Any people who found a psychological development by starting a sexlife?

Belgian girl · 08-15-2007, 09:59 PM

just wondering.. also b/c I think the fact I had a 'longterm' (9month, I know, not that long but I also know a lot of people around my ago who has never been in a relationship or only in short ones) has been positive to my psychological development

ElektraHere · 08-15-2007, 10:07 PM

Im not sure what your asking? Are you equating having a sexlife to increasing say your self-esteem??

Belgian girl · 08-15-2007, 10:20 PM

hmm.. I have the idea that if I hadn't been in the relationship I would have grown less (development) and I think as well it could be possible that some things in life could be more positive if they happen in a certain stage during the lifespan.. just makes me ask myself if having sex is like that as well

ElektraHere · 08-15-2007, 10:23 PM

We grow and learn all the time, even if we are in or not in a relationship. So I still dont get where your going with your post?

Miss Firecracker · 08-15-2007, 10:28 PM

Belgian,

Are you asking us if you will benefit from a booty call?

Belgian girl · 08-15-2007, 10:30 PM

well

, the question came while I was studying my course Development Psychology.. there it seems life is built up of different stages and depending on those stages, people are more sensitive for some kind of influences and it seems to be good/healthy if the right things are happening/getting stimulated when you are on a certain age. I was just wondering if there's perhaps someone who can say about his-/herself that sex is one of them (like I found out for myself being in a relationship) has felt like something good to learn and that he/she would have missed something instead of other people if they would have retarded that process.

I agree we learn all the time

but even then I think it could be possible some things are more positive than other to let happen

Miss Firecracker · 08-15-2007, 10:32 PM

I think sex is a beautiful thing. I highly recommend it.

ElektraHere · 08-15-2007, 10:34 PM

Either the sun has melted my brain or I am just not understanding this question. I am going to bow out for now.

All I can say is having sex is not a bad thing unless you arent ready for it, are too young, or it is against your will. Other than that like Miss Firecracker said "sex is a beautiful thing."

Belgian girl · 08-15-2007, 10:35 PM

thnx

that could be enough answer

(and I read your previous post afterwards I reacted.. but no, not a bootycall for me (

) but I was thinking about sex without a loverelationship, I must admit)

I just expect it could be a good thing just to learn about it

renaissancewoman101 · 08-15-2007, 10:36 PM

Maybe she wants to have a sexual fling?

I dunno.

08-15-2007, 09:59 PM	#1
Belgian girl Offline Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Belgium Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 1,622	Any people who found a psychological development by starting a sexlife? just wondering.. also b/c I think the fact I had a 'longterm' (9month, I know, not that long but I also know a lot of people around my ago who has never been in a relationship or only in short ones) has been positive to my psychological development

08-15-2007, 10:35 PM	#9
Belgian girl Offline Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Belgium Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 1,622	thnx that could be enough answer (and I read your previous post afterwards I reacted.. but no, not a bootycall for me () but I was thinking about sex without a loverelationship, I must admit) I just expect it could be a good thing just to learn about it

08-15-2007, 10:07 PM	#2
ElektraHere Offline Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: West Coast Gender: Female Age: 37 Posts: 2,379	Im not sure what your asking? Are you equating having a sexlife to increasing say your self-esteem??

08-15-2007, 10:20 PM	#3
Belgian girl Offline Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Belgium Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 1,622	hmm.. I have the idea that if I hadn't been in the relationship I would have grown less (development) and I think as well it could be possible that some things in life could be more positive if they happen in a certain stage during the lifespan.. just makes me ask myself if having sex is like that as well

08-15-2007, 10:23 PM	#4
ElektraHere Offline Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: West Coast Gender: Female Age: 37 Posts: 2,379	We grow and learn all the time, even if we are in or not in a relationship. So I still dont get where your going with your post?

08-15-2007, 10:28 PM	#5
Miss Firecracker Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 4,150	Belgian, Are you asking us if you will benefit from a booty call?

08-15-2007, 10:30 PM	#6
Belgian girl Offline Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Belgium Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 1,622	well , the question came while I was studying my course Development Psychology.. there it seems life is built up of different stages and depending on those stages, people are more sensitive for some kind of influences and it seems to be good/healthy if the right things are happening/getting stimulated when you are on a certain age. I was just wondering if there's perhaps someone who can say about his-/herself that sex is one of them (like I found out for myself being in a relationship) has felt like something good to learn and that he/she would have missed something instead of other people if they would have retarded that process. I agree we learn all the time but even then I think it could be possible some things are more positive than other to let happen

08-15-2007, 10:32 PM	#7
Miss Firecracker Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 4,150	I think sex is a beautiful thing. I highly recommend it.

08-15-2007, 10:34 PM	#8
ElektraHere Offline Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: West Coast Gender: Female Age: 37 Posts: 2,379	Either the sun has melted my brain or I am just not understanding this question. I am going to bow out for now. All I can say is having sex is not a bad thing unless you arent ready for it, are too young, or it is against your will. Other than that like Miss Firecracker said "sex is a beautiful thing."

08-15-2007, 10:36 PM	#10
renaissancewoman101 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: the land by the sea Gender: Female Age: 36 Posts: 8,563	Maybe she wants to have a sexual fling? I dunno.