okay i hate my vagina! i said it.

rachael_unscrewedbottle · 07-26-2006, 08:00 AM

this is probably weird coming from a teenage girl but other people my age tend to be concious of their weight, or their thighs or whatever but seriously i completely hate the appearance of my vagina.

one being its totally huge and a guy once poked fun at me and called it camel humps when i had my underwear on because it bought out that much under my panties. it looked like a a buldge in a dudes tight boxers. like the lips are pretty huge and i wasn't being gross or anything but i looked at it with a mirror the other day and they're so big it reminded me of a guys testicles.

im getting paranoid about it and im too embarassed to let a guy see my big enormous stupid thing. and its so wrinkly inside like i can hardly find my clitoris and its just so large like ughh, i cant even feel any kind of stimulation, when i touch myself. to be honest i dont think guys ive been with in the past could find it either, and i fear i'll never experience an orgasm. is it possible to like not even have a clitoris? because on a totally frank note, when ive been with a guy (whom of which have all been relationship involved) there was never an incredible feeling down there when we did stuff. not even when he performed oral on me. is there something possibly wrong down there? i remember laughing at the tv for a woman getting a plastic vagina surgerical operated enhancement or whatever its called now i would actually consider it. im getting annoyed too at that fact that i cant even please myself let alone try with another person. grrrrrrrrrrrrr i hate hate hate it!

smile_abbey · 07-26-2006, 08:13 AM

It's a vagina
It's not meant to look good or beautiful
It's not on your face dear
& there isn't a particular way one is meant to be formed
It's a subjective thing, and comes in all different kind of sizes etc.
It may be as you described it to be large, that you cant find your clitoris.
To me it's unknown for a girl not to have one
You make yourself sound like a woman with manhood down there or something.
Refering to it looking like a males testicles and what not.
If as you said have been in relationships before and experimented with a guy, they must obviously have not found anything wrong down below for them to do things with you.
A man performing oral sex on a girl pretty much gives him a full insight of everything down there.
If your worried about having no kind of stimulation, that i'm not sure about.
I've never experimented myself with touching and what not, i don't know what the possibilities are of a clitoris failing to respond to self pleasure.
Anyone help her out on that ?

Sheyda · 07-26-2006, 09:32 AM

Hi there. I posted about this a while ago since there are lots of women who worry that their vulva looks weird. Here is the link:

http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=113317

I hope it helps.

voltaire · 07-26-2006, 09:37 AM

Believe me my dear it will look absolutely beuatiful to whoever loves you.

nottoogreen · 07-26-2006, 10:12 AM

Rachel,

I concur with previous posters, and like to add that the whole person matters. In the health section of: Wicked are some ideas on how to handle your appearances.

Day_Walker · 07-26-2006, 11:13 AM

I think that your inability to orgasm is linked to your insecurity about your vagina, if its something that you worry about then it will never happen. An orgasm will happen when you are relaxed and comfortable. If you really hate your vagina and you have the means to correct the problem then consider having surgery.

zippitt · 07-26-2006, 12:00 PM

Don't take this the wrong way, but I have always like them the way you described yours.

But your inability to orgasm is a common problem with women, and a lot of the time it is all psychological.

You might just wanna do some research online, you could probably find enough information to help you.

ftc · 07-27-2006, 05:43 AM

lol does anyone have a hot Vagina!!

i agree with day_walker that not orgasming maybe have something to do with your preceeption of your vagina......... so love your vagina for what it is, and all your problems will be solved. hehe

miserableme · 07-27-2006, 07:09 AM

All vagina's are ugly (some refer to it as an "axe-wound").

If it really bothers you, I would see a doctor to make sure you're all normal and there is no unnatural swelling etc.

Don't worry about anyone that laughs at you. Most guys would be happy just to get some action. The guy who laughed is just a jerk. Not all of them are like that, no matter how much it seems that way.

FoxLocke · 07-27-2006, 04:44 PM

There is actually cosmetic surgery that can make your vagina look more aesthetically pleasing...Not saying that there is anything wrong with the way it looks now! But if you are very insecure about it you might look into this...

Also, no one, except your partner, is EVER going to see your vagina...

07-26-2006, 08:00 AM	#1
rachael_unscrewedbottle Offline Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 1	okay i hate my vagina! i said it. this is probably weird coming from a teenage girl but other people my age tend to be concious of their weight, or their thighs or whatever but seriously i completely hate the appearance of my vagina. one being its totally huge and a guy once poked fun at me and called it camel humps when i had my underwear on because it bought out that much under my panties. it looked like a a buldge in a dudes tight boxers. like the lips are pretty huge and i wasn't being gross or anything but i looked at it with a mirror the other day and they're so big it reminded me of a guys testicles. im getting paranoid about it and im too embarassed to let a guy see my big enormous stupid thing. and its so wrinkly inside like i can hardly find my clitoris and its just so large like ughh, i cant even feel any kind of stimulation, when i touch myself. to be honest i dont think guys ive been with in the past could find it either, and i fear i'll never experience an orgasm. is it possible to like not even have a clitoris? because on a totally frank note, when ive been with a guy (whom of which have all been relationship involved) there was never an incredible feeling down there when we did stuff. not even when he performed oral on me. is there something possibly wrong down there? i remember laughing at the tv for a woman getting a plastic vagina surgerical operated enhancement or whatever its called now i would actually consider it. im getting annoyed too at that fact that i cant even please myself let alone try with another person. grrrrrrrrrrrrr i hate hate hate it!

07-26-2006, 09:32 AM	#3
Sheyda Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Canada Gender: Female Posts: 223	Hi there. I posted about this a while ago since there are lots of women who worry that their vulva looks weird. Here is the link: http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=113317 I hope it helps. __________________ "Love can be defined by neither age nor gender."

07-26-2006, 11:13 AM	#6
Day_Walker Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: California Gender: Male Age: 28 Posts: 4,882	I think that your inability to orgasm is linked to your insecurity about your vagina, if its something that you worry about then it will never happen. An orgasm will happen when you are relaxed and comfortable. If you really hate your vagina and you have the means to correct the problem then consider having surgery. __________________ "A long habit of not thinking a thing wrong gives it the superficial appearance of being right, and raises at first a formidable outcry in defense of custom. But the tumult soon subsides. Time makes more converts than reason." Thomas Paine "The wise man questions others wisdom because he questions his own, the foolish man because it is different from his own." Leo Stein

07-27-2006, 05:43 AM	#8
ftc Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Gender: Female Posts: 42	lol does anyone have a hot Vagina!! i agree with day_walker that not orgasming maybe have something to do with your preceeption of your vagina......... so love your vagina for what it is, and all your problems will be solved. hehe __________________ Tell me love isn't true It's just something we do!

07-27-2006, 04:44 PM	#10
FoxLocke Offline Silver Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Across 110th Street Gender: Male Age: 29 Posts: 1,003	There is actually cosmetic surgery that can make your vagina look more aesthetically pleasing...Not saying that there is anything wrong with the way it looks now! But if you are very insecure about it you might look into this... Also, no one, except your partner, is EVER going to see your vagina... __________________ "Tyger! Tyger! burning bright In the forests of the night, What immortal hand or eye Dare frame thy fearful symmetry?" 1794 William Blake

07-26-2006, 08:13 AM	#2
smile_abbey Offline Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: California Age: 21 Posts: 6	It's a vagina It's not meant to look good or beautiful It's not on your face dear & there isn't a particular way one is meant to be formed It's a subjective thing, and comes in all different kind of sizes etc. It may be as you described it to be large, that you cant find your clitoris. To me it's unknown for a girl not to have one You make yourself sound like a woman with manhood down there or something. Refering to it looking like a males testicles and what not. If as you said have been in relationships before and experimented with a guy, they must obviously have not found anything wrong down below for them to do things with you. A man performing oral sex on a girl pretty much gives him a full insight of everything down there. If your worried about having no kind of stimulation, that i'm not sure about. I've never experimented myself with touching and what not, i don't know what the possibilities are of a clitoris failing to respond to self pleasure. Anyone help her out on that ?

07-26-2006, 09:37 AM	#4
voltaire Offline Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Belgium Age: 63 Posts: 49	Believe me my dear it will look absolutely beuatiful to whoever loves you.

07-26-2006, 10:12 AM	#5
nottoogreen Offline Join Date: May 2006 Gender: Male Posts: 2,530	Rachel, I concur with previous posters, and like to add that the whole person matters. In the health section of: Wicked are some ideas on how to handle your appearances.

07-26-2006, 12:00 PM	#7
zippitt Offline Silver Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Age: 33 Posts: 308	Don't take this the wrong way, but I have always like them the way you described yours. But your inability to orgasm is a common problem with women, and a lot of the time it is all psychological. You might just wanna do some research online, you could probably find enough information to help you.

07-27-2006, 07:09 AM	#9
miserableme Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 255	All vagina's are ugly (some refer to it as an "axe-wound"). If it really bothers you, I would see a doctor to make sure you're all normal and there is no unnatural swelling etc. Don't worry about anyone that laughs at you. Most guys would be happy just to get some action. The guy who laughed is just a jerk. Not all of them are like that, no matter how much it seems that way.