Oral - Is it so painful giving Head ?

ChickLuver · 07-20-2006, 12:44 AM

While making love to my G/F, I always try to make sure that she is satisfied completely. She prefers to receive oral from me before the main course. She moans and cums very heavily. By the time, I penetrate she has already cum 3-4 times, as she claims. I have requested her many times to give me Head but she ignores it, saying that she can't take it inside her mouth. My submission is that when you love someone, you must make all efforts to please him or her, no matter whether you like it or not. More importantly, if my partner likes and demands something like this, I should honour it since I love her so much and wud like to see her happy while having sex with me.

I don't know how to convince her to give me a Head.

LostInMyThoughts · 07-20-2006, 12:47 AM

You shouldn't have to convice her. If she doesn't want to do it, then that is her desire. Let her know that you are bothered by it, and how it makes you feel.

Also if she asks you to do something you're not comfortable with, you dont HAVE to honor it.

**melrich** · 07-20-2006, 12:48 AM

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My submission is that when you love someone, you must make all efforts to please him or her, no matter whether you like it or not. More importantly, if my partner likes and demands something like this, I should honour it since I love her so much and wud like to see her happy while having sex with me.

Absolutely not. That is simply plain wrong.

And never give in the expectation that you will receive.

Ians Mommy · 07-20-2006, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ChickLuver

While making love to my G/F, I always try to make sure that she is satisfied completely. She prefers to receive oral from me before the main course. She moans and cums very heavily. By the time, I penetrate she has already cum 3-4 times, as she claims. I have requested her many times to give me Head but she ignores it, saying that she can't take it inside her mouth. My submission is that when you love someone, you must make all efforts to please him or her, no matter whether you like it or not. More importantly, if my partner likes and demands something like this, I should honour it since I love her so much and wud like to see her happy while having sex with me.

I don't know how to convince her to give me a Head.

If she doesn't want to do it, you shouldn't try to make her do it. I know for a fact that some girls can't stand giving head and I'm one of them. If she wants to, she will. Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do even if you do go down on her.

yeawutever · 07-20-2006, 01:03 AM

Do understand that in any type of relation, one of those main component is respect. If she has no desire to perform oral on you and instead prefers to receive oral from you, then respect that.

randiandriien · 07-20-2006, 01:10 AM

She says she doesn't want to do it because it hurts? Hmmm, I'd ask her the real reason she doesn't want to. If it's legitimate, then maybe she'll be one of the girls who doesn't do that. However, if she just doesn't want to...I'd cut her off right there (orally I mean).

monkey1 · 07-20-2006, 01:15 AM

She give you hand jobs? Maybe if she just kisses it, that will do? Maybe just take the tip in her mouth? Has she ever given oral or tired it before with anyone else?

nottoogreen · 07-20-2006, 01:18 AM

Many girls are hesitant at first, also some girls worry about guys attempting to go too deep. Do not expect her to deep throat, it's mostly a myth!

Be patient with her and make her cum harder also with her g-spot. In the Sexuality section of Reference materials and more info are useful links.

InaneCathode · 07-20-2006, 02:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Ailec1987

Do understand that in any type of relation, one of those main component is respect. If she has no desire to perform oral on you and instead prefers to receive oral from you, then respect that.

No, he doesnt. If he feels it's unfair to be giving her oral all the time, and never recieve it. He has every logical and emotional right to refuse to service her in that manner.

nottoogreen · 07-20-2006, 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by InaneCathode

No, he doesnt. If he feels it's unfair to be giving her oral all the time, and never recieve it. He has every logical and emotional right to refuse to service her in that manner.

I do not concur as most women have enough trouble to orgasm. Get her to orgasm properly, to black out, make her unable to walk and in due time she will return the favor.

And she won't get enough of you as well.

Assumption is the mother of many failures. Asking if she orgasms is useless as most young women do not know what a great orgasm is like. Little tingly clit orgasms are minor and do not satisfy much.

One more thing, when a girl really orgasms, her V. will get dry fast, within a few minutes after stimulation stopped.

07-20-2006, 12:44 AM	#1
ChickLuver Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 19	Oral - Is it so painful giving Head ? While making love to my G/F, I always try to make sure that she is satisfied completely. She prefers to receive oral from me before the main course. She moans and cums very heavily. By the time, I penetrate she has already cum 3-4 times, as she claims. I have requested her many times to give me Head but she ignores it, saying that she can't take it inside her mouth. My submission is that when you love someone, you must make all efforts to please him or her, no matter whether you like it or not. More importantly, if my partner likes and demands something like this, I should honour it since I love her so much and wud like to see her happy while having sex with me. I don't know how to convince her to give me a Head.

07-20-2006, 12:47 AM	#2
LostInMyThoughts Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Seattle Gender: Male Age: 30 Posts: 1,578	You shouldn't have to convice her. If she doesn't want to do it, then that is her desire. Let her know that you are bothered by it, and how it makes you feel. Also if she asks you to do something you're not comfortable with, you dont HAVE to honor it. __________________ "If you're going through hell; keep going." - Winston Churchill

07-20-2006, 01:03 AM	#5
yeawutever Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: None Specified Age: 22 Posts: 5,671	Do understand that in any type of relation, one of those main component is respect. If she has no desire to perform oral on you and instead prefers to receive oral from you, then respect that. __________________ Opened-minded to those in need of help. Not everything is black and white as it seems.... If you're gonna do something, think twice and make sure it's something worthy that you don't later on regret!!!!!!!!!!! Still in a LDR with boyfriend.

07-20-2006, 01:10 AM	#6
randiandriien Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Hattiesburg, MS Gender: Female Age: 26 Posts: 329	She says she doesn't want to do it because it hurts? Hmmm, I'd ask her the real reason she doesn't want to. If it's legitimate, then maybe she'll be one of the girls who doesn't do that. However, if she just doesn't want to...I'd cut her off right there (orally I mean). __________________ I've found the meaning to true love and I don't want to know life without it! These are my opinions; I'm not perfect. I'm only human!

07-20-2006, 01:15 AM	#7
monkey1 Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: San Francisco, CA Gender: Female Age: 27 Posts: 690	She give you hand jobs? Maybe if she just kisses it, that will do? Maybe just take the tip in her mouth? Has she ever given oral or tired it before with anyone else?

07-20-2006, 01:18 AM	#8
nottoogreen Offline Join Date: May 2006 Gender: Male Posts: 2,530	Many girls are hesitant at first, also some girls worry about guys attempting to go too deep. Do not expect her to deep throat, it's mostly a myth! Be patient with her and make her cum harder also with her g-spot. In the Sexuality section of Reference materials and more info are useful links.