Today I was stopping by my dad's house to get my mail (I've moved out recently), and was talking to him in his office. All the sudden, windows media player pops up on his computer screen, which was in clear view. It was definitely a porn clip, with sound too. My dad kind of chuckled and said "Dad porn! You caught me!" and then closed the window.
I was mortified. I just looked away and didn't say anything as he was closing the window, but I had to hold back my tears. We continued talking for another 10 minutes probably, and managed to have a relatively normal conversation, although I felt like I was going to puke and scream and cry.
This wouldn't be such a big deal, but I am a girl, and my dad and I have never, ever had any discussion about sex, pornography, birth control, or anything in that domain. When we see movies with sex scenes, I get uncomfortable, just because my family NEVER, EVER talks about sex. I'm freaked out. I feel like I'll never be able to see him without thinking of this. I'm embarrassed, for myself, and for him. He must feel completely mortified as well, that his daughter caught him.
Maybe this feeling will pass in a day or two, but right now I'm ridiculously preoccupied with it. I'm trying to keep one thing in mind though: I could have caught him masturbating, and I didn't. It could have been A LOT worse.
So, anyone caught their parents with porn? Did you get over it or do you still think about it every time you see them?