Is it a right of passage to not like the "in laws"?

Beehive · 07-05-2007, 11:30 PM

For some reason I do not like my fiance's step family. They are lazy, snotty and think they are better than anyone. For some reason it drives me mad even tough I rarely see them (On purpose). When he tells me stories about the stuff they do I just want to go tell them off? Does anyone have any ideas on how to get zen with this situation? I do not like this anger that is consuming me, and to my dismay they are part of my life.

Kalika · 07-05-2007, 11:38 PM

Maybe just do what you're doing? Limit contact with them.. But you should be considering the future too. I mean, you may want to have kids with this fiance one day.. Are you going to deny them access to your children? Is this something you and he are fighing about, or may start fighting about in the future?

wandy27 · 07-05-2007, 11:44 PM

you are marrying him not his family..i was with my ex for almost 12years and i couldnt stand his family but i didnt have to deal with them cause i didnt marry them...in 12 years they maybe came to my house a hand full of times...just relax and try not to be around them and tell fiance to stop talking to u about them since it build up anger lol

Beehive · 07-05-2007, 11:48 PM

No we do not fight about it. He doesn't like his step family either. I like his real family, just not the evil wicked step one's..lol. We do not want to kids so I do not have to go to the mini-van, play date functions... phew. I just wish I could say, oh hi how are you, I hate you, please never talk to me. Ok bu bye then. It's a dream though

wandy27 · 07-06-2007, 12:03 AM

lmao beehive u to funny

07-05-2007, 11:30 PM	#1
Beehive Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 32	Is it a right of passage to not like the "in laws"? For some reason I do not like my fiance's step family. They are lazy, snotty and think they are better than anyone. For some reason it drives me mad even tough I rarely see them (On purpose). When he tells me stories about the stuff they do I just want to go tell them off? Does anyone have any ideas on how to get zen with this situation? I do not like this anger that is consuming me, and to my dismay they are part of my life.

07-05-2007, 11:44 PM	#3
wandy27 Offline Bronze Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: nyc Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 203	you are marrying him not his family..i was with my ex for almost 12years and i couldnt stand his family but i didnt have to deal with them cause i didnt marry them...in 12 years they maybe came to my house a hand full of times...just relax and try not to be around them and tell fiance to stop talking to u about them since it build up anger lol __________________ ************************* * A doubting mind * * Is forced to live * * In the prison of loneliness. * ************************* PS. sorry i sometimes dont write proper english and cut words short to type quicker or sometimes use slang:( hope ya dont mind ur gurl wandy

07-06-2007, 12:03 AM	#5
wandy27 Offline Bronze Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: nyc Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 203	lmao beehive u to funny __________________ ************************* * A doubting mind * * Is forced to live * * In the prison of loneliness. * ************************* PS. sorry i sometimes dont write proper english and cut words short to type quicker or sometimes use slang:( hope ya dont mind ur gurl wandy

07-05-2007, 11:38 PM	#2
Kalika Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 1,343	Maybe just do what you're doing? Limit contact with them.. But you should be considering the future too. I mean, you may want to have kids with this fiance one day.. Are you going to deny them access to your children? Is this something you and he are fighing about, or may start fighting about in the future?

07-05-2007, 11:48 PM	#4
Beehive Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 32	No we do not fight about it. He doesn't like his step family either. I like his real family, just not the evil wicked step one's..lol. We do not want to kids so I do not have to go to the mini-van, play date functions... phew. I just wish I could say, oh hi how are you, I hate you, please never talk to me. Ok bu bye then. It's a dream though