I need a GUYS OPINION ON THIS please

Zoe100 · 11-10-2006, 02:42 AM

Hey all men I need an honest opinion please: I wont yell at you for telling the truth, it's what I want.
I really just want honesty please for the following questions for you personally

1. At what point is a girl too skinny, or is there a point?
2. What is the most attractive body part to you when you are having sex?
3. If you were to see a girl standing naked, what would be the least attractive feature for you to see not in shape?

4. Let's say a girl is...what's avg. height? 5'6" (yes that's around my height, but these are really just curiosity questions: If anything I'm a little skinny for my height which is part of the reason I'm asking)
What is a weight for you that you would probably comment to your friends: dang that girls too skinny and "mmm she's a little chubby"...

Thanks to any who are willing to ask! I'm trying to figure out how much is girls and media competeing and how much guys actually want it

Arrowsmith · 11-10-2006, 03:05 AM

1) I dunno. Depends on her height. I'd say the medical standards for body mass index correlate pretty well with what I think is OK. There are lots of different kinds of pretty. In general healthy is way better than unhealthy (in either direction).
2) Face. Breasts. Waist.
3) If her waist is wider than her hips that's a pretty big turn off.
4) Not sure. See #1 above.

forza2 · 11-10-2006, 03:08 AM

1. Healthy is always the best

This is bad:

2. Eyes, lips

and depends on the position, all parts different positions.

3. There is no answer to this question!

4. For 5'6" Below 90 is skinny, 110+ is good, but again it reflexes number 1. I rather a healthy girl with extra pounds than a non healthy one who's 80 pounds and 5'6"

IronLion85 · 11-10-2006, 03:26 AM

1. There is definately a point where a girl is too skinny. I can't quantify it cause I don't know the facts and figures. I don't need to see your abs for you too be attractive for one thing. That should give you an idea, and I feel that that is true for most other guys.
2. I'm a virgin... but I think the whole package overrides any specific part.
3. Butt or gut I guess.
4. That's tough because I don't know many girls weights in general. If you're
5'6" I would think you should definately be over 100 lbs. If you're big enough to where your weight keeps you from partaking in athletic activities than you're too heavy. If you're so skinny that I can see skin hanging on your collar bones you're way too skinny.

Kevin T · 11-10-2006, 03:34 AM

1. When she becomes really flat-chested and has no figure.

2. Face, boobs, behind.

3. As long as she's long not overweight, I can't think of anything that doesn't look good on a woman. Except maybe her feet. Feet are definitely the ugliest part of the female anatomy. Eww... lol

4. Just so you know, 5'4" is evidentally the mean height for women, while it is 5'9" for men. You're above the average then. Too skinny would be under 100 lbs probably, too heavy... I don't know (some people carry their weight better than others), for 5'6" no more than 140 (or so?) Maybe 150? I don't really know.

My ex-fiancee was 5'3" (though she swears she was 5'4" lol) and was around 135 lbs when I met her she looked good. She lost a bit of weight (guess she thought I'd like it more) and was around 115 lbs by the end. She looked too thin, but that is because she is larger boned than thinner people. Her parents were obese and she used to be a lot heavier too, so at a lower weight, she looked too thin. But someone who is small-boned, like you I assume, might look obese at 135, so it's all relative.

Daddy Bear · 11-10-2006, 03:44 AM

my answers would be pretty much the same as IronLion's, with the following notation on question #2: i don't so much focus on any one particular area as i look for indicators that she's enjoying herself. use your imagination, but don't forget facial expressions (depending on position, of course).

oh, and forza2's picture makes me ill. i'd rather see a girl 60 pounds overweight than 20 pounds underweight. i hope that doesn't hurt anyone's feelings.

Grokker · 11-10-2006, 03:52 AM

1) For me... significantly less than average IS too skinny. I don't like em HUGE either... but I love having something to grab on to.

2) Hair, Eyes and Mouth. Eye contact is one of my biggest turn-ons in bed.

3) I'm really quite tolerant of the natural female form. So I guess I'd answer... broad strapping sinuous muscles?

And, cosmetically enhanced breasts are a TOTAL turn-off.

Very, very saggy boobs/gut/butt aren't appealing either. But as I said, I'm tolerant of a little chubb.

4) 105- 140 lbs, for 5'6".

AntiLove_SuperStar · 11-10-2006, 04:13 AM

Skinny girls can look wicked sexy, I wouldn't worry

sparkle1 · 11-10-2006, 05:33 AM

I know you've asked for males opinions - however i do have to say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I am 5'8 and over weight. I pull men easilly - not becoz i think i am something special - but because i am comfortable with who i am, and comfortable in my body.

I need to lose weight for health reasons at some stage - but, i wouldn't do it for any other reason.

I love my curves (men love them more!!)

Its nice to have something to grab hold off!!

For slim ladies...again i think you can look at the extremes. Slim is fine, and bigger is fine. Having confidence with who you are is the key.

Sparkle xxxx

Zoe100 · 11-10-2006, 09:16 AM

males, thank you for all your honest answers. women are always claiming guys like this and guys like that bla bla, and I realize different guys like different things, I just think sometimes we go overboard in thinking that they think we need to be TOO thin. Also: to Forza2 (cool picture!) you said

4. For 5'6" Below 90 is skinny, 110+ is good, but again it reflexes number 1. I rather a healthy girl with extra pounds than a non healthy one who's 80 pounds and 5'6"

k lol I think you might have messed up a stat. a girl who is 90-95 pounds is most likely dying in the hospital. no worries i just thought it was funny- im sure it was just a mistake i dont expect you to know weights for diff heights.

11-10-2006, 03:08 AM	#3
forza2 Offline Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: SoCal Gender: Male Age: 25 Posts: 134	1. Healthy is always the best This is bad: 2. Eyes, lips and depends on the position, all parts different positions. 3. There is no answer to this question! 4. For 5'6" Below 90 is skinny, 110+ is good, but again it reflexes number 1. I rather a healthy girl with extra pounds than a non healthy one who's 80 pounds and 5'6" Last edited by forza2; 11-10-2006 at 03:14 AM.

11-10-2006, 03:26 AM	#4
IronLion85 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Orange County, CA Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 1,535	1. There is definately a point where a girl is too skinny. I can't quantify it cause I don't know the facts and figures. I don't need to see your abs for you too be attractive for one thing. That should give you an idea, and I feel that that is true for most other guys. 2. I'm a virgin... but I think the whole package overrides any specific part. 3. Butt or gut I guess. 4. That's tough because I don't know many girls weights in general. If you're 5'6" I would think you should definately be over 100 lbs. If you're big enough to where your weight keeps you from partaking in athletic activities than you're too heavy. If you're so skinny that I can see skin hanging on your collar bones you're way too skinny. __________________ "Whenever I meet a beauty, I escape or hide in a corner. Not that I think they are intimidating, but they attract horrible people. Some guys really do their utmost to make these beautiful women believe how good they are..." - Thom Yorke

11-10-2006, 03:34 AM	#5
Kevin T Offline Join Date: Jan 2006 Gender: None Specified Posts: 1,630	1. When she becomes really flat-chested and has no figure. 2. Face, boobs, behind. 3. As long as she's long not overweight, I can't think of anything that doesn't look good on a woman. Except maybe her feet. Feet are definitely the ugliest part of the female anatomy. Eww... lol 4. Just so you know, 5'4" is evidentally the mean height for women, while it is 5'9" for men. You're above the average then. Too skinny would be under 100 lbs probably, too heavy... I don't know (some people carry their weight better than others), for 5'6" no more than 140 (or so?) Maybe 150? I don't really know. My ex-fiancee was 5'3" (though she swears she was 5'4" lol) and was around 135 lbs when I met her she looked good. She lost a bit of weight (guess she thought I'd like it more) and was around 115 lbs by the end. She looked too thin, but that is because she is larger boned than thinner people. Her parents were obese and she used to be a lot heavier too, so at a lower weight, she looked too thin. But someone who is small-boned, like you I assume, might look obese at 135, so it's all relative. Last edited by Kevin T; 11-10-2006 at 03:38 AM.

11-10-2006, 03:52 AM	#7
Grokker Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: New York, NY Gender: Male Age: 37 Posts: 129	1) For me... significantly less than average IS too skinny. I don't like em HUGE either... but I love having something to grab on to. 2) Hair, Eyes and Mouth. Eye contact is one of my biggest turn-ons in bed. 3) I'm really quite tolerant of the natural female form. So I guess I'd answer... broad strapping sinuous muscles? And, cosmetically enhanced breasts are a TOTAL turn-off. Very, very saggy boobs/gut/butt aren't appealing either. But as I said, I'm tolerant of a little chubb. 4) 105- 140 lbs, for 5'6". Last edited by Grokker; 11-10-2006 at 04:00 AM.

11-10-2006, 04:13 AM	#8
AntiLove_SuperStar Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: England Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 2,470	Skinny girls can look wicked sexy, I wouldn't worry __________________ Don't even TRY it

11-10-2006, 02:42 AM	#1
Zoe100 Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 42	I need a GUYS OPINION ON THIS please Hey all men I need an honest opinion please: I wont yell at you for telling the truth, it's what I want. I really just want honesty please for the following questions for you personally 1. At what point is a girl too skinny, or is there a point? 2. What is the most attractive body part to you when you are having sex? 3. If you were to see a girl standing naked, what would be the least attractive feature for you to see not in shape? 4. Let's say a girl is...what's avg. height? 5'6" (yes that's around my height, but these are really just curiosity questions: If anything I'm a little skinny for my height which is part of the reason I'm asking) What is a weight for you that you would probably comment to your friends: dang that girls too skinny and "mmm she's a little chubby"... Thanks to any who are willing to ask! I'm trying to figure out how much is girls and media competeing and how much guys actually want it

11-10-2006, 03:05 AM	#2
Arrowsmith Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: California Posts: 114	1) I dunno. Depends on her height. I'd say the medical standards for body mass index correlate pretty well with what I think is OK. There are lots of different kinds of pretty. In general healthy is way better than unhealthy (in either direction). 2) Face. Breasts. Waist. 3) If her waist is wider than her hips that's a pretty big turn off. 4) Not sure. See #1 above.

11-10-2006, 03:44 AM	#6
Daddy Bear Offline Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: TBA Gender: Male Age: 47 Posts: 4,358	my answers would be pretty much the same as IronLion's, with the following notation on question #2: i don't so much focus on any one particular area as i look for indicators that she's enjoying herself. use your imagination, but don't forget facial expressions (depending on position, of course). oh, and forza2's picture makes me ill. i'd rather see a girl 60 pounds overweight than 20 pounds underweight. i hope that doesn't hurt anyone's feelings.

11-10-2006, 05:33 AM	#9
sparkle1 Offline Silver Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: UK Gender: Female Age: 28 Posts: 543	I know you've asked for males opinions - however i do have to say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I am 5'8 and over weight. I pull men easilly - not becoz i think i am something special - but because i am comfortable with who i am, and comfortable in my body. I need to lose weight for health reasons at some stage - but, i wouldn't do it for any other reason. I love my curves (men love them more!!) Its nice to have something to grab hold off!! For slim ladies...again i think you can look at the extremes. Slim is fine, and bigger is fine. Having confidence with who you are is the key. Sparkle xxxx __________________ Laugh often, cry less, smile more, tell those you love "i love you", regret is the past, happiness is the future.... "I can resist anything but temptation...."

11-10-2006, 09:16 AM	#10
Zoe100 Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 42	males, thank you for all your honest answers. women are always claiming guys like this and guys like that bla bla, and I realize different guys like different things, I just think sometimes we go overboard in thinking that they think we need to be TOO thin. Also: to Forza2 (cool picture!) you said 4. For 5'6" Below 90 is skinny, 110+ is good, but again it reflexes number 1. I rather a healthy girl with extra pounds than a non healthy one who's 80 pounds and 5'6" k lol I think you might have messed up a stat. a girl who is 90-95 pounds is most likely dying in the hospital. no worries i just thought it was funny- im sure it was just a mistake i dont expect you to know weights for diff heights.