So, this girl...

Circa · 08-29-2007, 10:04 PM

Well, I've met a girl via MySpace; and she's absolutely great.

She's gorgeous - to my standards - and she has a great personality as well as a good sense of humour

. She's also flawless

But, the problem is, she lives all the way in Green Bay; just 10 hours drive from me.

My friends and I were planning to go to Green Bay to see a football game thus I'd have a reason to meet her.

I want to know how to get to know her better and better.

I'm talking in terms of a friendship, since she has a boyfriend.

barbielovesmac · 08-29-2007, 10:10 PM

Oooooo I'd be pissed if I were her boyfriend and I found out she was talking to a total stranger on Myspace.

She's absolutely great and has a boyfriend!

You want to go see her?! That's crossing a boundary!!!

Watch out buddy!

AwdreeHpburn · 08-29-2007, 10:11 PM

hmmmmm...... that sounds a bit of challenge mate, to be honest. What does SHE think of you're driving out there and a meet up??

Batya33 · 08-29-2007, 10:13 PM

Obviously you want to get to know her as more than a friend and of course other than seeing a picture of her she is a total stranger as far as whether the two of you would click in person. I would end contact and perhaps tell her she can contact you if she is ever unattached.

Circa · 08-29-2007, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by AwdreeHpburn

hmmmmm...... that sounds a bit of challenge mate, to be honest. What does SHE think of you're driving out there and a meet up??

Um, no. A few friends and I were going to see a football game in her city. We've planned before I met her.

And I know that she just likes me as a friend.

Batya33 · 08-29-2007, 10:19 PM

I think it's fine as long as you meet her and her boyfriend.

barbielovesmac · 08-29-2007, 10:21 PM

You've met her?!

Unless her boyfriend knew, then that's completely inappropriate.

She may only like you as a friend. But from the start of your thread it's apparent that you like her as more??? Just going off what you said about her.

Circa · 08-29-2007, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by barbiegurl87

You've met her?!

Unless her boyfriend knew, then that's completely inappropriate.

She may only like you as a friend. But from the start of your thread it's apparent that you like her as more??? Just going off what you said about her.

Yeah, I probably should've rephrased her description better.

But I wouldn't date her anyway. I'd way rather keep her as a friend.

renaissancewoman101 · 08-29-2007, 10:25 PM

blah post.

ElektraHere · 08-29-2007, 10:26 PM

I'd say that the only way to know if someone is your fit is to actually spend time with them. Also it helps if they are unattached, which in this case this girl is not. I would say you are putting too much into it and if she has a b/f you are sort of crossing a line that should NOT be crossed. Things like this never work out. Just peruse a few of the posts at this forum and you will see.

08-29-2007, 10:04 PM	#1
Circa Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Canada Gender: Male Posts: 21	So, this girl... Well, I've met a girl via MySpace; and she's absolutely great. She's gorgeous - to my standards - and she has a great personality as well as a good sense of humour . She's also flawless But, the problem is, she lives all the way in Green Bay; just 10 hours drive from me. My friends and I were planning to go to Green Bay to see a football game thus I'd have a reason to meet her. I want to know how to get to know her better and better. I'm talking in terms of a friendship, since she has a boyfriend.

08-29-2007, 10:10 PM	#2
barbielovesmac Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 2,803	Oooooo I'd be pissed if I were her boyfriend and I found out she was talking to a total stranger on Myspace. She's absolutely great and has a boyfriend! You want to go see her?! That's crossing a boundary!!! Watch out buddy! Last edited by barbielovesmac; 08-29-2007 at 10:15 PM.

08-29-2007, 10:11 PM	#3
AwdreeHpburn Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Tiffany's Gender: Female Age: 37 Posts: 4,639	hmmmmm...... that sounds a bit of challenge mate, to be honest. What does SHE think of you're driving out there and a meet up?? __________________ What i really meant to say, is that I'm sorry for the way I am......

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renaissancewoman101 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: the land by the sea Gender: Female Age: 36 Posts: 8,565	blah post. Last edited by renaissancewoman101; 08-29-2007 at 10:34 PM. Reason: I made a stupid post

08-29-2007, 10:13 PM	#4
Batya33 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 19,074	Obviously you want to get to know her as more than a friend and of course other than seeing a picture of her she is a total stranger as far as whether the two of you would click in person. I would end contact and perhaps tell her she can contact you if she is ever unattached.

08-29-2007, 10:19 PM	#6
Batya33 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 19,074	I think it's fine as long as you meet her and her boyfriend.

08-29-2007, 10:21 PM	#7
barbielovesmac Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 2,803	You've met her?! Unless her boyfriend knew, then that's completely inappropriate. She may only like you as a friend. But from the start of your thread it's apparent that you like her as more??? Just going off what you said about her.

08-29-2007, 10:26 PM	#10
ElektraHere Offline Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: West Coast Gender: Female Age: 37 Posts: 2,379	I'd say that the only way to know if someone is your fit is to actually spend time with them. Also it helps if they are unattached, which in this case this girl is not. I would say you are putting too much into it and if she has a b/f you are sort of crossing a line that should NOT be crossed. Things like this never work out. Just peruse a few of the posts at this forum and you will see.