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    Exclamation im a girl in love with my best friend(a girl)

    COLOR="Red"][/COLOR]hi.. im a 23 year female... a bi..heres my story.
    . i live i na hostel with my roomate n best friend of 5 years. . we both trust each other,, n respect each other alot...n are the best of friends.

    .. lately since a year im kinda startn to fall for her... we do all things together.. like wrestle sumtimes...i do get turned on... i dont know if she does.. we talk for hours.. in our room.. n while playfully fighting she bites me too.. like my hand or piches me or tickles me...sumtimes when im sleeping in the morning she would pull my shirt. up(im sleeping on my stomach n the shirt goes up till my mid chest not full).. n say shame shame...or watever... sumtimes when im with my friends... n i dont interact wtih her.. much i can sense she gets a bit jealous.. she is a scorpion.
    during exams we massage each others necks n it feels good... once when she was not well she told me to sit by her side while sleeping.. n iwas awake like for two hours just stroking her head to make her feel gud(like how a mum wud when a kid isnt well)...n once i told her to stroke my head n forehead... she did.. n after sumtime jus asked me.... are you felling 'good' or is it like tickling... my heart skipped a beat at that... but i luaghed nsaid tickles.. she said.. a girl doesnt do this to a girl i said ok.. but she continued for 2 min.. then we went off to sleep(seperatly).
    she had a bf but they broke off... n nshe said why are all guys like this...selfish.. always physical. n all.. we have discussed this lots...im a virgo... n once she said ...i would like a virgo husband.
    once when i came to stay at her room in the hostel.. she joked n said you will sleep down.. isaid ok... after that she said...ok you sleep outside(on her bed)..coz she likes to sleep on the wall side...i was happy.

    ..once i was on vacation back home n i jus msged her thati read sumthing on bisexuality.. so i asked her is she one.. she said no.. she is sure of it.. later she msged me saying are you.. so i didnt exactly say yes but gav her a hint...

    n after a month wehn i met her in her hostel.. we were alone n she asked me why i felt that im a bi.. so i laughed n said.. no ways... i just feel women too are attractive.. n we didnt talk bout it...she says she remebers me first whenever she has ne probs..

    .n once i had come to visist for 3 days n since she had college i was out mostly with other frnds.. .so at nite when i came back she slept ear,ly without talking.. n i forced her to get up.. n told her im sorry i cudnt spend time with you n all that.. n soon she was happy.. n we were up till 5am talking .. next moring a had to leave so she said she feeling dam bad that im goin .. n she doesnt feel ike goin to college n all.. n she snet me such msgs.. she sent a msg to one of my male frnds too who was travlingwith me.. n he jokingly said you two are behaving like its the end of the world.. n he jokes around thsat we are gay or bi..i dont say nethn at all but its her who says ya we are... jokingly alot..

    .once me n her were standing in our room .. n we have a habit well to just like nudge each other by our noses..(eskimo kiss).. n many times she has not backed out.. only like two times she said why you so close.. n i would just joke sayn nothn..
    n once when this hapnd she jus looked at me n stuck out her tongue like she was teasing me n a very small tip of her tongue actually touched my lip(it was great). ... sumtimes when i go visit her n friends..
    we call each other by pet names.. n when we gift each toher for bdays n all she does write in the card.. like from UR.... n the pet name.. so do i...i have held her like sumtimes in my arms n she has not said nethn

    im done with my studies... well in the room there are 3 beds . coz my other two frnds females are fat they take one bed each n coz me n my frnd are thin.. we sleeep in the same bed...n i feel soo good hen i sleep so close to her... i think she too feels the same..sumtimes we are pressed on sideways with each other...i know she gets dam happy to see me.. n talk to me n all.. but i have told her thru yahoo chat im maybe a bi.. n she said its ok.. just askin me y i felt so
    .. im confused. . i hope she too wants too kiss me or sumtihng..how do i know? ..[/COLOR]
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    hay, i can kinda relate to how ur feelin at the mo! it messes with ur head when they say or do things which make u feel as if they are intereted huh! i think ur mate is doind cos she can and she knows how u feel if that makes sense! thats how i feel bout my mate sometimes! but its a real teaser and drives u insane! i would say go talk to her but if u do she could become scared even thou she givin u all these singns and it could change things between u both! that wh yi aint talkin to my mate bout how i feel!! i havent really got an answer cos im looking for myself to but when/if i do find and asnwer il deff let u know!! here to talk thou cos feelin excat same at the mo!! x

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    yeah thanks pal.. mjb....

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    seriously n e time u need a chat! hope it all works out well for u x

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    hey people i need answers not only viewers.. u wud be of lot of help please.

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    Talk to her about it, tell her how you feel, you will feel alot better when you get it of your chest.

    To me she does sound interested but is to scared to tell you how she feels, but i could be wrong, so i really do think you should talk to her
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    what are the actual dead hints that really make u find out she wants you?

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    I'll repost what I said in the other thread you posted about this, since the original post there's been removed... Sorry for the duplication :/



    Though you two sound like very, very close friends, sharing the same bed and everything else you mentioned, unfortunately I don't think you should count on her being bi or lesbian. If she did have feelings for you too in that way, I think she would have expressed it more directly by now, especially when you asked her about whether she was bi. I think

    only few times she said why you so close
    is a good indication as well that she doesn't have those feelings for you. Of course I may be wrong.. you two sound like you're closer, as friends, than a lot of people are with anyone in their lifetime, but from what you said it sounds to me like she isn't looking for anything more than a friendship.

    I hope you get more advice than just mine, mine's a bit pessimistic >__>

    In any case, the best of luck, keep us updated.

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    ya i know but i mean shge must hav just said this like 3 times in 4 years!!!!all the other times she jus smiles n stuff. i dont know but i gt these hints from her like that... n she doesnt fool around with any other girl except me when we in the room alone.. sumtimes when we alone in the room n wen we fooling around i have seen her looking at the door sumtimes jus to see if its ocked.. then we continue with our fooling.. wats that????????????

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    The only way you're going to find out exactly what's going on between the two of you is to talk to her and explain how you feel. Tell her you're confused because you're not sure if she feels the same about you and that you don't want to offend her or lose her friendship by making a pass at her.

    Good luck

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