What should I do next? With my gf?

U dont need to no! · 07-23-2007, 03:23 PM

Hey this is my first 1 of these so here goes!

I dont no wat to do with this girl I meet we will call her Amy!

Ive only got to no her over the last 3-4 months but we get on so well its amazing shes amazing! Me an her spend alot of time together when we go out as a group and we flit alot she flirts alot with other people aswell but she flirts loads with me!

We hav slept together twice before but not as in sex but just slept arm in arm. I like her as more than a friend but im not sure if she likes me as more than a friend an dont no if ther is any way of finding out if she will go out with me before i ask her out?

Pleaze help!

jsx730 · 07-23-2007, 03:28 PM

Why draw it out?

Just tell her how you feel, and if she feels the same, she'll tell you.

flower99 · 07-23-2007, 03:37 PM

it sounds like she likes you.....tell her how you feel ~ great risks brings great rewards (:
Ask her out.

AvsFan · 07-23-2007, 06:20 PM

Yea she likes you. You could give it more time, but what I'd do is ask her out. Chances are she'll say yes.

Mophead · 07-23-2007, 06:23 PM

Or you could kiss her on the cheek and see if she kisses you back. Easier then asking if you feel your close to her. Plus if she says no, it isn't the end. Just say it was a friendly kiss.

AvsFan · 07-23-2007, 06:30 PM

Or its actually a possibility that she has been waiting for a kiss... for a while

flower99 · 07-24-2007, 03:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mophead

Or you could kiss her on the cheek and see if she kisses you back. Easier then asking if you feel your close to her. Plus if she says no, it isn't the end. Just say it was a friendly kiss.

Yep that's a great idea.
that's how my finacee began it, we cuddled lots...than he kissed my forhead, and I looked at him and up we began kissing.. (: later began dating...been together over 2 years now
plus like mophead said, if she says no, just say it was a friendly kiss...he he he (but i doubt she'll say no, it sounds like she likes you)

07-23-2007, 03:23 PM	#1
U dont need to no! Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Bristol Gender: Male Age: 18 Posts: 5	What should I do next? With my gf? Hey this is my first 1 of these so here goes! I dont no wat to do with this girl I meet we will call her Amy! Ive only got to no her over the last 3-4 months but we get on so well its amazing shes amazing! Me an her spend alot of time together when we go out as a group and we flit alot she flirts alot with other people aswell but she flirts loads with me! We hav slept together twice before but not as in sex but just slept arm in arm. I like her as more than a friend but im not sure if she likes me as more than a friend an dont no if ther is any way of finding out if she will go out with me before i ask her out? Pleaze help!

07-23-2007, 03:37 PM	#3
flower99 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 1,950	it sounds like she likes you.....tell her how you feel ~ great risks brings great rewards (: Ask her out. __________________ ~Love is not gazing into each other's eyes; it is looking together in the same direction.~ ~ There are a lot of changes in life, how we react to them that matters, it's what makes us who we are. ~

07-23-2007, 06:20 PM	#4
AvsFan Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 119	Yea she likes you. You could give it more time, but what I'd do is ask her out. Chances are she'll say yes. __________________ Change Is Inevitable

07-23-2007, 06:30 PM	#6
AvsFan Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 119	Or its actually a possibility that she has been waiting for a kiss... for a while __________________ Change Is Inevitable

07-23-2007, 03:28 PM	#2
jsx730 Offline Silver Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 686	Why draw it out? Just tell her how you feel, and if she feels the same, she'll tell you.

07-23-2007, 06:23 PM	#5
Mophead Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 6	Or you could kiss her on the cheek and see if she kisses you back. Easier then asking if you feel your close to her. Plus if she says no, it isn't the end. Just say it was a friendly kiss.