Compatibility and Astrology

DLH55 · 07-17-2007, 05:28 AM

Good day...

22 year old marriage has ended...last 5 years was pretty rocky but wife left because ( I don't love you enought story )...As I struggle with a broken heart I found EnotAlone and the writings of Super Dave....God Bless you All , with out your help, well things would have been more difficult I am sure.

As I search for my new beginning I am still trying to find out what happen...why did my wife fall out of love with me and then I goggled unto Compatibility and Astrology....although I never looked into this before alot of what I read is pretty true.

With out explaining much about my positive traits I will quote some of my negative traits which I read...In a humorus way I wonder how this would look on a Date line profile...I am Stubborn, overbearing, unforgiving, inhibited, condescending ...just to name a few of Capricorn qualities....before anyone writes and agrees with why my wife fell out of love, you best read your own negative side also before you respond to this post.

When I read my wifes sign of Aries/Pisces it almost suggest that we where doomed to end our relationship from the beginning. Not knowing much about Astrology I kinda wonder if anyone has looked at their relationship from this point of view. If I am to believe that it is true, it kinda gives me a better reason in understanding why my wife has gone off into her new world.

What happens with us with a 2 month No Contact , I have know idea but it appears that as each day turns into darkness I feel better about my new life. We have three grown children with three grandchildren and they have and need a whole lot of love to share. My wife wanted her space and that is exactly how I will show my love to her as difficult as that sounds.

Maybe one day love will find me again and it sure would be nice if it was my wife, I feel that I have failed her and myself but if the Stars read true perhaps this is just another phase of my life's journey.

I write this for you to read because I got a few question answered for myself which helped....so let me have your opinions on " For better for Worse, for richer for poorer , in sickness and healthy , Compatibility and Astrology....

hope it helps some of you in a good way...because as I quote Red Green...." I am a Man, I can Change, If I have too, I Guess".

dlh55

Back to listening to John Lee Hooker " The Blues will Heal You "

Scotcha · 07-17-2007, 07:30 AM

It might be easier right now to console yourself and say, "We were doomed from the start because I am Capricorn and she is Aries." In reality though I don't think that's fair, so say 22 years ended because of Astrology. More importantly though, I feel it may prevent you from looking at the real cause for the end of your marriage. You will find love again but it is important to learn from your mistakes made in the past first. I want to throw in here that my parents divorced after (ironically) 22 years of marriage. My father is remarried now and is the happiest he has been in his entire life. It might seem that after such a long relationship there is little hope of finding a new one but that is simply not the case!

I do believe there is some truth to Astrology though. You see, I too can be subborn, overbearing, unforgiving, inhibited, and condescending. But then again, I'm a Leo.

RebeccaChow · 07-17-2007, 07:48 AM

Yes! I believe in astrology to the point that I sorta avoid dating those signs that clash my sign. & I also believe in chinese astrology - the yearly one.

Its all good... its true, after dating several guys & monitoring my relationships with them, the traits & compatibilities are true to a large extend, not entirely of course - each person is different.

However, what you do & how much you commit in a relationship also affects the way it works out. Don't beat yourself up over it... take care!

xx

Weeblie · 07-17-2007, 12:57 PM

I've done this before with past relationships. The funny thing though...
depending on what site you go to, the results are always different. Most of the time they'll say things like, while leos and capricorns (all my major exes are capricorns) are complete opposites, this union can work.

I think it's just a good way to distract myself when I can't handle thinking about how things ended up.

Wandering_Sword · 07-17-2007, 04:30 PM

Welcome to ENA

I have a friend who is a professional astrologist that did my reading (I said yes on a lark) for my ex and I. He said we would do very well together and the compatibility was there. Yet, I refer to her as my EX. For entertainment purposes sure I was intrigued, but to have it govern my life? Never.

"Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

This is the uncanny truth my friend.

07-17-2007, 05:28 AM	#1
DLH55 Offline Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Canada Gender: Male Posts: 39	Compatibility and Astrology Good day... 22 year old marriage has ended...last 5 years was pretty rocky but wife left because ( I don't love you enought story )...As I struggle with a broken heart I found EnotAlone and the writings of Super Dave....God Bless you All , with out your help, well things would have been more difficult I am sure. As I search for my new beginning I am still trying to find out what happen...why did my wife fall out of love with me and then I goggled unto Compatibility and Astrology....although I never looked into this before alot of what I read is pretty true. With out explaining much about my positive traits I will quote some of my negative traits which I read...In a humorus way I wonder how this would look on a Date line profile...I am Stubborn, overbearing, unforgiving, inhibited, condescending ...just to name a few of Capricorn qualities....before anyone writes and agrees with why my wife fell out of love, you best read your own negative side also before you respond to this post. When I read my wifes sign of Aries/Pisces it almost suggest that we where doomed to end our relationship from the beginning. Not knowing much about Astrology I kinda wonder if anyone has looked at their relationship from this point of view. If I am to believe that it is true, it kinda gives me a better reason in understanding why my wife has gone off into her new world. What happens with us with a 2 month No Contact , I have know idea but it appears that as each day turns into darkness I feel better about my new life. We have three grown children with three grandchildren and they have and need a whole lot of love to share. My wife wanted her space and that is exactly how I will show my love to her as difficult as that sounds. Maybe one day love will find me again and it sure would be nice if it was my wife, I feel that I have failed her and myself but if the Stars read true perhaps this is just another phase of my life's journey. I write this for you to read because I got a few question answered for myself which helped....so let me have your opinions on " For better for Worse, for richer for poorer , in sickness and healthy , Compatibility and Astrology.... hope it helps some of you in a good way...because as I quote Red Green...." I am a Man, I can Change, If I have too, I Guess". dlh55 Back to listening to John Lee Hooker " The Blues will Heal You "

07-17-2007, 07:48 AM	#3
RebeccaChow Offline Silver Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Singapore! Gender: Female Posts: 616	Yes! I believe in astrology to the point that I sorta avoid dating those signs that clash my sign. & I also believe in chinese astrology - the yearly one. Its all good... its true, after dating several guys & monitoring my relationships with them, the traits & compatibilities are true to a large extend, not entirely of course - each person is different. However, what you do & how much you commit in a relationship also affects the way it works out. Don't beat yourself up over it... take care! xx __________________ Amo tutto di te e non faccio altro che pensare a te.

07-17-2007, 04:30 PM	#5
Wandering_Sword Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Witness Protection Program Gender: Male Age: 36 Posts: 1,347	Welcome to ENA I have a friend who is a professional astrologist that did my reading (I said yes on a lark) for my ex and I. He said we would do very well together and the compatibility was there. Yet, I refer to her as my EX. For entertainment purposes sure I was intrigued, but to have it govern my life? Never. "Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect." -Ralph Waldo Emerson This is the uncanny truth my friend. __________________ Light travels faster than sound. That's why some people appear brighter until you hear them speak.

07-17-2007, 07:30 AM	#2
Scotcha Offline Silver Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: New York Gender: Female Age: 27 Posts: 802	It might be easier right now to console yourself and say, "We were doomed from the start because I am Capricorn and she is Aries." In reality though I don't think that's fair, so say 22 years ended because of Astrology. More importantly though, I feel it may prevent you from looking at the real cause for the end of your marriage. You will find love again but it is important to learn from your mistakes made in the past first. I want to throw in here that my parents divorced after (ironically) 22 years of marriage. My father is remarried now and is the happiest he has been in his entire life. It might seem that after such a long relationship there is little hope of finding a new one but that is simply not the case! I do believe there is some truth to Astrology though. You see, I too can be subborn, overbearing, unforgiving, inhibited, and condescending. But then again, I'm a Leo.

07-17-2007, 12:57 PM	#4
Weeblie Offline Gold Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: land of eternal sunshine Gender: Female Age: 28 Posts: 954	I've done this before with past relationships. The funny thing though... depending on what site you go to, the results are always different. Most of the time they'll say things like, while leos and capricorns (all my major exes are capricorns) are complete opposites, this union can work. I think it's just a good way to distract myself when I can't handle thinking about how things ended up.