ugh!

Yvette84 · 10-31-2006, 12:32 AM

i'm just venting. doesn't it drive you CRAZY when your boyfriend/girlfriend says they'll call and they don't???? then you wait around all friggin day and everytime the phone rings you think it's them! gggrrrr......

NKP · 10-31-2006, 12:35 AM

yep i know what you mean, pises me off aswell

Yvette84 · 10-31-2006, 12:52 AM

ugh, i gues I shouldn't get too upset at him right? he's only done it about 2 or three times in the past 5 months. (after calling everyday..were in a LDR) that's not too bad...I right....?
he always says he "fell asleep" and thought he'd wake up but doesn't until the next day, it's like why doesn't he set his alarm clock JUST IN CASE he doesn't wake up! that way he can call me when he says he will!!
that's what I would do.

4ever · 10-31-2006, 03:57 AM

its funny i read posts like that alot and all posters are females, it seems like males have some kind of amnesia when it comes to making a call that they promised to make lol.
i guess it all comes to the differences between females and males, like we often hear read the book (men from mars...) so yes i guess men are not so hang up on the relationship as women are (in general)

AntiLove_SuperStar · 10-31-2006, 03:54 PM

Nah, mine always calls. Don't take no rubbish off no one, mate.

jilligirl · 10-31-2006, 08:47 PM

doesn't happen to me unless he's in a seriously sticky situation where he can't call.

oh and also- why don't you just call him, then, if you want to talk to him? why sit around and wait?

Batya33 · 10-31-2006, 09:21 PM

Difference is I wouldn't wait around - I would either be out doing things, call a different friend or relax at home with the ringer shut off. In my relationship it's a given that we speak at least once a day, usually at 11PM. The only time we have a specific time to call is when we are making or confirming plans. I don't keep track of who calls who - which I would do if it were a casual dating situation, early on. Then, I let the guy call the majority of the time (although I will return his calls promptly).

Kasai · 10-31-2006, 09:26 PM

I often forget I'm supposed to call my bf....

10-31-2006, 12:32 AM	#1
Yvette84 Offline Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Cali Gender: Female Age: 25 Posts: 734	ugh! i'm just venting. doesn't it drive you CRAZY when your boyfriend/girlfriend says they'll call and they don't???? then you wait around all friggin day and everytime the phone rings you think it's them! gggrrrr......

10-31-2006, 12:35 AM	#2
NKP Offline Silver Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: Female Age: 19 Posts: 1,313	yep i know what you mean, pises me off aswell __________________ I’ve got no place to go I’ve got nowhere to run They’d love to watch me fall They think they know it all I’m a nightmare, a disaster That’s what they always said I’m a lost cause, not a hero But I’ll make it on my own I’ve gotta prove them wrong Me against the world It’s me against the world

10-31-2006, 12:52 AM	#3
Yvette84 Offline Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Cali Gender: Female Age: 25 Posts: 734	ugh, i gues I shouldn't get too upset at him right? he's only done it about 2 or three times in the past 5 months. (after calling everyday..were in a LDR) that's not too bad...I right....? he always says he "fell asleep" and thought he'd wake up but doesn't until the next day, it's like why doesn't he set his alarm clock JUST IN CASE he doesn't wake up! that way he can call me when he says he will!! that's what I would do. Last edited by Yvette84; 10-31-2006 at 12:55 AM.

10-31-2006, 03:54 PM	#5
AntiLove_SuperStar Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: England Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 2,470	Nah, mine always calls. Don't take no rubbish off no one, mate. __________________ Don't even TRY it

10-31-2006, 08:47 PM	#6
jilligirl Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 227	doesn't happen to me unless he's in a seriously sticky situation where he can't call. oh and also- why don't you just call him, then, if you want to talk to him? why sit around and wait? Last edited by jilligirl; 10-31-2006 at 08:48 PM. Reason: forgot so say something

10-31-2006, 03:57 AM	#4
4ever Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 84	its funny i read posts like that alot and all posters are females, it seems like males have some kind of amnesia when it comes to making a call that they promised to make lol. i guess it all comes to the differences between females and males, like we often hear read the book (men from mars...) so yes i guess men are not so hang up on the relationship as women are (in general)

10-31-2006, 09:21 PM	#7
Batya33 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 19,062	Difference is I wouldn't wait around - I would either be out doing things, call a different friend or relax at home with the ringer shut off. In my relationship it's a given that we speak at least once a day, usually at 11PM. The only time we have a specific time to call is when we are making or confirming plans. I don't keep track of who calls who - which I would do if it were a casual dating situation, early on. Then, I let the guy call the majority of the time (although I will return his calls promptly).

10-31-2006, 09:26 PM	#8
Kasai Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Gender: Female Posts: 18	I often forget I'm supposed to call my bf.... __________________ <3