tips for GRIND dancing

Diablo7000 · 09-04-2006, 12:48 AM

hi, tonight i went to this club with a few friends, and its my frist time ever dancing in my life, and i'm 17, ya thats pretty bad, but w/e.. i wanna go back soo my first dancing was grinding, some ppl are better some arent, i got turned down sum, but i danced with like 8 girls, i guess thats ok for your first time, and that was within an hour and a half, but i think i did ok, but sum of the girls liked it more then others, i kno u stand behind them and flow with the beat of the music, wat i need help with is, can sumone instruct sum things to do while i'm behind her, like i rubbed they're hips alot, but didnt do to much waste movement except flowing side to side with her and the beat of the music, and my friend said if they go down dont go with them, cas that means u gotta bend also and it throws things off, and i agree, soo can someone instruct me really well on how to do this well and be able to make the girl feel like i'm NOT a lame dancer, cas i'm deffinately going back whenever the next one is, and i wanna be good at this and be able to have more fun then i did, thanks

iamteddybearfeelmecuddle · 09-04-2006, 01:12 AM

It all depends on the girl too. I'm assuming most of the girls where you were wanted you to 'grind'? I know I don't like it when a guy tries that, it seems too forward for my taste. But then I guess it's just me. I'd rather just dance, sans the grinding.

Diablo7000 · 09-04-2006, 01:14 AM

ya that was the only dancing goin on, jsut a buncah teenagers grindin, like 700 of us lol, but anyway, any tips?

orgasmictofu · 09-04-2006, 01:43 AM

That was like, THE longest run-on sentence I've ever seen!

Tip: don't grab a boob.

sumguy · 09-04-2006, 04:07 AM

Isn't 17 too young to get into the clubs..?

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Grind dancing doesn't seem to have - or even require - much involvement from the male participant. If you want to improve your dancing in general, go to a classical dancing class, and then incorporate the sense of rythym and movement they'll instill in you onto the dance floor. I'm a terrible dancer myself (lol! =P) but two of my friends did this and they dance a lot better now.

Diablo7000 · 09-04-2006, 08:56 PM

actually it was family night, no alcohol served, there were kids there like 14 lol, so ya, thanks for the tips,

iamteddybearfeelmecuddle · 09-05-2006, 01:48 AM

Still having a hard time picturing people grind dancing in front of children or their parents! And their parents not having anything to say about it?

Ok, mini-rant over....

neva_black_n_white · 09-06-2006, 03:26 PM

some girls dont like you proper caressing the hips so be careful on that one. depends how much theyre grinding up to you i guess.

half the time that will indicate some form of direction.

in sinc << is that the right spelling (unlikely!)

synconisation MEOW!

wenddawga · 09-28-2007, 05:58 PM

k dude its simple. girls WANT you to come over. so dont be shy just go over and grab her by the hips. some girls will just look at you and walk away, but get over it and find another one. Anyway, when you do get one, just grab her by the hips and just stand there pushing her into you. if she goes down dont go down with her, just put ur hand on her back as she goes down. you might want to sway side to side, but if i were you i would just stand there leaning my hips forward and push her into you. and she will think that you do this a lot and she'll want to try to "please" you. trust me dude its what the girls want.

thatgirl02 · 05-31-2008, 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by wenddawga

k dude its simple. girls WANT you to come over. so dont be shy just go over and grab her by the hips. some girls will just look at you and walk away, but get over it and find another one. Anyway, when you do get one, just grab her by the hips and just stand there pushing her into you. if she goes down dont go down with her, just put ur hand on her back as she goes down. you might want to sway side to side, but if i were you i would just stand there leaning my hips forward and push her into you. and she will think that you do this a lot and she'll want to try to "please" you. trust me dude its what the girls want.

That's hot..I love that. I wish more guys would do that. It really does feel so good and it makes you feel good too

09-04-2006, 12:48 AM	#1
Diablo7000 Offline Silver Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Georgia Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 553	tips for GRIND dancing hi, tonight i went to this club with a few friends, and its my frist time ever dancing in my life, and i'm 17, ya thats pretty bad, but w/e.. i wanna go back soo my first dancing was grinding, some ppl are better some arent, i got turned down sum, but i danced with like 8 girls, i guess thats ok for your first time, and that was within an hour and a half, but i think i did ok, but sum of the girls liked it more then others, i kno u stand behind them and flow with the beat of the music, wat i need help with is, can sumone instruct sum things to do while i'm behind her, like i rubbed they're hips alot, but didnt do to much waste movement except flowing side to side with her and the beat of the music, and my friend said if they go down dont go with them, cas that means u gotta bend also and it throws things off, and i agree, soo can someone instruct me really well on how to do this well and be able to make the girl feel like i'm NOT a lame dancer, cas i'm deffinately going back whenever the next one is, and i wanna be good at this and be able to have more fun then i did, thanks

09-04-2006, 04:07 AM	#5
sumguy Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Australia Gender: None Specified Age: 22 Posts: 447	Isn't 17 too young to get into the clubs..? >.> <.< >.< Grind dancing doesn't seem to have - or even require - much involvement from the male participant. If you want to improve your dancing in general, go to a classical dancing class, and then incorporate the sense of rythym and movement they'll instill in you onto the dance floor. I'm a terrible dancer myself (lol! =P) but two of my friends did this and they dance a lot better now. __________________ So Hell is a place of everlasting damnation and fire? You are aware that your belief system is thermodynamically unsound, right?

09-06-2006, 03:26 PM	#8
neva_black_n_white Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: yorkshire Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 2,142	some girls dont like you proper caressing the hips so be careful on that one. depends how much theyre grinding up to you i guess. half the time that will indicate some form of direction. in sinc << is that the right spelling (unlikely!) synconisation MEOW! __________________ When love cuts blind 20-20 vision. Its better to remain quiet and be thought of as a fool than to speak and remove all doubt!

09-28-2007, 05:58 PM	#9
wenddawga Offline Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1	k k dude its simple. girls WANT you to come over. so dont be shy just go over and grab her by the hips. some girls will just look at you and walk away, but get over it and find another one. Anyway, when you do get one, just grab her by the hips and just stand there pushing her into you. if she goes down dont go down with her, just put ur hand on her back as she goes down. you might want to sway side to side, but if i were you i would just stand there leaning my hips forward and push her into you. and she will think that you do this a lot and she'll want to try to "please" you. trust me dude its what the girls want.

09-04-2006, 01:12 AM	#2
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 2,344	It all depends on the girl too. I'm assuming most of the girls where you were wanted you to 'grind'? I know I don't like it when a guy tries that, it seems too forward for my taste. But then I guess it's just me. I'd rather just dance, sans the grinding.

09-04-2006, 01:14 AM	#3
Diablo7000 Offline Silver Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Georgia Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 553	ya that was the only dancing goin on, jsut a buncah teenagers grindin, like 700 of us lol, but anyway, any tips?

09-04-2006, 01:43 AM	#4
orgasmictofu Offline Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Canada eh? Gender: Female Age: 25 Posts: 523	That was like, THE longest run-on sentence I've ever seen! Tip: don't grab a boob.

09-04-2006, 08:56 PM	#6
Diablo7000 Offline Silver Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Georgia Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 553	actually it was family night, no alcohol served, there were kids there like 14 lol, so ya, thanks for the tips,

09-05-2006, 01:48 AM	#7
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 2,344	Still having a hard time picturing people grind dancing in front of children or their parents! And their parents not having anything to say about it? Ok, mini-rant over....