Finally breaking free of my mom!!!!

Bewitched1101 · 07-05-2007, 12:13 PM

I have found an apartment!!!! I'll be staying with the lady I work with, she was looking for a roomate and I was looking for an apartment. I'll be paying 300 dollar a month and some change for the water bill. I'm REALLY excited to be moving out and getting away from my mom. If you've seen any of my other threads you will know how bad she me.

My only drawback is most every one I tell (except my dad and my boyfriend) thinks I should stay home as long as I can, that I shouldn't move out already and that I'm not ready to move out. I want to move out, but hearing these people tell me this negitive stuff is really making me feel un easy about moving out. What do you think I should do???

renaissancewoman101 · 07-05-2007, 12:17 PM

From reading your threads about your home situation, I do think you should move out. It will help you save money and help your self-esteem a lot. It will also make you proud of yourself for being able to live on your own. $300/month for rent is NOT bad. Good luck to you and I hope you do stick with moving out. Your home living situation is very toxic to your emotional and physical well-being.

Bewitched1101 · 07-05-2007, 12:44 PM

Thanks a lot for your words!

kellbell · 07-05-2007, 12:55 PM

Hey there Liz,

I believe these people whom say to stay where you are because of your age. But they have no idea what it is like to walk a mile in your shoes and the only solution to your issue was to remove yourself from the situation.

I am so happy you found a place to live. And for 300 dollars, that is awesome! I wish you all the best. You have to do what is right for you.

Bewitched1101 · 07-06-2007, 01:13 PM

Thanks kellbell I think your absolutely right.

07-05-2007, 12:13 PM	#1
Bewitched1101 Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Atl, Ga Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 300	Finally breaking free of my mom!!!! I have found an apartment!!!! I'll be staying with the lady I work with, she was looking for a roomate and I was looking for an apartment. I'll be paying 300 dollar a month and some change for the water bill. I'm REALLY excited to be moving out and getting away from my mom. If you've seen any of my other threads you will know how bad she me. My only drawback is most every one I tell (except my dad and my boyfriend) thinks I should stay home as long as I can, that I shouldn't move out already and that I'm not ready to move out. I want to move out, but hearing these people tell me this negitive stuff is really making me feel un easy about moving out. What do you think I should do??? __________________ XOXOX "If things can't get any worse....the only option is for things to get better" Liz

07-05-2007, 12:44 PM	#3
Bewitched1101 Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Atl, Ga Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 300	Thanks a lot for your words! __________________ XOXOX "If things can't get any worse....the only option is for things to get better" Liz

07-05-2007, 12:55 PM	#4
kellbell Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Colorado Gender: Female Age: 33 Posts: 4,334	Hey there Liz, I believe these people whom say to stay where you are because of your age. But they have no idea what it is like to walk a mile in your shoes and the only solution to your issue was to remove yourself from the situation. I am so happy you found a place to live. And for 300 dollars, that is awesome! I wish you all the best. You have to do what is right for you. __________________ "Let your soul be your pilot, let your soul guide you, it will guide you well." Sting <---- me and my mom :) "Get busy living or get busy dyin', damn right..." Morgan Freeman, Shawshank Redemption.

07-06-2007, 01:13 PM	#5
Bewitched1101 Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Atl, Ga Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 300	Thanks kellbell I think your absolutely right. __________________ XOXOX "If things can't get any worse....the only option is for things to get better" Liz

07-05-2007, 12:17 PM	#2
renaissancewoman101 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: the land by the sea Gender: Female Age: 36 Posts: 8,564	From reading your threads about your home situation, I do think you should move out. It will help you save money and help your self-esteem a lot. It will also make you proud of yourself for being able to live on your own. $300/month for rent is NOT bad. Good luck to you and I hope you do stick with moving out. Your home living situation is very toxic to your emotional and physical well-being.