Psychological Impotency – Vent.

Doctor Smurf · 05-04-2007, 04:57 PM

Hi, me again, posting about the same thing. With reference to my last post on this, we actually managed to have some decent sustained sex for like, ten minutes. I was very pleased with it, and although neither of us reached orgasm, it really felt good. Buoyed up by our success, we tried again a few days later. Inside of two minutes, it was all over, again no orgasms. I’d fantasised about how I’d like that episode to unfold for the two days leading up to it, and although it more or less happened as I’d hoped, I think it could have been partially to blame for my failure – my doctor had advised us not to set out with the object of having sex, and that’s pretty much what I did.
Since then my sex drive in general seems to have slumped. Granted I’ve not had an easy fortnight, and with exams coming there’s quite a lot of pressure on – combined with me being tired. I hope I can put it down to that, but it adds to my concerns. I tried using her as my only outlet, and I didn’t please myself for about three weeks, but it didn’t help my performance in the slightest.

I really want to be able to pleasure her properly, and I am scared that she might become complacent or resent my inability, but she has been incredibly understanding to what’s going on so far. I just feel bad with all the effort she goes to of giving me blowjobs and so on, just for me to go down as soon as we get going. I hate it being like this! And with all that’s happening in my life, it’s just not the time for it. Ages ago she told me about the one time she’d had an orgasm – there is nothing I wouldn’t give to be able to do that or be that guy, and if I could change one thing about me, that’s what it would be.

Well I guess there’s little point to this post really, but if anyone can offer me any words of wisdom, then please, please do.

Thank you for reading.
Daniel.

Beec · 05-04-2007, 05:20 PM

If you want to get rid of this, you need to fix what's going on in your head, because it is not physical.

I recommend you find some recordings that are geared towards this, like for example: [Only registered and activated users can see links. ]. You might be able to find some mp3s to download. Or some scripts and you can make your own tape or have her make you one.

In the meantime, read up on how to lick her. And get down there.

ghozt · 05-04-2007, 06:54 PM

ever thought that you might have ed? try to get some viagra might help

05-04-2007, 04:57 PM	#1
Doctor Smurf Offline Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Wales, UK Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 209	Psychological Impotency – Vent. Hi, me again, posting about the same thing. With reference to my last post on this, we actually managed to have some decent sustained sex for like, ten minutes. I was very pleased with it, and although neither of us reached orgasm, it really felt good. Buoyed up by our success, we tried again a few days later. Inside of two minutes, it was all over, again no orgasms. I’d fantasised about how I’d like that episode to unfold for the two days leading up to it, and although it more or less happened as I’d hoped, I think it could have been partially to blame for my failure – my doctor had advised us not to set out with the object of having sex, and that’s pretty much what I did. Since then my sex drive in general seems to have slumped. Granted I’ve not had an easy fortnight, and with exams coming there’s quite a lot of pressure on – combined with me being tired. I hope I can put it down to that, but it adds to my concerns. I tried using her as my only outlet, and I didn’t please myself for about three weeks, but it didn’t help my performance in the slightest. I really want to be able to pleasure her properly, and I am scared that she might become complacent or resent my inability, but she has been incredibly understanding to what’s going on so far. I just feel bad with all the effort she goes to of giving me blowjobs and so on, just for me to go down as soon as we get going. I hate it being like this! And with all that’s happening in my life, it’s just not the time for it. Ages ago she told me about the one time she’d had an orgasm – there is nothing I wouldn’t give to be able to do that or be that guy, and if I could change one thing about me, that’s what it would be. Well I guess there’s little point to this post really, but if anyone can offer me any words of wisdom, then please, please do. Thank you for reading. Daniel. __________________ An eye for an eye, and soon the whole world is blind - Mahatma Gandhi

05-04-2007, 05:20 PM	#2
Beec Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: New York Posts: 7,556	If you want to get rid of this, you need to fix what's going on in your head, because it is not physical. I recommend you find some recordings that are geared towards this, like for example: [Only registered and activated users can see links. ]. You might be able to find some mp3s to download. Or some scripts and you can make your own tape or have her make you one. In the meantime, read up on how to lick her. And get down there. __________________ "Love is not affectionate feeling, but a steady wish for the loved person's ultimate good as far as it can be obtained." C.S. Lewis--Answers to Questions on Christianity

05-04-2007, 06:54 PM	#3
ghozt Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: tucson arizona Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 213	ever thought that you might have ed? try to get some viagra might help __________________ The trick is your never supposed to act on it no matter how unbearable this misery gets I cant stand how your gone Distant from my arms Distant from my side I cant believe how your here And in a minute your gone I hold you close to mind and closer yet to heart I'll never forget you And Forever ill love you Good by dearest Suzen May you rest in peace (3-15-89/7-17-05)