love of God, don't bother with the police. __________________ Shin K

08-31-2007, 08:21 AM	#2
fmjosie Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Canada Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 154	ummmmmmm, report her to the police?

08-31-2007, 09:19 AM	#6
fmjosie Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Canada Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 154	yeah..... this is either a really horrible situation, or a really bad troll post.

08-31-2007, 09:45 AM	#7
Dako Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: None Specified Posts: 9,115	I'd confront them both, then call a lawyer, not the police. They're both consenting adults and each is committing incest, but you're the real victim. I hope this isn't happening.

08-31-2007, 09:52 AM	#8
Jake11 Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Gender: Male Posts: 91	I don't believe this is true. I call troll.

09-01-2007, 12:35 PM	#9
Completely Lost Offline Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 2	For those of you that do not believe it's true, I couldn't really give a rat's ass. As for the police, the absolute max is 3 years and I'd have to prove it first. Me walking in and catching them in the act isn't considered proof in a court of law. Shin, I do realize that there is no fix all, cure all for this situation. Therefore, your annoyance is unjustified. I thank all that have offered their advice, but I have made my decision. "In this world of give and take, there are few willing to give what it takes." This will be my last post. God speed to all.

09-01-2007, 02:24 PM	#10
girlpower24 Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 16	I am so sorry that u had to deal with this kind of shock. I would say the best would be to leave and move as far as possible because this is not a situation that can be resolved. Please let me know what u decided!