Im going to be strong, Im not gonna give in to his charm, looks, personality..argh!

x_perfect_stranger_x · 08-29-2007, 09:49 AM

What on earth am I doing to myself!? Seriously, I know he is bad for me but theres something about him that makes me want to be near him. I hooked up with this guy a while back and lately we've been talking again, we were supposed to go out a couple of weeks ago but he cancelled, now he wants to see me this weekend but Ive changed my plans, Ive decided if he still comes by to see me then he is seriously interested and doesnt mind putting in some effort, however, if he doesnt and makes up a lame excuse I'l do my best to move on.

He works long hours and studys as well, he said once his project finishes for work (in 2 weeks time) he'l definitly come by because he wants to see me. He flirts with me like crazy, however, Ive noticed on his myspace page theres this girl who flirts with him, and he does it back but not as much as she does. They are apperently close friends, but who knows...

I dont know why Im thinking about this anyway! Its not like Im going to marry him!!! Im just dating and having fun, nothing serious... Im just confused I guess... LOL

Anyway thanks for reading if you did, if you didnt then you really didnt miss out on anything special hehe

Im off to bed, I think Ive vented enough for one night!

Lana0120 · 08-29-2007, 10:14 AM

Start seeing other guys to take your mind off this dude!

Batya33 · 08-29-2007, 10:32 AM

He's not too busy for a relationship with you he's just not interested or available for a relationship with you. I date men far busier than he sounds - if they are interested, they will make it clear. After all, he has time to flirt on myspace.

poloplayer · 08-29-2007, 10:57 AM

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He's not too busy for a relationship with you he's just not interested or available for a relationship with you. I date men far busier than he sounds - if they are interested, they will make it clear. After all, he has time to flirt on myspace.

I can work 80 hour weeks, run/swim for an hour each day, commute to and from work, study for a class I'm taking part time, shove some food in my body, and get 4-5 hours of sleep each night. If I am interested in someone, then I have no problem finding some time to send off an e-mail or give a quick ring, but, I might have a problem seeing them often with my busy schedule.

08-29-2007, 09:49 AM	#1
x_perfect_stranger_x Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: In a house!! duh! hehe =P Gender: Female Posts: 275	Im going to be strong, Im not gonna give in to his charm, looks, personality..argh! What on earth am I doing to myself!? Seriously, I know he is bad for me but theres something about him that makes me want to be near him. I hooked up with this guy a while back and lately we've been talking again, we were supposed to go out a couple of weeks ago but he cancelled, now he wants to see me this weekend but Ive changed my plans, Ive decided if he still comes by to see me then he is seriously interested and doesnt mind putting in some effort, however, if he doesnt and makes up a lame excuse I'l do my best to move on. He works long hours and studys as well, he said once his project finishes for work (in 2 weeks time) he'l definitly come by because he wants to see me. He flirts with me like crazy, however, Ive noticed on his myspace page theres this girl who flirts with him, and he does it back but not as much as she does. They are apperently close friends, but who knows... I dont know why Im thinking about this anyway! Its not like Im going to marry him!!! Im just dating and having fun, nothing serious... Im just confused I guess... LOL Anyway thanks for reading if you did, if you didnt then you really didnt miss out on anything special hehe Im off to bed, I think Ive vented enough for one night! __________________ "Life isnt about having the best car, biggest house or allot of money, in the end we all die and will be turned to dust, we wont take anything with us when we die as we didnt bring anything with us when we came here" - X_perfect_stranger_X

08-29-2007, 10:14 AM	#2
Lana0120 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 3,467	Start seeing other guys to take your mind off this dude!

08-29-2007, 10:32 AM	#3
Batya33 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 19,062	He's not too busy for a relationship with you he's just not interested or available for a relationship with you. I date men far busier than he sounds - if they are interested, they will make it clear. After all, he has time to flirt on myspace.