Pedal Pumping ("damsel in distress") fantacy

astro_dude · 10-07-2006, 05:36 PM

Hi, I am male 21 with a strong fetish for Female Pedal Pumping ("female damsel in distress"). I am in a relationship with a girl for 2 years now and since I have a strong fetish for Pedal Pumping ("damsel in distress"), I do not get aroused or errection by watching acts of nudity/sex or intercourse. However my girl wants to badly have normal sex and intercourse with me. What do I do? And if I want to have babies with her, is artificial insemination the only alternative left for me?

Please let me know!!

Thanks a ton!!

New_Horizons · 10-07-2006, 05:40 PM

I can empathize. I have a foot fetish and do not get turned on by 'mainstream' nudity. The best suggestion I can give is to compromise. Ask her to act out the fetish for foreplay, then have intercourse with her and pleasure her while your short term memory supplies the erotica

astro_dude · 10-07-2006, 05:50 PM

hey New_Horizons! .. feels great to have someone who shares a similar problem! .. but wud that short term memory supplying the erotica be enough for an orgasm for her? .. and u kno somehow I cant picture her being the damsel in distress coza various reasons which jus makes ur idea a little difficult for me to implement but il try givin it a shot

.. thx! is there anything else I could do?

New_Horizons · 10-07-2006, 05:57 PM

Ya, that makes the situation a little complicated. If you start thinking about some damsel in distress you saw online, that becomes cheating, on a very small level. It's one of those situations us fetishists must deal with.

What turns her on mentally? Maybe you could do whatever that is, and then she act out your desires in exchange. and then you two have sex. It's kind of weird but it should work. But if she doesn't turn you on at all, well I don't know then

10-07-2006, 05:36 PM	#1
astro_dude Offline Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 2	Pedal Pumping ("damsel in distress") fantacy Hi, I am male 21 with a strong fetish for Female Pedal Pumping ("female damsel in distress"). I am in a relationship with a girl for 2 years now and since I have a strong fetish for Pedal Pumping ("damsel in distress"), I do not get aroused or errection by watching acts of nudity/sex or intercourse. However my girl wants to badly have normal sex and intercourse with me. What do I do? And if I want to have babies with her, is artificial insemination the only alternative left for me? Please let me know!! Thanks a ton!!

10-07-2006, 05:40 PM	#2
New_Horizons Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: United States Gender: Male Age: 25 Posts: 505	I can empathize. I have a foot fetish and do not get turned on by 'mainstream' nudity. The best suggestion I can give is to compromise. Ask her to act out the fetish for foreplay, then have intercourse with her and pleasure her while your short term memory supplies the erotica

10-07-2006, 05:50 PM	#3
astro_dude Offline Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 2	hey New_Horizons! .. feels great to have someone who shares a similar problem! .. but wud that short term memory supplying the erotica be enough for an orgasm for her? .. and u kno somehow I cant picture her being the damsel in distress coza various reasons which jus makes ur idea a little difficult for me to implement but il try givin it a shot .. thx! is there anything else I could do?

10-07-2006, 05:57 PM	#4
New_Horizons Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: United States Gender: Male Age: 25 Posts: 505	Ya, that makes the situation a little complicated. If you start thinking about some damsel in distress you saw online, that becomes cheating, on a very small level. It's one of those situations us fetishists must deal with. What turns her on mentally? Maybe you could do whatever that is, and then she act out your desires in exchange. and then you two have sex. It's kind of weird but it should work. But if she doesn't turn you on at all, well I don't know then