For the ladies in the message below about prostitutes

Working Girl · 05-30-2007, 05:46 PM

Just thought I would chime in. I am an escort. Have been for a year now. I know I'll get slandered, just thought I would hop in and offer some advice, etc. Please be prepared. The majority of you will not like what I have to say, but I think it might help.

First, there is a difference between escorts, hookers and prostitutes. I am an escort. I do not have sex with men for money, I escort (mostly single) men out on the town, to this event, or that. I have modeled and am very well educated. Even attending law school. I have been invited to every upscale event in my town. If, at the end of the evening/event there is a mutual attraction, we sometimes engage in other activities back at the hotel room. However, I must say, that is a small portion of the time in actuality. And I am very, very well paid for my time. I do maintain a career, friends, family and outside hobbies and interests. If you met me on the street, in a bar, at a salon you would not know what it is that I do in my spare time.

That being said, whenever we do engage in any extra curricular activities, everything I can assure you is very well protected. For mostly my benefit. Lol.

Hookers, well, are mostly hired by the hour, and are there mainly for sex. I assume of course. I do not know specifically. But from everything I've read, most of it is very well protected. There are many websites, just like this that you can go to and read details. Most women offer uncovered bj's, but the risk there is minimal. Rarely does uncovered anything happen other than oral sex on each end, but I have read of it happening. Which, is beyond disgusting in my opinion.

Then there are prostitutes, which is I think girls that you can pick up on the street. I dunno anything about this, as there is no decorum or forum that I know of that discusses that.

I think mainly, guys will go see girls one, because the wife isn't providing something at home. Maybe a bj, or doggie, or, well, I dunno, lol. I've read that a lot of wives do not allow their husbands to provide oral stimulation (which I cannot understand) but that's something men look for and like to do. Then again, maybe they just want a blonde, or a brunette, or someone thinner, or thicker, or black or white. Just, different. A lot of men are not married and just do this for fun, to "try" out different things and women. A few men actually have fallen in love with their wives even more so for visiting the occasional call girl. Which you might find odd, but it's true. Maybe the wife just isn't giving it up like she used to, for very justifiable reasons, maybe she's tired, had 3 kids and work is eating away at her. Maybe she's sick and can no longer be intimate. Either way, the husband is tired of being irritated with his wonderful wife for lack of intimacy. He loves her in every way, and would never "cheat" on her, or get a girlfriend, or leave her, but needs to be sexually satisfied. So he hires someone. Does everything safely, and then goes home to his wife, now no longer irritated with her and can enjoy the little things such as taking a picnic, or riding horses with her. Maybe even just holding her hand. And because the pressure is off with him constantly asking for it, she no longer is upset with him, etc. Sometimes, maybe the man is just no longer attracted to his wife, but does not want to leave her. Maybe he loves her, but she has not taken care of herself.

Just an alternative way of looking at things. This is not an endorsement, or anything of that nature, however sometimes, even when angry, you need to understand why it is people do things. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, just different. And yes, while it is hard to understand, a lot of men simply DO NOT associate sex with love.

I love what I do. I spend my time with older, quality men that are interesting and intelligent. I get to accompany men to so many places, see so many things I would never see otherwise. I am taken on vacations to exotic places and spoiled beyond belief. I am never pressured for anything, but anytime I do give something, it's always very well received and mutually fun. I will never be ashamed of being an Escort. I revel in it.

I posted this here so that you might understand a few things a bit more. I might be able to answer any questions that you may have as long as they are not approached in a negative way and that they are tasteful. I am a member of a community and have lots of insight into certain areas that you may be curious about.

Eva:Gina · 05-30-2007, 05:55 PM

Good post!!!

Prostitution is legal where I live. I have a pretty realistic and un-biased view of the sex industry.

I would steel yourself for an onslaught if I were you, but personally, I see nothing wrong with your profession or of those who engage in sexual acts for money.

**annie24** · 05-30-2007, 05:58 PM

Welcome to enotalone.

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That being said, whenever we do engage in any extra curricular activities, everything I can assure you is very well protected. For mostly my benefit. Lol.

Is what you are doing here "sex for money?" If so, aren't officers of the court (which you will be one day) not supposed to be breaking the law?

(And if you are in an area where "sex for money" is legal, then nevermind my question.)

And when you do start your career, what happens when you run into these men in a professional sense? Do you think they will treat you differently or you will lose some of your respectability in your career as a result?

Working Girl · 05-30-2007, 06:03 PM

Oh yeah, I'm getting ready for an onslaught of beration, etc. There is nothing wrong with the sex industry in my opinion. But I might be biased.

There are so many places where it is legal. And it's the oldest profession in the world. If you understand what really happens, it's not so bad. It's just the fear of the unknown which is haunting. And most people really should be happy that it's somewhat moderated and on the up and up now. I've heard horror stories of how girls used to bait guys to blackmail them, etc. Now, because of the "rating" system and community, we're all safer for it.

A girl that doesn't use protection? Can't be a member. A guy that persuades a girl to not use protection? Goes on a national list that any girl in the industry can see and know he's probably not safe. Which means most girls that are worth anything won't touch him.

Miss Firecracker · 05-30-2007, 06:04 PM

I see your point. You do not give sex to just anyone, only the men you actually like. So if they are bald or just smelly or something, you're off the hook?

Sounds like a pretty cushy side job.

Eva:Gina · 05-30-2007, 06:05 PM

^^HEY nothing wrong with bald men!!

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Originally Posted by Working Girl

If you understand what really happens, it's not so bad. It's just the fear of the unknown which is haunting.

what cracks me up is people going "omg, the girls are so miserable!!! it eats at their SOOOOOOOOOOOOULS"...

Most people are miserable in their jobs... IM in a soul-destroying job atm...
They just get antsy cos its SEX

**annie24** · 05-30-2007, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Working Girl

Oh yeah, I'm getting ready for an onslaught of beration, etc. There is nothing wrong with the sex industry in my opinion. But I might be biased.

There are so many places where it is legal. And it's the oldest profession in the world. If you understand what really happens, it's not so bad. It's just the fear of the unknown which is haunting. And most people really should be happy that it's somewhat moderated and on the up and up now. I've heard horror stories of how girls used to bait guys to blackmail them, etc. Now, because of the "rating" system and community, we're all safer for it.

I am not trying to berate "the world's oldest profession." My personal idea is that it should probably be legalized and regulated.

However..... I think that lawyers, officers of the court, judges, etc.... I think these people should try to obey the laws of their country/region. Maybe I'm naive, but I don't think it is ethical for them to be breaking the law, and depending on the offense, it can get you dis-barred.

**annie24** · 05-30-2007, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Eva:Gina

^^HEY nothing wrong with bald men!!

what cracks me up is people going "omg, the girls are so miserable!!! it eats at their SOOOOOOOOOOOOULS"...

Most people are miserable in their jobs... IM in a soul-destroying job atm...
They just get antsy cos its SEX

Eva - would you become an escort/prostitute/hooker? why or why not?

Miss Firecracker · 05-30-2007, 06:07 PM

I wonder if you have escorted my husband on his travels? LOL

Do you advertise your services online? Sometimes my husband gets some cash from the ATM before leaving state, and I wonder if he's stashing a little and using it for escorts every now and then. It reminds me to try harder.

Working Girl · 05-30-2007, 06:09 PM

Actually Annie, usually by the time we choose to engage in anything, our paid time together is up, therefore no, I am not, nor do I ever engage in sex for money. Period. I am and have always been an escort.

Yes, I believe officers of the court are not supposed to break the law, but I am not, nor will I ever be a lawyer. I went to law school, but decided that was not what I wanted to do after a very short stint.

As far as when I "start" my career. I have been in my career for a while now, a professional corporate career. Yes, it has happened that I've run into men from time to time that I've seen as an escort. Usually, they applaud me for being in such a high ranking position at such a young age, and then we have a side smirk to ourselves.

Never once have I ever lost any respectability for being an escort. The men that I see adore me in whatever arena it is that we meet.

And Firecracker, yeah, I choose. And yeah, it's a great side job. I can choose to do it as much or little as I want. And most of the men I would actually go out with anyway. Although, it's not based on looks alone. One of my favorite "friends" isn't very attractive, but he's insanely smart and so ambitious. He spends his time helping people, but is not very social and has a hard time approaching women in general. He's been single his entire life, never married and just loves spending time with me. He's gentle and wonderful, but you would never look twice at him if you saw him out. I've actually helped his confidence to be able to approach women. Which is great, he deserves to fall in love.

05-30-2007, 05:46 PM	#1
Working Girl Offline Member Join Date: May 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 26	For the ladies in the message below about prostitutes Just thought I would chime in. I am an escort. Have been for a year now. I know I'll get slandered, just thought I would hop in and offer some advice, etc. Please be prepared. The majority of you will not like what I have to say, but I think it might help. First, there is a difference between escorts, hookers and prostitutes. I am an escort. I do not have sex with men for money, I escort (mostly single) men out on the town, to this event, or that. I have modeled and am very well educated. Even attending law school. I have been invited to every upscale event in my town. If, at the end of the evening/event there is a mutual attraction, we sometimes engage in other activities back at the hotel room. However, I must say, that is a small portion of the time in actuality. And I am very, very well paid for my time. I do maintain a career, friends, family and outside hobbies and interests. If you met me on the street, in a bar, at a salon you would not know what it is that I do in my spare time. That being said, whenever we do engage in any extra curricular activities, everything I can assure you is very well protected. For mostly my benefit. Lol. Hookers, well, are mostly hired by the hour, and are there mainly for sex. I assume of course. I do not know specifically. But from everything I've read, most of it is very well protected. There are many websites, just like this that you can go to and read details. Most women offer uncovered bj's, but the risk there is minimal. Rarely does uncovered anything happen other than oral sex on each end, but I have read of it happening. Which, is beyond disgusting in my opinion. Then there are prostitutes, which is I think girls that you can pick up on the street. I dunno anything about this, as there is no decorum or forum that I know of that discusses that. I think mainly, guys will go see girls one, because the wife isn't providing something at home. Maybe a bj, or doggie, or, well, I dunno, lol. I've read that a lot of wives do not allow their husbands to provide oral stimulation (which I cannot understand) but that's something men look for and like to do. Then again, maybe they just want a blonde, or a brunette, or someone thinner, or thicker, or black or white. Just, different. A lot of men are not married and just do this for fun, to "try" out different things and women. A few men actually have fallen in love with their wives even more so for visiting the occasional call girl. Which you might find odd, but it's true. Maybe the wife just isn't giving it up like she used to, for very justifiable reasons, maybe she's tired, had 3 kids and work is eating away at her. Maybe she's sick and can no longer be intimate. Either way, the husband is tired of being irritated with his wonderful wife for lack of intimacy. He loves her in every way, and would never "cheat" on her, or get a girlfriend, or leave her, but needs to be sexually satisfied. So he hires someone. Does everything safely, and then goes home to his wife, now no longer irritated with her and can enjoy the little things such as taking a picnic, or riding horses with her. Maybe even just holding her hand. And because the pressure is off with him constantly asking for it, she no longer is upset with him, etc. Sometimes, maybe the man is just no longer attracted to his wife, but does not want to leave her. Maybe he loves her, but she has not taken care of herself. Just an alternative way of looking at things. This is not an endorsement, or anything of that nature, however sometimes, even when angry, you need to understand why it is people do things. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, just different. And yes, while it is hard to understand, a lot of men simply DO NOT associate sex with love. I love what I do. I spend my time with older, quality men that are interesting and intelligent. I get to accompany men to so many places, see so many things I would never see otherwise. I am taken on vacations to exotic places and spoiled beyond belief. I am never pressured for anything, but anytime I do give something, it's always very well received and mutually fun. I will never be ashamed of being an Escort. I revel in it. I posted this here so that you might understand a few things a bit more. I might be able to answer any questions that you may have as long as they are not approached in a negative way and that they are tasteful. I am a member of a community and have lots of insight into certain areas that you may be curious about.

05-30-2007, 05:55 PM	#2
Eva:Gina Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Aotearoa Gender: Female Age: 25 Posts: 3,473	Good post!!! Prostitution is legal where I live. I have a pretty realistic and un-biased view of the sex industry. I would steel yourself for an onslaught if I were you, but personally, I see nothing wrong with your profession or of those who engage in sexual acts for money. __________________ Dont let the self-rightous dictate your own mind to you...

05-30-2007, 06:09 PM	#10
Working Girl Offline Member Join Date: May 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 26	Actually Annie, usually by the time we choose to engage in anything, our paid time together is up, therefore no, I am not, nor do I ever engage in sex for money. Period. I am and have always been an escort. Yes, I believe officers of the court are not supposed to break the law, but I am not, nor will I ever be a lawyer. I went to law school, but decided that was not what I wanted to do after a very short stint. As far as when I "start" my career. I have been in my career for a while now, a professional corporate career. Yes, it has happened that I've run into men from time to time that I've seen as an escort. Usually, they applaud me for being in such a high ranking position at such a young age, and then we have a side smirk to ourselves. Never once have I ever lost any respectability for being an escort. The men that I see adore me in whatever arena it is that we meet. And Firecracker, yeah, I choose. And yeah, it's a great side job. I can choose to do it as much or little as I want. And most of the men I would actually go out with anyway. Although, it's not based on looks alone. One of my favorite "friends" isn't very attractive, but he's insanely smart and so ambitious. He spends his time helping people, but is not very social and has a hard time approaching women in general. He's been single his entire life, never married and just loves spending time with me. He's gentle and wonderful, but you would never look twice at him if you saw him out. I've actually helped his confidence to be able to approach women. Which is great, he deserves to fall in love. Last edited by Working Girl; 05-30-2007 at 06:17 PM.

05-30-2007, 06:03 PM	#4
Working Girl Offline Member Join Date: May 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 26	Oh yeah, I'm getting ready for an onslaught of beration, etc. There is nothing wrong with the sex industry in my opinion. But I might be biased. There are so many places where it is legal. And it's the oldest profession in the world. If you understand what really happens, it's not so bad. It's just the fear of the unknown which is haunting. And most people really should be happy that it's somewhat moderated and on the up and up now. I've heard horror stories of how girls used to bait guys to blackmail them, etc. Now, because of the "rating" system and community, we're all safer for it. A girl that doesn't use protection? Can't be a member. A guy that persuades a girl to not use protection? Goes on a national list that any girl in the industry can see and know he's probably not safe. Which means most girls that are worth anything won't touch him.

05-30-2007, 06:04 PM	#5
Miss Firecracker Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 4,156	I see your point. You do not give sex to just anyone, only the men you actually like. So if they are bald or just smelly or something, you're off the hook? Sounds like a pretty cushy side job.

05-30-2007, 06:07 PM	#9
Miss Firecracker Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 4,156	I wonder if you have escorted my husband on his travels? LOL Do you advertise your services online? Sometimes my husband gets some cash from the ATM before leaving state, and I wonder if he's stashing a little and using it for escorts every now and then. It reminds me to try harder.