He has a small penis, and I feel like a jerk.

4inchfury, I really dont think there is anything wrong with a woman not wanting to be with someone who does not satisfy her sexually. This guy the original poster is with just needs to find someone who will accept him for what he has.

 

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Yeah, because that's all relationships are about, is being sexually pleasured. Again, it shows how shallow women are if that's all they care about is sex. with guys that have big * * * *s.

8 pages of comments, some of them quite shallow, and the original poster has not even had sex with him yet so doesn't even know how things will go! My sympathies to all men who have a small penis. People should be judged on who they are, not the size of their genitals. Do all men with an average or above average penis give great sex...I doubt it. Women are upset at being objectified by the size of their breasts, but yet it is okay to criticize and make assumptions about men if they have a small penis and say that is a dealbreaker? That is really unfair. If there is such terror to some women that a small penis means bad sex and that is a dealbreaker, I feel sorry for any man these women are with when they get older and for health reasons a "normal" size penis is just not functioning well. Is this grounds for a breakup?

It has recently come to my attention that humanity is shallow by nature. I guess thats part of the reason I'm too bitter toward love to want to find it again.

Ok hello folks. Let me introduce myself. I'm 17 years old, 18 in a few months. I'm a guy, with a 4.5 inch penis. I'm kind of in the "gray zone". Not big enough to be useful for sex, but not small enough to get any sympathy.

uh...4.5 inches is def. big enough to be useful for sex. Maybe you haven't found the right girl. (aka one that isn't a *****)

uh...4.5 inches is def. big enough to be useful for sex. Maybe you haven't found the right girl. (aka one that isn't a *****)

Maybe, if I can find a smaller / shorter woman. I also hear Asian women have smaller "openings" if you get my drift. I am not really attracted to asian women though, I like latinas.

Maybe, if I can find a smaller / shorter woman. I also hear Asian women have smaller "openings" if you get my drift. I am not really attracted to asian women though, I like latinas.

it shouldn't matter what race, they should be able to accommodate whatever comes there way (no pun intended)

just get really good at foreplay, if you can get her really excited then whatever you do after that will feel great regardless.

I still can't get over the title of this topic.

I am about average and have found that women always seem to orgasm with me, one girl I was with had never had an orgasm. She had been with someone who was over 9 inches and it didn't help. Most of it has to do with your technique... I'm not fantastic in the sack, but you know what I do? Pay attention. Just pay attention to what your woman is doing when you do certain things, stop worrying about yourself. You can do whatever the hell you want after she has already orgasmed.

Sorry but that thread title is slightly ambiguous. (did you mean that pun?)

If you watch Family Guy and you know the character Cleveland, you can picture me saying That's Nasteeeee!

To the original poster, like everyone else has said, you are not shallow at all. A friend of mine had sex with a man the size of a pinky. She's also a girl who likes them big. But she told me he was amazing, with his fingers, tongue and Pinky Winky. Plus, like others have also said, the emotional connection can heighten the experience. It may not be perfect for you, but it also may be just fine for you.

I feel bad for him. As a self conscious guy myself, I can only imagine how more self conscious I would be if I had a small penis.

I am 18 years old............. If a woman asked me to use a toy, I would be kinda humiliated. I mean I am completely comfertable and feel blessed to be given what I have. It's just a man can't feel like a man when he has to use toys to get her off. Woman want to feel a real man inside, not some toy, that's just the way human nature is.

Give me a break, Gotta! "A man can't feel like a man when he has to use toys to get her off?". Obviously you haven't used toys before in any of your sexual experiences. If you had, you would know how pleasurable they are for both partners, and how much fun can be had with the addition of toys in the bedroom. My g/f and I use toys often, experiencing mutual pleasure. Everyone is different and women respond differently. Some women enjoy penetration, other's enjoy clitoral stimulation more than intercourse.

You are totally underestimating the value of sex toys, but I attribute that to your young age and lack of experience. You've been "blessed" with a "big one"? That doesn't automatically make you some kind of super lover, and I think most women would agree that there is alot more to sex than just waving your big shank around. What are you going to do when you come accross a woman who tells you that you are "too big for her" some day?????? Would you feel humiliated if she owned a vibrator that was smaller than your member? ..or had a clitoral stimulator on it?

Carl & 4 Inch,

Did you guys ever consider that maybe the problem isn't the women you are meeting? Perhaps you both are making too big a deal out of your size and maybe if you have ever been rejected by a woman due to a perceived size issue on her part then maybe you were the one who made a big deal about it, not her.

Women can smell insecurity a mile away...and the last thing you should ever do is apologize for the size of your penis to a woman. Apologize for what? There is nothing you can do about your size. Show a woman some confidence, and show her what an awesome lover you can be by demonstrating to her that you know what to do with it! I'm very average, probably on the smaller size, and I wish I was bigger (most guys do), but I"ve never let that stop me from enjoying a healthy sex life, and I've never had a problem making a girl orgasm either. In fact, I've ended more sexual relationships than I've been dumped, so I'm not too bothered by the fact I don't have a porn star tallywhacker. It's never been an issue. I fear you guys are both making way too much about your sizes when you claim it has "ruined your life". Get yourself some self esteem and get over it.

Carl and 4Inch - think about this. Men with big ones get dumped, cheated on, and rejected by women just as much as guys with smaller ones....if what you guys claim is true, then how do you explain that? If you guys think that your smaller penis sizes put you into some kind of "disadvantaged minority", you are sadly mistaken.

Btw...N83? "the size of a womans pinky finger"? Something tells me that you might be embellishing this guys lack of size a little bit (alot). I find it hard to believe that a guy could have one that small without being deformed or dysfunctional.

Hi Royltnxile, I concur with you, fully.

Thank you for your valuable contibution. If anything brings us guys down, it's our insecurities.

I got a three (3) inch index finger. I got my gf off with it with the kind help of my tongue.

She says it's just as good albeit slower and not as "common" - which makes sense.

No problem.

Patience and persistance.

 

just get really good at foreplay, if you can get her really excited then whatever you do after that will feel great regardless.

That's not true women get bored of foreplay/oral easily. Just look to the first poster as an example she hasn't even tried oral and says she exclusively wants a big * * * *.

"the size of a womans pinky finger"? Something tells me that you might be embellishing this guys lack of size a little bit (alot). I find it hard to believe that a guy could have one that small without being deformed or dysfunctional.

I agree, I just measured my pinky finger and it's 2.3 inches long and I have big fingers. If the guy truly has a penis that small when erect something is seriously wrong. I'm 2 inches when NOT erect so maybe you are measuring when he can't get it up? I hope so on his part.

Mine is a little bigger than my middle finger when erect, and I'm considered wicked small for my age. So pinky finger when erect = infant size.

well, it might be that he's suffering from micro-penis. She is probably jsut exaggerating somewhat though.

Still, even for men with large penises, topics like this have to make even you guys think? if i lost my penis in a freak accident, would my girlfriend stick by me. From my judgements the answer is 95% wouldn't bother and if they did it would be through guilt.

Just tells you how much relationships are i scratch your back-you scratch mine type scenario shame, we can't psychological cope without women or somehow get way from our will to life; reproduction =)

4 inch, you said earlier that you are 4.5". That is considered average and a lot of men are around your size. Don't worry you are plenty big enough!

4 inch, you said earlier that you are 4.5". That is considered average and a lot of men are around your size. Don't worry you are plenty big enough!

4.8 inches is average for a 12 year old what are you smoking

all my friends are 6 inches at least one of them is even 7.5 inches no i'm not gay

This is rediculous.....

No wonder men are so scared of being adequate..... I believe it is pretty shallow... I compare to this to any guy out there that won't go out with small chested girls. It's bs.

4.8 inches is average for a 12 year old what are you smoking

 

all my friends are 6 inches at least one of them is even 7.5 inches no i'm not gay

I have seen anywhere from 4.5 to 6.5 to be average, it just depends on which survey you are reading.... You are fine!!

if you've got 5 inches or less with a bare 4.5" girth, complete with turkey neck, just kill yourself like i'm gonna. without the turkey neck it may be ok

one last thing, the average length is at least 6.5" (i know this for a fact) and average girth 5.25". some sites tell u 6" exactly, this is to make u feel better if you're small. if you're 5" like me, at least 94% of men have bigger than u. more men have 9"+ than 5 and under.

thats the truth, don't listen to anyone else cos they're feeding u BS.

like i said, i've been cursed with turkey neck too so that makes it even worse

one last thing, the average length is at least 6.5" (i know this for a fact) and average girth 5.25". some sites tell u 6" exactly, this is to make u feel better if you're small. if you're 5" like me, at least 94% of men have bigger than u. more men have 9"+ than 5 and under.

 

thats the truth, don't listen to anyone else cos they're feeding u BS.

 

like i said, i've been cursed with turkey neck too so that makes it even worse

5" is better than my pathetic 4.5"

i did the research and 0.2% of men worldwide are small than me, or in otherwords 99.8% are bigger than me. yep, my luck huh

We're all given what we're given. Penis size is about as dumb as how much you can bench. It doesn't prove anything. But I guess in this world Size matters where it shouldn't.

We're all given what we're given. Penis size is about as dumb as how much you can bench. It doesn't prove anything. But I guess in this world Size matters where it shouldn't.

"Size doesn't matter" is just bull women feed small men to make them feel better.

It shouldn't matter, but it does. Humans are still very stupid and primal and rely more on insticts than their brains.

I wish I were born 5,000 years into the future (if the world still exists). Maybe by then humans wouldn't be so stupid and would have evolved to a point where penis size or how strong or athletic you are doesn't matter. Of course by then, the male sex won't exist anymore since women will have found a way to duplicate without the use of men. Already they are finding ways that women can get pregnate artificially, it's only a matter of time until men are extinct.

1. You DO realize that artificial insemination still requires men, and women DO enjoy sex with men over the alternatives (excluding lesbians)?

2. You yourself are human, so if every human alive today is stupid, then going into the future where the people there have evolved to be more intelligent will make you among the least intelligent. Then you'll be insecure about your penis size AND your intelligence.

3. When it comes to penis size, you have what you have. Either you can swear to celebacy by denying yourself any chance to use it, or you can just go out and have fun with it anyway.

actually sorry but i take that back. i wont get a sex change i'd rather die than become a transvestite.

so in a few months when i turn 18 i am going to join the USMC and request to go straight to whever the heaviest fighting in Iraq is. hopefelly i wont make it back alive. and even if i do make it back alive then ill at least have some cash to spend on penis enlarging pills. i will take twice whatever the recommended dosage is. and i will hand 5lb weights from my flaccid penis.

i am this desperate