Feelings for trangender woman? Help...

SapphireStar · 07-09-2006, 09:44 AM

Is this natural? I'm bisexual, and I'm having feeling for a certain trans woman...I've never had any feelings like this before. Any advice? Please?

miserableme · 07-09-2006, 09:50 AM

First of all, are you really 14?

Second of all, if you are bisexual then this is probably normal. Not necessarily natural. Women were not meant to dress as men and vice versa. In fact, we weren't even meant to wear clothes.

I would just go with your gut instincts.

UT · 07-09-2006, 10:20 AM

Falling in love with soemone who is transgendered can, no is, very confusing but mostly when it comes to the sexuality aspect. However since you're bisexual that should not be a problem.

Love is blind. It doesn't matter who you fall in love with. Love doesn't discriminate, people do. Wehen falling in love you don't fall in love with the body, but the personality. Since I'm gay, I myself had problems with defining myself when I fell in love with my boyfriend. but after a little bit I just accepted it. I am whoever I see myself as. I'm not attracted to girls, I never fall in live with girls and I really really like the male body and the male way to be. I am gay. I don't really care what people say though. If they see me as gay or if I'm bi in their eyes. Doesn't matter at all.

There is no reasopn why you can't be in love with a transgendered person and there's no reason why it couldn't work out between the two of you. to answer your question: Yes, love is natural. Don't let gender decide whether or not you can be together and happy with a person. I don't

itsallgrand · 07-09-2006, 10:25 AM

What sorts of feelings?

The fact that this woman is transgender seems like a non-issue. Sometimes it is surprising who we find attractive (especially to ourselves). All that can be reconciled in our hearts and minds tho. There is nothing wrong with it; perhaps only surprising.

This person is a woman - I mean, an adult over 18? That would be more of an issue !

FoxLocke · 07-09-2006, 11:00 AM

Are you certain what type of feelings you are having for "her?"

You could just be intrigued by the whole transgender process. I know that it fascinates me to watch a person go from one gender to another...Sorta like a transformer(no offense to anyone).

Does this person goto your school? Are the two of you close? Or, like me, are you simply enamored by the whole gender reassignment process?

As it is if you are in love with her it shouldn't matter...especially since you are bi.

Tigris · 07-14-2006, 10:05 PM

I agree that if you're bi it shouldn't make any difference to you.

07-09-2006, 09:44 AM	#1
SapphireStar Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Tennessee Gender: Female Posts: 38	Feelings for trangender woman? Help... Is this natural? I'm bisexual, and I'm having feeling for a certain trans woman...I've never had any feelings like this before. Any advice? Please? Last edited by SapphireStar; 07-09-2006 at 09:52 AM.

07-09-2006, 10:20 AM	#3
UT Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Sweden Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 355	Falling in love with soemone who is transgendered can, no is, very confusing but mostly when it comes to the sexuality aspect. However since you're bisexual that should not be a problem. Love is blind. It doesn't matter who you fall in love with. Love doesn't discriminate, people do. Wehen falling in love you don't fall in love with the body, but the personality. Since I'm gay, I myself had problems with defining myself when I fell in love with my boyfriend. but after a little bit I just accepted it. I am whoever I see myself as. I'm not attracted to girls, I never fall in live with girls and I really really like the male body and the male way to be. I am gay. I don't really care what people say though. If they see me as gay or if I'm bi in their eyes. Doesn't matter at all. There is no reasopn why you can't be in love with a transgendered person and there's no reason why it couldn't work out between the two of you. to answer your question: Yes, love is natural. Don't let gender decide whether or not you can be together and happy with a person. I don't __________________ i drew you the prettiest rainbow..

07-09-2006, 11:00 AM	#5
FoxLocke Offline Silver Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Across 110th Street Gender: Male Age: 29 Posts: 1,003	Are you certain what type of feelings you are having for "her?" You could just be intrigued by the whole transgender process. I know that it fascinates me to watch a person go from one gender to another...Sorta like a transformer(no offense to anyone). Does this person goto your school? Are the two of you close? Or, like me, are you simply enamored by the whole gender reassignment process? As it is if you are in love with her it shouldn't matter...especially since you are bi. __________________ "Tyger! Tyger! burning bright In the forests of the night, What immortal hand or eye Dare frame thy fearful symmetry?" 1794 William Blake

07-09-2006, 09:50 AM	#2
miserableme Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 255	First of all, are you really 14? Second of all, if you are bisexual then this is probably normal. Not necessarily natural. Women were not meant to dress as men and vice versa. In fact, we weren't even meant to wear clothes. I would just go with your gut instincts.

07-09-2006, 10:25 AM	#4
itsallgrand Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: following my grace... Gender: None Specified Posts: 6,788	What sorts of feelings? The fact that this woman is transgender seems like a non-issue. Sometimes it is surprising who we find attractive (especially to ourselves). All that can be reconciled in our hearts and minds tho. There is nothing wrong with it; perhaps only surprising. This person is a woman - I mean, an adult over 18? That would be more of an issue !

07-14-2006, 10:05 PM	#6
Tigris Offline Silver Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: England Gender: Female Age: 46 Posts: 3,556	I agree that if you're bi it shouldn't make any difference to you.