why cant she stay wet?...

the title is kinda self explanatory. my gf and i are getting frustrated cause we cant have sex for more than like ten minues at the absolute most because she dries out and the friction is way too painful for her. the first part of my inquiry is...can this be avoided? is there a way to keep her wet longer? and the second...does this mean she's not turned on anymore? cause i was thinking maybe i could do something to contribute to the lubricatino level. thanks in advance everybody

oh yeah, and PS...we do use lube but that stings and causes her a lot of pain also.

maybe she has thrush... it can cause discomfort which might turn her off and dry her up.

apart from that, she just might not feel comfortable telling you how to treat her in bed. i used to "dry up" with my ex becuase no matter what I told him, he just wouldnt do to me what I wanted him to do.

she may be a bit shy to ask for a certain position or tempo... try listening to her breath and things more... she will try give you hints... gasping when somthing is good for her and that sort of thing

She might be allergic to the lube. Have you tried different lube?

well, i havent tried diff lubes no....but i def do exactly what she wants me to in bed...i have a lot of faults be selfishness isnt one of em.

Do not use lube that causes irritation.

If it's causing her pain she's going to concerntrate on that pain and not the pleasure and it will not cause her to become less and less aroused.

I found a website and product that talks about vaginal dryness(vaginal insert-Lubrin Vaginal Inserts) .I was reading maybe you might use a vaginal moisturizers(lubrin) instead of lube.

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Vaginal dryness

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You might want to make sure the lube is water based and not scented at all. That may help lesson the irriation.