Just a little worried....

Dirtycowgirl05 · 07-28-2006, 06:24 PM

Ok so about 3 saturdays ago, my fiancee and i had an accident where he came in me, thats never happened to me before and im just a little scared, im not on birth control, i had just gotten over my period that monday, tuesday or, wednesday (I cant remember) and then it happened that saturday, i mean it might not be a problem for us i just have no insurance right now because i just graduated cosmetology school and i am just starting up a new job and its going to cost us a lot of money, plus we arent married yet, i really dont know what to do!!

**Hope75** · 07-28-2006, 06:39 PM

So this happened 3 weeks ago?

There isn't alot you can do now but wait, and take a pregnancy test if your period is late. Once that happens, if you are pregnant, you can decide where to go from there. It's definitely possible that you are pregnant... pregnancy can occur at any time during your cycle, though the most common time of ovulation is 2 weeks before the start of your next period.

I hope in the future if you and your fiance plan on having unprotected sex, you will be tested for STI's and will be on birth control to prevent incidents like this from happening again, when you aren't ready to be parents yet.

Aragorn · 07-28-2006, 07:01 PM

From the guy's perspective...

Yes unfortunately the worst punishment is time, you'll have to wait and see how your body functions in the next little bit.

UNFORTUNATELY it is too late to suggest the 'day after / morning after Pill"

I guess alot of us have been in this spot (haha, surprised you do not have more helpful responses)

But just make plans to get checked out (soon) to find out yes or no. From there you can at least plan course of action, which is easier than being stuck in limbo right now.

Hopefully to your wishing you'll have dodged fate and learned a HUGE lesson, but other wise you'll have to make some big descisions.

Best of wishes,

Matt
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southerngirl · 07-29-2006, 12:47 PM

Yeah like they said wait and test if you miss your period. The suspense will be the worst part but I would suggest not testing until you are actually late for your period.

InaneCathode · 07-29-2006, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Dirtycowgirl05

Ok so about 3 saturdays ago, my fiancee and i had an accident where he came in me, thats never happened to me before and im just a little scared, im not on birth control, i had just gotten over my period that monday, tuesday or, wednesday (I cant remember) and then it happened that saturday, i mean it might not be a problem for us i just have no insurance right now because i just graduated cosmetology school and i am just starting up a new job and its going to cost us a lot of money, plus we arent married yet, i really dont know what to do!!

I'm betting you'll be ok this time, you *shouldnt* be fertile when this happened, and his sperm *shouldnt* hang around long enough to wait for an egg to drop. But of course there's all the uncertainties of statistics to deal with

07-28-2006, 06:24 PM	#1
Dirtycowgirl05 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 11	Just a little worried.... Ok so about 3 saturdays ago, my fiancee and i had an accident where he came in me, thats never happened to me before and im just a little scared, im not on birth control, i had just gotten over my period that monday, tuesday or, wednesday (I cant remember) and then it happened that saturday, i mean it might not be a problem for us i just have no insurance right now because i just graduated cosmetology school and i am just starting up a new job and its going to cost us a lot of money, plus we arent married yet, i really dont know what to do!!

07-28-2006, 06:39 PM	#2
Hope75 Offline Super Moderator Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: kitteh ville Gender: Female Age: 33 Posts: 12,512	So this happened 3 weeks ago? There isn't alot you can do now but wait, and take a pregnancy test if your period is late. Once that happens, if you are pregnant, you can decide where to go from there. It's definitely possible that you are pregnant... pregnancy can occur at any time during your cycle, though the most common time of ovulation is 2 weeks before the start of your next period. I hope in the future if you and your fiance plan on having unprotected sex, you will be tested for STI's and will be on birth control to prevent incidents like this from happening again, when you aren't ready to be parents yet. __________________ Muffin cats need love too. Please refer to the forum rules before posting: http://www.enotalone.com/forum/forum-rules.php Mama to a beautiful baby girl born 6-25-09. :)

07-29-2006, 12:47 PM	#4
southerngirl Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: NW Georgia Gender: Female Posts: 3,032	Yeah like they said wait and test if you miss your period. The suspense will be the worst part but I would suggest not testing until you are actually late for your period. __________________ A wise man learns by the mistakes of others, a fool by his own. Latin Proverb

07-28-2006, 07:01 PM	#3
Aragorn Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Winnipeg, MB Age: 29 Posts: 37	From the guy's perspective... Yes unfortunately the worst punishment is time, you'll have to wait and see how your body functions in the next little bit. UNFORTUNATELY it is too late to suggest the 'day after / morning after Pill" I guess alot of us have been in this spot (haha, surprised you do not have more helpful responses) But just make plans to get checked out (soon) to find out yes or no. From there you can at least plan course of action, which is easier than being stuck in limbo right now. Hopefully to your wishing you'll have dodged fate and learned a HUGE lesson, but other wise you'll have to make some big descisions. Best of wishes, Matt <><