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Old 06-21-2007, 02:25 PM   #1
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Unhappy I’ve just done the original teenage clanger...

Hi! If any of you recall some of my previous topics, you’ll know I’ve always had a psychological problem with getting an erection. I saw my doc about it, and after that I have actually managed to have sex with my girlfriend a few times.

Today my parents where staying out, so as we had the house to ourselves she came here for the first time. Naturally, we planned to have sex together. So there I am, naked in bed with her, can I get it up? Could I hell. The irritating thing is we made out in school earlier, I was rock hard, I’ve just masturbated since she left, and had little problem. Right now I hate my mind…

I guess it’s as much of a vent as anything, but I’m lucky to have such an understanding girlfriend. What can I do to build myself up to be able to have planned sex? The best I have ever had has been spontaneous – and outdoors. But in the perfect setting, it won’t happen.

Many other guys here had this happen to them?

Cheers all…
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Old 06-21-2007, 03:09 PM   #2
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Wel I have had the problem before. My suggestion is to quit masturbating all together for awhile and see if it effects the outcome. Your brain can become so used to a certain type of mental stimulation that you can become asexual. So I suggest not doing it alone. Keep the baby batter on the brain so to speak.
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