Size and Psychology

Cbert · 02-26-2007, 02:25 PM

Hi guys, i know there has been lots of talk on the having a small penis already but just heard the absolute best story the other day. Being a suffer myself I had vested interest in this.
Basically a friend of mine I hadn't seen in a while whom i was always open with told me about someone he met in london in a similar situation. Well like usual this most people were telling this guy that it didn't really matter and that it was all in his head and it was the motion of the ocean. Well anyway it got so bad that he went to see a psychologist, a female psychologist. He apparently almost didn't turn up when he found out it might be a female psychologist, but he managed to go there. Anyway the female psychologist was telling him most of the things that other people were telling him, but she set him a task of setting small goals with regard to meeting women. Start small like just speaking and building up to just asking women out. She assured him that confidence was all he need. Anyway he set about doing this, doing small things like saying 'Hi' to women in coffee shop, in nightclubs, concerts and at local clubs and societies. He had to record all of his goals so that he could see all that he had accomplished so that intern his confidence would increase. He recorded how each women reacted so that his mind wouldn't overpower him with apathy at a later date. A couple of weeks down the line, he was starting to feel better, but by no means super confident.
Now he was regularly going out with friend to different places each week and trying new things after so many year of being so reclusive. One night though he went into a bar and that wasn't heaving but relatively loud. Him and his friends got some drinks and went to sit down. As he was sat there his ears picked up on a group of women having a laugh and joke about you guessed it, penis size. He was glued to this conversation then and all his worst fear were being recounted infront of him. He heard them all exchanging stories about bad experiences with small men and how they couldn't find a man attractive with one. One was talking about how she got close to a guy but ended it after a sexual experience and that the guy wouldn't leave her alone and he quoted her as say 'it was ****ing pissing me off'. Anyway his mate saw that it was distressing him so he said they should leave, but as he was leaving he walked past the group of women and one of them was none other then the psychologist he had seen.

GQstatus · 02-26-2007, 03:06 PM

LMAO..I"m sorry, but that is hilarious.

IMHO, I really don't think it matters to women as much as men seem to think. I'm above "average", so really don't have too many issues as far as that goes. But I have plenty of female friends, and they talk about this crap all the time.

Just a couple weeks ago while I was at a little house party, 3 of these girls were all talking about this. They're all very good looking women, and all of them agreed that size itself doesn't matter. That they had been with guys average, and above who had no idea what they were doing. And been with small men who were great in bed.

Dako · 02-26-2007, 03:28 PM

I couldn't find that story on snopes.com, but it sure has all the signs of being legendarily urban.

Cardinal · 02-26-2007, 03:31 PM

That is absolutely hilarious.

Definitely a good read. I could 100% see that happening in real life.

adahy · 02-26-2007, 03:41 PM

Well, the bottom line is a woman will find something to complain about. If a man has an above average penis, they'll complain about that too. If a man forgets to take out the garbage, they'll complain about that. I heard some old women complaining about their husbands clothes the other night. Never ends. Get a group of women together and they'll complain about everything under the sun. Remember guys: Whatever is wrong, it is our fault. Some women have big vaginas, some have small ones.

Funny though women always talk 'openingly' about emotional issues, yet behind the scenes its all about penis. EMINEM's wife sure blasted his size and performance the other day. I guess it's okay for her to make fun of him now, after she's got a few million.

Cardinal · 02-26-2007, 03:44 PM

I think women have an ego too.

A group of women will express very different ideas than individuals will (and vice versa with men).

Here, you are just seeing that in action.

Opinions vary. Where would be the fun in having a big group of horny chicks saying they care nothing about the constitution of the male anatomy.

CarnelianButterfly · 02-26-2007, 03:46 PM

And men don't talk about breast size?

Who really cares what a bunch of strangers and one fired shrink care about. The only opinion that matters is the person you're with.

adahy · 02-26-2007, 03:58 PM

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And men don't talk about breast size?

Sure, but men don't pretend to do otherwise. Some like big, some like small. I like small breasts. Either way, men 'generally' don't assign a negative component to breast size. Negatives come from the women themselves. Most women get larger breasts because of other 'women', not men...competition for male specimens.

fnlyfrei · 02-26-2007, 04:05 PM

Yes...it doesn't really matter. What matters is SKILL. An attentive lover is what counts. Some men think size makes up for their ineptitude in bed. Like they don't have to try. I would rather be with someone average to under-average who is a good lover...than a clod who thinks he was born with a natural ability instead of a large appendage. If that is all a woman is looking for....there ARE toys for sale.

CarnelianButterfly · 02-26-2007, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by adahy

Most women get larger breasts because of other 'women', not men...competition for male specimens.

So the first time a guy measures his penis he's only thinking about women? Yeah Right! Guys are measuring to compare with other guys. You don't need to know your penis length for any reason other than how it compares to the average. Women know their breast size because we have bras to fit into every day.

Btw, Some women pretend! Not all women are going to be like the ones in that urban fiction.

02-26-2007, 02:25 PM	#1
Cbert Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 31	Size and Psychology Hi guys, i know there has been lots of talk on the having a small penis already but just heard the absolute best story the other day. Being a suffer myself I had vested interest in this. Basically a friend of mine I hadn't seen in a while whom i was always open with told me about someone he met in london in a similar situation. Well like usual this most people were telling this guy that it didn't really matter and that it was all in his head and it was the motion of the ocean. Well anyway it got so bad that he went to see a psychologist, a female psychologist. He apparently almost didn't turn up when he found out it might be a female psychologist, but he managed to go there. Anyway the female psychologist was telling him most of the things that other people were telling him, but she set him a task of setting small goals with regard to meeting women. Start small like just speaking and building up to just asking women out. She assured him that confidence was all he need. Anyway he set about doing this, doing small things like saying 'Hi' to women in coffee shop, in nightclubs, concerts and at local clubs and societies. He had to record all of his goals so that he could see all that he had accomplished so that intern his confidence would increase. He recorded how each women reacted so that his mind wouldn't overpower him with apathy at a later date. A couple of weeks down the line, he was starting to feel better, but by no means super confident. Now he was regularly going out with friend to different places each week and trying new things after so many year of being so reclusive. One night though he went into a bar and that wasn't heaving but relatively loud. Him and his friends got some drinks and went to sit down. As he was sat there his ears picked up on a group of women having a laugh and joke about you guessed it, penis size. He was glued to this conversation then and all his worst fear were being recounted infront of him. He heard them all exchanging stories about bad experiences with small men and how they couldn't find a man attractive with one. One was talking about how she got close to a guy but ended it after a sexual experience and that the guy wouldn't leave her alone and he quoted her as say 'it was ****ing pissing me off'. Anyway his mate saw that it was distressing him so he said they should leave, but as he was leaving he walked past the group of women and one of them was none other then the psychologist he had seen.

02-26-2007, 03:06 PM	#2
GQstatus Offline Silver Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: East Bay Gender: Male Age: 26 Posts: 430	LMAO..I"m sorry, but that is hilarious. IMHO, I really don't think it matters to women as much as men seem to think. I'm above "average", so really don't have too many issues as far as that goes. But I have plenty of female friends, and they talk about this crap all the time. Just a couple weeks ago while I was at a little house party, 3 of these girls were all talking about this. They're all very good looking women, and all of them agreed that size itself doesn't matter. That they had been with guys average, and above who had no idea what they were doing. And been with small men who were great in bed.

02-26-2007, 03:28 PM	#3
Dako Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: None Specified Posts: 9,115	I couldn't find that story on snopes.com, but it sure has all the signs of being legendarily urban.

02-26-2007, 03:31 PM	#4
Cardinal Offline Gold Member Join Date: May 2006 Gender: Male Posts: 1,214	That is absolutely hilarious. Definitely a good read. I could 100% see that happening in real life.

02-26-2007, 03:41 PM	#5
adahy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 309	Well, the bottom line is a woman will find something to complain about. If a man has an above average penis, they'll complain about that too. If a man forgets to take out the garbage, they'll complain about that. I heard some old women complaining about their husbands clothes the other night. Never ends. Get a group of women together and they'll complain about everything under the sun. Remember guys: Whatever is wrong, it is our fault. Some women have big vaginas, some have small ones. Funny though women always talk 'openingly' about emotional issues, yet behind the scenes its all about penis. EMINEM's wife sure blasted his size and performance the other day. I guess it's okay for her to make fun of him now, after she's got a few million.

02-26-2007, 03:44 PM	#6
Cardinal Offline Gold Member Join Date: May 2006 Gender: Male Posts: 1,214	I think women have an ego too. A group of women will express very different ideas than individuals will (and vice versa with men). Here, you are just seeing that in action. Opinions vary. Where would be the fun in having a big group of horny chicks saying they care nothing about the constitution of the male anatomy.

02-26-2007, 03:46 PM	#7
CarnelianButterfly Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Too far from home Gender: Female Age: 28 Posts: 4,473	And men don't talk about breast size? Who really cares what a bunch of strangers and one fired shrink care about. The only opinion that matters is the person you're with.

02-26-2007, 04:05 PM	#9
fnlyfrei Offline Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Colorado Gender: Female Posts: 1,585	Yes...it doesn't really matter. What matters is SKILL. An attentive lover is what counts. Some men think size makes up for their ineptitude in bed. Like they don't have to try. I would rather be with someone average to under-average who is a good lover...than a clod who thinks he was born with a natural ability instead of a large appendage. If that is all a woman is looking for....there ARE toys for sale.