masturbation addiction.

leslee · 07-20-2007, 03:29 AM

Ok so I'm a female and I always thought of masturbation to be a healthy thing. It wasn't until today that I realized I have a problem. I find myself masturbating everyday ATLEAST 10x a day. Before it was brought on by sexual thoughts but now I'll do it without one sexual thought crossing my mind. When I'm bored, before bed, when I'm mad, when I'm happy, when I'm sad, ect. Does anyone know how I can overcome this?

Scare · 07-20-2007, 04:08 AM

Over time. And it's not "unhealthy" it's actualyl somtimes good for you. I slightly have the same problem sometimes. Only im a guy. Over time you will eventually die out of it.

also it depends how old you are.

how old are you?

leslee · 07-20-2007, 04:31 AM

20 years old.

hello-I-am-me · 07-20-2007, 04:55 AM

Its not anything to worry too much about, but it seams like it might cut into your day. although its not dangerous or anything, that is a little excessive. I would try making a consious effort to spend your time doing other things.

SylviaD · 07-20-2007, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Scare

Over time. And it's not "unhealthy" it's actualyl somtimes good for you.

Dude be real! She said 10 times a day!! That's way too much, it's not normal and its not healthy because it will interfere with friends family and other things. how can you find the time to do it 10 times a day without cutting into other things.

I think she might be addicted to it.

free2Bme · 07-20-2007, 08:44 AM

anything in excess is an addiction.

10 times a day is excessive!

Are you doing it out of nothing else to do, to pass time? Or do you find yourself having to cram it in whenever you get a spare minute cos you are so horny?

Scare · 07-20-2007, 05:33 PM

sylvia it's something some people do more than others. When i first started to masturbate i did it about 5 times a day which is **** loads harder for a guy. But It's usually caused by stress. Or excitement. And you said you we're 20. I'm 22 and i stoped the problem when i was about 21.

mo'Nique · 07-21-2007, 01:30 AM

yes, you will overcome this. You will eventually become bored with it and your mind will wander to other things. If you find yourself thinking about doing it immediately fill in your time by doing something like calling a friend, taking a walk, going to the mall, etc.

or try this: In the privacy of your room, play your favorite cd, crank up the volume and just start dancing! It may sound crazy, but it will free your mind (and afterwards you may be too tired to masturbate)

wandy27 · 07-21-2007, 01:33 AM

at your age i dont think is much although others might think it is,not everyone is the same,i myself use to masturbate about the same amount as u when i was around your age but after a few months it died out then i use to do it maybe 3 times a week ect but is ok is a stage u going tru

il be over soon

Scare · 07-21-2007, 04:18 AM

eh for men it tends to become a habbit because we have porn and everything. for women they don't exactly have webstes for penis'... do they?

07-20-2007, 03:29 AM	#1
leslee Offline Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 2	masturbation addiction. Ok so I'm a female and I always thought of masturbation to be a healthy thing. It wasn't until today that I realized I have a problem. I find myself masturbating everyday ATLEAST 10x a day. Before it was brought on by sexual thoughts but now I'll do it without one sexual thought crossing my mind. When I'm bored, before bed, when I'm mad, when I'm happy, when I'm sad, ect. Does anyone know how I can overcome this?

07-20-2007, 04:08 AM	#2
Scare Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: CA Gender: Male Posts: 84	Over time. And it's not "unhealthy" it's actualyl somtimes good for you. I slightly have the same problem sometimes. Only im a guy. Over time you will eventually die out of it. also it depends how old you are. how old are you? __________________ I like to picture jesus.. wearing a tuxedo shirt.. so it says that he likes to be formal.. but party at the same time. I like to picture jesus.. with big ol' angel wings.. and singing lead vocals for lynerd skynerd.. with a big angel band in the back round.

07-20-2007, 04:55 AM	#4
hello-I-am-me Offline Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 154	Its not anything to worry too much about, but it seams like it might cut into your day. although its not dangerous or anything, that is a little excessive. I would try making a consious effort to spend your time doing other things. __________________ "At least I'm not being eaten by a bear."

07-20-2007, 05:33 PM	#7
Scare Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: CA Gender: Male Posts: 84	sylvia it's something some people do more than others. When i first started to masturbate i did it about 5 times a day which is **** loads harder for a guy. But It's usually caused by stress. Or excitement. And you said you we're 20. I'm 22 and i stoped the problem when i was about 21. __________________ I like to picture jesus.. wearing a tuxedo shirt.. so it says that he likes to be formal.. but party at the same time. I like to picture jesus.. with big ol' angel wings.. and singing lead vocals for lynerd skynerd.. with a big angel band in the back round.

07-21-2007, 01:30 AM	#8
mo'Nique Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Among the reptilians... Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 898	yes, you will overcome this. You will eventually become bored with it and your mind will wander to other things. If you find yourself thinking about doing it immediately fill in your time by doing something like calling a friend, taking a walk, going to the mall, etc. or try this: In the privacy of your room, play your favorite cd, crank up the volume and just start dancing! It may sound crazy, but it will free your mind (and afterwards you may be too tired to masturbate) __________________ ........Think Green

07-20-2007, 04:31 AM	#3
leslee Offline Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 2	20 years old.

07-20-2007, 08:44 AM	#6
free2Bme Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: UK Gender: Female Age: 30 Posts: 761	anything in excess is an addiction. 10 times a day is excessive! Are you doing it out of nothing else to do, to pass time? Or do you find yourself having to cram it in whenever you get a spare minute cos you are so horny?

07-21-2007, 01:33 AM	#9
wandy27 Offline Bronze Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: nyc Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 203	at your age i dont think is much although others might think it is,not everyone is the same,i myself use to masturbate about the same amount as u when i was around your age but after a few months it died out then i use to do it maybe 3 times a week ect but is ok is a stage u going tru il be over soon __________________ ************************* * A doubting mind * * Is forced to live * * In the prison of loneliness. * ************************* PS. sorry i sometimes dont write proper english and cut words short to type quicker or sometimes use slang:( hope ya dont mind ur gurl wandy

07-21-2007, 04:18 AM	#10
Scare Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: CA Gender: Male Posts: 84	eh for men it tends to become a habbit because we have porn and everything. for women they don't exactly have webstes for penis'... do they? __________________ I like to picture jesus.. wearing a tuxedo shirt.. so it says that he likes to be formal.. but party at the same time. I like to picture jesus.. with big ol' angel wings.. and singing lead vocals for lynerd skynerd.. with a big angel band in the back round.