Guy problems suck. Along with depression. Save meee! :(

Katt · 04-12-2007, 04:51 AM

What should I do to cure my depression? I'm not going to say why I am, but it does involve a guy. I found out he's not who I thought he was, and I don't like him anymore. I feel kind of depressed, and I'm not sure why. It's like I don't want to let go, though I /know/ i do. I never think about him anymore, but now all the sudden I feel weird and sad about it. It's hard to figure it out. And it's making me even sadder than I was before. Gahhhh... Save me from my depression.

Oh, and now my other friend's being annoying by saying, "you don't want to like him, but you do." and such. I don't know why she thinks i still do, because I don't, and it's starting to really get on my nerves. Do I still like him, though? I don't think so... Should I be annoyed with my other friend, or is there no reason?

Katt · 04-12-2007, 04:52 AM

When I say like, I mean have a crush on, not just as a friend.

Shadows Light · 04-12-2007, 08:07 AM

LOL..... reminds me of what Shakespeare said; "Familiarity Breeds Contempt"...I think this applies to your situation.

So you found out the guy wasn't who you thought he was.... this epiphany will happen to you again and again through out your life. And yes... its a little sad when this happens. Deflates your balloon a little bit doesn't it?

Well... I think you should be honest with yourself and him. If you don't like him "romantically" you shouldn't force it. Even if you let him grow on you.... its not gonna help. And you sound young... so why should you settle?

Do you think maybe that you don't have any other prospects right now... and he's better than nothing??? well thats not very fair to him... or to yourself, ya think? You know whats in your heart so don't let friends talk you into something that just isn't for you. Tell him that you'd rather he went back into the "friend zone".... that right now you don't want to be romantically involved.. you just "lost that lovin feeling" Its ok... it happens.

04-12-2007, 04:51 AM	#1
Katt Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: At my computer, it seems. Gender: Female Posts: 4	Guy problems suck. Along with depression. Save meee! :( What should I do to cure my depression? I'm not going to say why I am, but it does involve a guy. I found out he's not who I thought he was, and I don't like him anymore. I feel kind of depressed, and I'm not sure why. It's like I don't want to let go, though I /know/ i do. I never think about him anymore, but now all the sudden I feel weird and sad about it. It's hard to figure it out. And it's making me even sadder than I was before. Gahhhh... Save me from my depression. Oh, and now my other friend's being annoying by saying, "you don't want to like him, but you do." and such. I don't know why she thinks i still do, because I don't, and it's starting to really get on my nerves. Do I still like him, though? I don't think so... Should I be annoyed with my other friend, or is there no reason?

04-12-2007, 08:07 AM	#3
Shadows Light Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Gender: Female Posts: 2,561	LOL..... reminds me of what Shakespeare said; "Familiarity Breeds Contempt"...I think this applies to your situation. So you found out the guy wasn't who you thought he was.... this epiphany will happen to you again and again through out your life. And yes... its a little sad when this happens. Deflates your balloon a little bit doesn't it? Well... I think you should be honest with yourself and him. If you don't like him "romantically" you shouldn't force it. Even if you let him grow on you.... its not gonna help. And you sound young... so why should you settle? Do you think maybe that you don't have any other prospects right now... and he's better than nothing??? well thats not very fair to him... or to yourself, ya think? You know whats in your heart so don't let friends talk you into something that just isn't for you. Tell him that you'd rather he went back into the "friend zone".... that right now you don't want to be romantically involved.. you just "lost that lovin feeling" Its ok... it happens. __________________ "Sit vis vobiscum." "nemo me impune lacessit" "Libera Te Ex Inferis" "Homo sapiens non urinat in ventum"

04-12-2007, 04:52 AM	#2
Katt Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: At my computer, it seems. Gender: Female Posts: 4	When I say like, I mean have a crush on, not just as a friend.