THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71

SuperDave71 · 01-05-2007, 10:40 AM

Hello everyone at eNotAlone,

I suddenly had a great idea...( scary huh?

)

Let's start the SuperDave 71 NO CONTACT CHALLENGE...

Here are the rules:

1. When you accept this challenge, post here and your time/date stamp will be recorded for accuracy.

2. No Contact will be initiated for ONE MONTH from the date that you post. This mean NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER...and I mean NONE. (Including going to picture sites and myspace/or like sites)

3. If you work with your ex, you can still accept the challenge. You cannot do ANYTHING to contact your ex UNLESS it is work related ONLY.

4. If you accept this challange, I would like a post everyday on how you are feeling and what you are doing to pass the time. I am hoping by doing this, others will read and try to help themselves is they have a moment of weakness.

**Remember**

No Contact is for you

5. If you have contact with your ex BY YOUR DOING..YOU MUST POST WHY YOU DID IT AND HOW YOU FEEL RIGHT AFTER. No exceptions.

6. If your ex contacts you, UNLESS IT IS AN EMERGENCY, or there are children involved, you cannot respond. PERIOD. If you do, see rule 5.

7. If an ex comes over or tries to see you physically, this DOES NOT COUNT AGAINST YOU, BUT you MUST POST.

8. After the month of No Contact has past, you must reread all of yoru daily threads and write a conclusion based on what you felt when you started and how you feel 30 days later.

9. When you post daily, please put what day number you are on of the 30 day challenge so that other members can see how you are doing.

NEW RULE:

SuperDave71 has permission to duct tape any breaker of NC to a chair and throw broken twinkies at your head. <--- I like this new rule. HA HA

If ANYONE out there can come up with more rules, PLEASE PM me so I can update them. I will be happy to listen.

I would like for this to happen because I want other to read the progression involved in the NO CONTACT process.

If you do NOT feel you are up to the challange, ...wait until you are.

I wish you all the best....and GOOD LUCK.

If you accept my challenge, you will be very surprised at the end result.

Your friend,

SuperDave71

SWEET THING06 · 01-05-2007, 10:46 AM

OMG SuperDave!!!! I am SOOO taking this challenge!!!!!
Sign me up baby!!!!!!!!

drum4god · 01-05-2007, 10:48 AM

Great idea SuperDave,

My girlfriend broke up with me on Dec 26th. (Nice of her to wait after Christmas). Its day 10, and I haven't contacted her once. No e-mails, no text messages, and no calls. I may have problems with is running into her at church. We attend the same church and are very involved. She didn't attend last Sunday, which was quite surprising. Perhaps she is going NC. I don't know.

I have to admit. I did talk to her co-worker to see how she is doing, but he was on vacation. So I have no scoop, no info. Nothing. I guess that is better.

SuperDave71 · 01-05-2007, 10:50 AM

Sweet_thing06,

You have a month from today. NO EXCEPTIONS...

Good Luck to you!!

-SuperDave71

kickedin · 01-05-2007, 10:50 AM

i am in.....i havent contacted or heard from her since dec 27

SuperDave71 · 01-05-2007, 10:52 AM

Kickedin and drum4god...

You are in.....GOOD LUCK !!!!

Don't forget the rules ok?

Post everyday how you are feeling ok?

Your friend,

SuperDave71

SWEET THING06 · 01-05-2007, 10:53 AM

Nooooooo problem SUPERDAVE!!!!! This is just the challenge I needed!!!!
Would be nice if there was a hefty cash prize for this!!!

SuperDave71 · 01-05-2007, 10:55 AM

Hmmmm...

Cash I doubt..but I can give you the greatest gift BESIDES cash...

YOU CAN LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY....

I wish you all the best!

-SuperDave71

Biffy · 01-05-2007, 10:56 AM

I'm well into my NC but I haven't been counting, but I'm in nonetheless.

Maybe you should include something about posting when an ex attempts to make contact?

kermit · 01-05-2007, 10:56 AM

I'm at day 46. I can do this standing on my head.

01-05-2007, 10:40 AM	#1
SuperDave71 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Gender: Male Posts: 1,535	THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71 Hello everyone at eNotAlone, I suddenly had a great idea...( scary huh? ) Let's start the SuperDave 71 NO CONTACT CHALLENGE... Here are the rules: 1. When you accept this challenge, post here and your time/date stamp will be recorded for accuracy. 2. No Contact will be initiated for ONE MONTH from the date that you post. This mean NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER...and I mean NONE. (Including going to picture sites and myspace/or like sites) 3. If you work with your ex, you can still accept the challenge. You cannot do ANYTHING to contact your ex UNLESS it is work related ONLY. 4. If you accept this challange, I would like a post everyday on how you are feeling and what you are doing to pass the time. I am hoping by doing this, others will read and try to help themselves is they have a moment of weakness. Remember No Contact is for you 5. If you have contact with your ex BY YOUR DOING..YOU MUST POST WHY YOU DID IT AND HOW YOU FEEL RIGHT AFTER. No exceptions. 6. If your ex contacts you, UNLESS IT IS AN EMERGENCY, or there are children involved, you cannot respond. PERIOD. If you do, see rule 5. 7. If an ex comes over or tries to see you physically, this DOES NOT COUNT AGAINST YOU, BUT you MUST POST. 8. After the month of No Contact has past, you must reread all of yoru daily threads and write a conclusion based on what you felt when you started and how you feel 30 days later. 9. When you post daily, please put what day number you are on of the 30 day challenge so that other members can see how you are doing. NEW RULE: SuperDave71 has permission to duct tape any breaker of NC to a chair and throw broken twinkies at your head. <--- I like this new rule. HA HA If ANYONE out there can come up with more rules, PLEASE PM me so I can update them. I will be happy to listen. I would like for this to happen because I want other to read the progression involved in the NO CONTACT process. If you do NOT feel you are up to the challange, ...wait until you are. I wish you all the best....and GOOD LUCK. If you accept my challenge, you will be very surprised at the end result. Your friend, SuperDave71 Last edited by SuperDave71; 01-09-2007 at 09:57 AM.

01-05-2007, 10:56 AM	#9
Biffy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: London Gender: Male Age: 29 Posts: 456	I'm well into my NC but I haven't been counting, but I'm in nonetheless. Maybe you should include something about posting when an ex attempts to make contact? __________________ It's only after disaster that we can be resurrected, it's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything.

01-05-2007, 10:56 AM	#10
kermit Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 122	I'm at day 46. I can do this standing on my head. __________________ kermit Once you go green you never go back!

01-05-2007, 10:46 AM	#2
SWEET THING06 Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 18	OMG SuperDave!!!! I am SOOO taking this challenge!!!!! Sign me up baby!!!!!!!!

01-05-2007, 10:48 AM	#3
drum4god Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 322	Great idea SuperDave, My girlfriend broke up with me on Dec 26th. (Nice of her to wait after Christmas). Its day 10, and I haven't contacted her once. No e-mails, no text messages, and no calls. I may have problems with is running into her at church. We attend the same church and are very involved. She didn't attend last Sunday, which was quite surprising. Perhaps she is going NC. I don't know. I have to admit. I did talk to her co-worker to see how she is doing, but he was on vacation. So I have no scoop, no info. Nothing. I guess that is better.

01-05-2007, 10:50 AM	#4
SuperDave71 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Gender: Male Posts: 1,535	Sweet_thing06, You have a month from today. NO EXCEPTIONS... Good Luck to you!! -SuperDave71

01-05-2007, 10:50 AM	#5
kickedin Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 617	i am in.....i havent contacted or heard from her since dec 27

01-05-2007, 10:52 AM	#6
SuperDave71 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Gender: Male Posts: 1,535	Kickedin and drum4god... You are in.....GOOD LUCK !!!! Don't forget the rules ok? Post everyday how you are feeling ok? Your friend, SuperDave71

01-05-2007, 10:53 AM	#7
SWEET THING06 Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Gender: Female Posts: 18	Nooooooo problem SUPERDAVE!!!!! This is just the challenge I needed!!!! Would be nice if there was a hefty cash prize for this!!!

01-05-2007, 10:55 AM	#8
SuperDave71 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Gender: Male Posts: 1,535	Hmmmm... Cash I doubt..but I can give you the greatest gift BESIDES cash... YOU CAN LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY.... I wish you all the best! -SuperDave71