Hmmm

scaredtodeathjmb · 07-24-2007, 07:21 PM

Sooo ive had sex about 8-10 times in the past month about 6 times he came inside of me all 6 of the times he came were with protection and ill also add that we were both fully clothes he just simple moved my shorts and underware over so even though we were fully clothes he was inside of me but the times he came were with protection but there were atleast 3-4 times in the past month that he put him self in me for less than a minute without protection we also had the clothes on not that i think it matters since there was pennetration even though it was for less than a minute one time was in a pool again none of the times he came....

ok im very young in fact my first period was less than 2- 2 1/2 years ago and for the first year i only was gettiong periods ever 3-4 months but in the last year has been regualar well more regular than one ever 3-4 months my period is never on the same day every month but is usually in within a few days before or after the last i do not remember the day i recieved it in may but in june i got it on the 23rd so i was expecting it 22,23, and today of this month but i just have cramps and bloating...

ive been doing research on some early pregnancy symptoms i havent noticed anything my breats are not sore im not nausious no darkening of the area around my nipple i mean if i squeeze my nipples yeah they hurt but nothing out of the ordinarry i have cramps with discharge but the discharge isnt anything abnormal for me either

my boyfriend doesnt seem to be worried bout it at all since weve used protection everytime hes came inside me....ive also been researching things that would of delayed my period.....1. stress of being in a sexual relationship for the first time....2. being sexually active for the first time has gotten me off track (the end of last month and this month were my first sexual expierences ever) 3. stress of being pregnant .....4. stress of life family school etc.. 5. less days in june than may has got my cycle off a day or two (like i said im not like clockwork)

any input is helpfull i guess the next step is HPT but i feel like my period is right around the corner ive had cramps for a few days worse than usual...thanks in advanc anything is apreciated...thanks

friscodj · 07-24-2007, 07:36 PM

Welcome to ENA scaredtodeathjmb, great to have you here.

I think you're going to be fine here, but take a more important message from what you're going through right now...

Please be very, very careful when you have sex. You are super young and getting pregnant will change your life forever.

This is all new to you, exciting, but look at yourself now? Do you want to continue to live this way? In fear and stress like this? Read your post again here. This situation is really stressing you out.

Take the steps and precautions you need to put yourself at ease here. If that means taking the pill and using a condom, do it. If it means not having sex as much, do it. If it means other methods, look into those too. Figure out a good balance between pleasure and detressing with this.

At any rate, keep your wits about you here and think through your feelings as well. Weigh the situation and the options here. What is better for you, the pleasure of sex or the stress of going through situations like this over and over again? Make sure you're comfortable with your methods of protection and can accept the risk involved, no matter how small they may be. Educate yourself, know all your options, know what they are about, know the effectiveness. Knowledge is power and the knowledge along with some more experience with these methods will likely put you more at ease with this.

MorQ · 07-25-2007, 12:40 AM

I really like your advice friscodj, you always seem to be nice and give everyone the benefit of the doubt..

I dont have much else to add to the original poster, just think twice about what your doing.. 5 minutes of pleasure isnt worth losing alot more.

scaredtodeathjmb · 07-25-2007, 01:30 AM

thanks but based on what ive said would you say bout my chances of being pregnant.... very high to very low?

friscodj · 07-25-2007, 02:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by scaredtodeathjmb

thanks but based on what ive said would you say bout my chances of being pregnant.... very high to very low?

It doesn't sound like you are, but only time can tell for sure. If you really want a sure answer, you'd be better off taking an HPT. It will know better than we will.

**Hope75** · 07-25-2007, 11:06 AM

Have you considered getting on the pill as well? Condoms are somewhat effective, but there is alot of room for user error, especially when the user is inexperienced. Adding the pill to your protection plan can help decrease the chances significantly.

If you are in the US, you can check out Planned Parenthood, they can provide you with options and information, even as an underaged teen.

[Only registered and activated users can see links. ]

I want to add that wearing clothes while he penetrates you is not going to give you any protection. As long as the penis enters the vagina, there is a chance of getting pregnant.

Please be careful.

snowgirl · 07-25-2007, 04:20 PM

The chances of you being pregnant now? I can't say. The chances of you getting pregnant should you continue to have sex in this manner? Extremely high. If you continue to do this, you are very likely to get pregnant. It's really very important that you get yourself on some sort of reliable birth control. And no penis inside your vagina, EVER, without a condom unless you are on a form of reliable birth control yourself. It does not matter if you are wearing clothes, and it does not matter if he does not ejaculate inside you. There are generally sperm in the pre-ejaculate, especially if he has had an orgasm in the past day or two. You should always count on a penis being a loaded gun. I don't mean that to sound cute, I am telling it like it is.

Get yourself some birth control from your doctor.

petey1343608 · 07-25-2007, 07:46 PM

Please Get Some Birth Control. If Condoms Or The Pill Aren't Your Or His Thing, There Are Other Options>

scaredtodeathjmb · 07-26-2007, 03:44 PM

ok i have another quick question.....very recently like the time i was expecting my period i tryed boat tubing which if you didnt know needs tons of upper body strength ... and since i wasnt used to it my whole body ended up very sore and is still today... 4 days later... so the question is can things like physical strain on the body delay you...i already know my stress could but what bout physical strain that leaves the whole body sore....also can things like lack of sleep cause delay or is that just a symptom?

southerngirl · 07-26-2007, 07:00 PM

It possibly could. Are you late for your period? If so you really should take a pregnancy test. If you dont want anyone to know at your house, maybe you can take it at a friends house or....just walk into the store and buy one. Then go to any fast food place or somewhere that there is a public restroom. Put the test in your purse and go int eh bathroom and do what you got to do. Then you can find out in privacy.

Also check out your local health department or planned parenthood. They often can give you an accurate test for low or no cost even if you are under the age of 18.

07-24-2007, 07:21 PM	#1
scaredtodeathjmb Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 6	Hmmm Sooo ive had sex about 8-10 times in the past month about 6 times he came inside of me all 6 of the times he came were with protection and ill also add that we were both fully clothes he just simple moved my shorts and underware over so even though we were fully clothes he was inside of me but the times he came were with protection but there were atleast 3-4 times in the past month that he put him self in me for less than a minute without protection we also had the clothes on not that i think it matters since there was pennetration even though it was for less than a minute one time was in a pool again none of the times he came.... ok im very young in fact my first period was less than 2- 2 1/2 years ago and for the first year i only was gettiong periods ever 3-4 months but in the last year has been regualar well more regular than one ever 3-4 months my period is never on the same day every month but is usually in within a few days before or after the last i do not remember the day i recieved it in may but in june i got it on the 23rd so i was expecting it 22,23, and today of this month but i just have cramps and bloating... ive been doing research on some early pregnancy symptoms i havent noticed anything my breats are not sore im not nausious no darkening of the area around my nipple i mean if i squeeze my nipples yeah they hurt but nothing out of the ordinarry i have cramps with discharge but the discharge isnt anything abnormal for me either my boyfriend doesnt seem to be worried bout it at all since weve used protection everytime hes came inside me....ive also been researching things that would of delayed my period.....1. stress of being in a sexual relationship for the first time....2. being sexually active for the first time has gotten me off track (the end of last month and this month were my first sexual expierences ever) 3. stress of being pregnant .....4. stress of life family school etc.. 5. less days in june than may has got my cycle off a day or two (like i said im not like clockwork) any input is helpfull i guess the next step is HPT but i feel like my period is right around the corner ive had cramps for a few days worse than usual...thanks in advanc anything is apreciated...thanks

07-24-2007, 07:36 PM	#2
friscodj Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Gender: Male Age: 33 Posts: 4,401	Welcome to ENA scaredtodeathjmb, great to have you here. I think you're going to be fine here, but take a more important message from what you're going through right now... Please be very, very careful when you have sex. You are super young and getting pregnant will change your life forever. This is all new to you, exciting, but look at yourself now? Do you want to continue to live this way? In fear and stress like this? Read your post again here. This situation is really stressing you out. Take the steps and precautions you need to put yourself at ease here. If that means taking the pill and using a condom, do it. If it means not having sex as much, do it. If it means other methods, look into those too. Figure out a good balance between pleasure and detressing with this. At any rate, keep your wits about you here and think through your feelings as well. Weigh the situation and the options here. What is better for you, the pleasure of sex or the stress of going through situations like this over and over again? Make sure you're comfortable with your methods of protection and can accept the risk involved, no matter how small they may be. Educate yourself, know all your options, know what they are about, know the effectiveness. Knowledge is power and the knowledge along with some more experience with these methods will likely put you more at ease with this. Last edited by friscodj; 07-24-2007 at 07:47 PM.

07-25-2007, 11:06 AM	#6
Hope75 Offline Super Moderator Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: kitteh ville Gender: Female Age: 33 Posts: 12,512	Have you considered getting on the pill as well? Condoms are somewhat effective, but there is alot of room for user error, especially when the user is inexperienced. Adding the pill to your protection plan can help decrease the chances significantly. If you are in the US, you can check out Planned Parenthood, they can provide you with options and information, even as an underaged teen. [Only registered and activated users can see links. ] I want to add that wearing clothes while he penetrates you is not going to give you any protection. As long as the penis enters the vagina, there is a chance of getting pregnant. Please be careful. __________________ Muffin cats need love too. Please refer to the forum rules before posting: http://www.enotalone.com/forum/forum-rules.php Mama to a beautiful baby girl born 6-25-09. :)

07-26-2007, 07:00 PM	#10
southerngirl Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: NW Georgia Gender: Female Posts: 3,032	It possibly could. Are you late for your period? If so you really should take a pregnancy test. If you dont want anyone to know at your house, maybe you can take it at a friends house or....just walk into the store and buy one. Then go to any fast food place or somewhere that there is a public restroom. Put the test in your purse and go int eh bathroom and do what you got to do. Then you can find out in privacy. Also check out your local health department or planned parenthood. They often can give you an accurate test for low or no cost even if you are under the age of 18. __________________ A wise man learns by the mistakes of others, a fool by his own. Latin Proverb

07-25-2007, 12:40 AM	#3
MorQ Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Minnesota Gender: Female Posts: 88	I really like your advice friscodj, you always seem to be nice and give everyone the benefit of the doubt.. I dont have much else to add to the original poster, just think twice about what your doing.. 5 minutes of pleasure isnt worth losing alot more.

07-25-2007, 01:30 AM	#4
scaredtodeathjmb Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 6	thanks but based on what ive said would you say bout my chances of being pregnant.... very high to very low?

07-25-2007, 04:20 PM	#7
snowgirl Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 249	The chances of you being pregnant now? I can't say. The chances of you getting pregnant should you continue to have sex in this manner? Extremely high. If you continue to do this, you are very likely to get pregnant. It's really very important that you get yourself on some sort of reliable birth control. And no penis inside your vagina, EVER, without a condom unless you are on a form of reliable birth control yourself. It does not matter if you are wearing clothes, and it does not matter if he does not ejaculate inside you. There are generally sperm in the pre-ejaculate, especially if he has had an orgasm in the past day or two. You should always count on a penis being a loaded gun. I don't mean that to sound cute, I am telling it like it is. Get yourself some birth control from your doctor.

07-25-2007, 07:46 PM	#8
petey1343608 Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: new york Gender: Male Posts: 43	Please Get Some Birth Control. If Condoms Or The Pill Aren't Your Or His Thing, There Are Other Options>

07-26-2007, 03:44 PM	#9
scaredtodeathjmb Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 6	ok i have another quick question.....very recently like the time i was expecting my period i tryed boat tubing which if you didnt know needs tons of upper body strength ... and since i wasnt used to it my whole body ended up very sore and is still today... 4 days later... so the question is can things like physical strain on the body delay you...i already know my stress could but what bout physical strain that leaves the whole body sore....also can things like lack of sleep cause delay or is that just a symptom?