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    sex positions for when the guy is considerably taller than the girl

    i'm 5"5 and my boyfriend is 6"5. we had sex for our first time together the other night and.. a bit of an embarassing problem... because of the height difference we couldnt find any positions that worked because hes too much taller than me!!
    my favourite position is missionary, but my bf is really.. big (i dont mean fat, but like a big build.. big boned, big head, big kneecaps, big everything hahaha) and he doesnt like missionary because he "feels like hes going to squish me" (he's not) and because of the height difference when we tried it we couldnt kiss or anything, which is what i like about missionary.
    same went for me on top.. and i hate me on top, it doesnt feel good and i feel like an idiot just bouncing away up there. lol.
    doggy didnt work either... and his bed is too low so he cant do the whole like, stand up and me kneel thing
    after trying those three we just sort of gave up because it wasnt working... argh. i really wanted our first time together to be nice too. but my problem is i cant think of any other positions apart from those three!! well, there is lying down with your back facing them but again, you cant kiss during it, which is what i like to do... so yeah. any advice would be really appreciated

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    Hmm.. I'm 5'2" and my husband is 6'2" so there's a foot difference between us as well. Seriously, it just might take some getting used to. You may never be able to have sex cheek to cheek but you can still kiss, quite a lot actually! You just kind of have to tilt your head up while he tilts his down. For doggy style, instead of him standing on the floor have him kneel behind you on the bed. And if you're laying down on your side with your back to him, just lean back so that you're kind of half resting on him and half resting on the bed. That way you can just look over your shoulder and kiss pretty easily.

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    I'm taller than my wife too. Lemme think about what works...

    Sex on your sides. Spooning is easy.

    Sex on your back with legs up like a 'V'. Once he wiggles in he'll be leaning on
    your legs for support and you can help by pushing back a bit.

    Lay on your belly and kinda present your ass up a bit. Its simular to doggy but easier for him to support himself, and it just NAILS my wifes g-spot when I do it. Hope it works for you.

    Reverse Cow-girl in a chair... that wont leave you bouncing up there in the air. It also gives the guy a real eye-full of the action.

    No other positions really jump to mind. Best of luck!

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    I am 4'11 and my ex was 6'2. I can't say i have ever had that problem. Lying down height normally is not an issue.....

    The response above mine seems to have some good suggestions.

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    thanks so much for all the ideas! hehe. i always thought that there were heaps of sex positions but when you really think about it, apart from whipping out some crazy kama sutra moves theres only really a few basic ones.. maybe ill just have to get used to not kissing.. allthough lying down from behind and just twisting around a bit sounds good.
    those were also some really good ideas jerith, thanks - i've heard of the lying down one before but i never really understood how it works... i think i do now. think im going to have to try that one out aswell hehehe.
    thanks heaps!

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    Im 6'6 and my lady is i think 5'4. So yeah big difference. We usually go reverse cow girl or missionary. Occasionaly doggy so see if that works. And of course oral!
    All we have to decide is what to do with the time givin to us

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    im 6 foot 7 and my girlfriend is 5 foot 5 so there is a massive difference and we find doggie, lazy doggie, missionary, cowgirl, reverse cow girl, legs over shoulders, doggie off the edge of the bed the best positions for us you have to twist round abit but once you figure it out its easy :P

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    I'm 5' and my guy is 6'5".
    We have no issues with any position!
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    Quote Originally Posted by lewizlvznatali View Post
    im 6 foot 7 and my girlfriend is 5 foot 5 so there is a massive difference and we find doggie, lazy doggie, missionary, cowgirl, reverse cow girl, legs over shoulders, doggie off the edge of the bed the best positions for us you have to twist round abit but once you figure it out its easy :P
    gee, that's horribly limiting. haha luckkkkkky. this is why i want a tall bf.

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    or........... you can always trying sitting on the bed, and him sitting on the bed as well, and both of you do like a rockingchair motion... maybe that will work...
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