Teen pregnancy... URGENT. NEED HELP!

Atticus90 · 06-25-2006, 11:34 PM

Well, i'm 15 years old and my girlfriend is 14 years old. We both decided to start haveing sex. Stupidly, it was unprotected and I cumed in her ( accidently.. Don't ask ) It's been about 2 1/2 weeks since we did it. She said her period is comin around in the next 2 or 3 days, so we'll have to wait til she misses it. Problem is... She misses her period sometimes even when she's not pregnant. She isn't on any type of birth control pills either. So, I don't want to freak out when she misses her period because of her schedule when I think it'll be because she's pregnant. I seriously don't want her to be pregnant. I couldn't even began to imagin what our parents would do. We've both been together for sooo long and she's the love of my life and I don't want them to make us not see eachother anymore. Could they do something like that? I also live in North Carolina. Is their any way I could be put in jail??? I'm a minor right? I told my mom about it, cause she wouldn't freak out like my dad would and she said that her sister got pregnant at 15 years old and nothing happend to her and her husband. So is their any way I could get in "law" trouble???

I certainly appreciate the help!

SaRaHmArIe8588 · 06-25-2006, 11:42 PM

First of all..you are 15 years old and you say that you guys have been together for sooo long? How long is "sooo long" to you?

Haven · 06-25-2006, 11:42 PM

You're definitely a minor. I am 90% sure it's not illegal for the two of you to have sex, but I could be wrong. Try looking it up? And she can take a pregnancy test to see if she's pregnant (or she can go to her doctor). I don't know about the other stuff, though.. I'm sure other people can offer better advice. Good luck with everything.

SaRaHmArIe8588 · 06-25-2006, 11:45 PM

i dont know the laws down there but i highly doubt any charges could be pressed because you are BOTH minors. If the situation was different and you were older..then it would be a different story..But you are both under the age of consent. Atleast..thats how things work in NY..

Maybe someone in your state can help you out

Maverick32x · 06-25-2006, 11:47 PM

law trouble eh? well you have to be 18 in order to give consent... but seeing as that you're both the same age.. it would have to be a pretty evil judge to sentence you on rape charges. I guess it is possible, if her parents really dont like you, or don't want her daughter to be scarred with it... i had something similiar happen to me when i was 16.. she was 17... and we ended up having an abortion.. and before that ever happened i was 100% against such a thing.. in my eyes it was a horrible crime.. but when you are put in the position of ruining the rest of your life.... well.. you really dont have much of a choice.. i felt.... There are alot of places you can go for that sorta thing if it comes down to it... but try not to freak her out, since if you freak her out.. i will try to sidestep the technical details.. but basically:: she'll be late on her period cuz her hormones will be really messed up cuz of the stress... good luck man

the one good thing that came from it for me was that i ALWAYS use a condom no MATTER WHAT.

Atticus90 · 06-25-2006, 11:47 PM

Well, im pretty stressed about this. I absolutly have no ride to get a pregnancy test. That's pretty much what i'm heading for. Cause if my girlfriend misses her period because she's not a "schedule" person, then i'm probably gonna pass out or start throwing things. What i'd like to know is if she is pregnant, that is their any type of pill to stop the baby from growing?? I mean, cause im not in for abortion. Cause.. well i don't know. I wouldn't fill right killing a babie. But yeah... Is their any pill that will stop the hole process if she is pregnant?

Maverick32x · 06-25-2006, 11:49 PM

No, there isnt a pill for it to my knowledge...
and the last thing you should be doing is getting angry at her, or anyone else.. you make choices.. and you live with them.... deal with whats happening now, not what happened in the past. Do you have any older friends that can drive? or you could take a Bus/train downtown if you are close enough? usually in a city there are some places to get tested confidentially.

Maverick32x · 06-25-2006, 11:49 PM

oh ya, you can buy over the counter pregnancy things

enigmaz_Barbie · 06-25-2006, 11:50 PM

before starting to worry, i suggest you get her to take a pregnancy test. You can start worrying and planning proper steps to manage the situation if its positive.

**melrich** · 06-25-2006, 11:50 PM

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Is their any pill that will stop the hole process if she is pregnant?

If she's pregnant and you had sex 2 weeks ago then there is no legally available pill that will terminate the pregnancy. The morning after pill is effective only up to 72 hours after having sex.

Get a home pregnancy test and use it 7 days after her period is due. That will tell you if she is pregnant or not.

06-25-2006, 11:34 PM	#1
Atticus90 Offline Silver Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: North Carolina Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 1,194	Teen pregnancy... URGENT. NEED HELP! Well, i'm 15 years old and my girlfriend is 14 years old. We both decided to start haveing sex. Stupidly, it was unprotected and I cumed in her ( accidently.. Don't ask ) It's been about 2 1/2 weeks since we did it. She said her period is comin around in the next 2 or 3 days, so we'll have to wait til she misses it. Problem is... She misses her period sometimes even when she's not pregnant. She isn't on any type of birth control pills either. So, I don't want to freak out when she misses her period because of her schedule when I think it'll be because she's pregnant. I seriously don't want her to be pregnant. I couldn't even began to imagin what our parents would do. We've both been together for sooo long and she's the love of my life and I don't want them to make us not see eachother anymore. Could they do something like that? I also live in North Carolina. Is their any way I could be put in jail??? I'm a minor right? I told my mom about it, cause she wouldn't freak out like my dad would and she said that her sister got pregnant at 15 years old and nothing happend to her and her husband. So is their any way I could get in "law" trouble??? I certainly appreciate the help!

06-25-2006, 11:42 PM	#3
Haven Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: USA Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 973	You're definitely a minor. I am 90% sure it's not illegal for the two of you to have sex, but I could be wrong. Try looking it up? And she can take a pregnancy test to see if she's pregnant (or she can go to her doctor). I don't know about the other stuff, though.. I'm sure other people can offer better advice. Good luck with everything. __________________ "You don't drown by falling in the water; you drown by staying there."

06-25-2006, 11:50 PM	#9
enigmaz_Barbie Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Somewhere in the land of fantasy Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 114	before starting to worry, i suggest you get her to take a pregnancy test. You can start worrying and planning proper steps to manage the situation if its positive. __________________ If time does heal all wounds then why am I still bleeding? Cant you see from the way I smile that you have bruised and torn me apart? .........[Misconceptions of enigmaz_Barbie]

06-25-2006, 11:42 PM	#2
SaRaHmArIe8588 Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: NY Gender: Female Posts: 310	First of all..you are 15 years old and you say that you guys have been together for sooo long? How long is "sooo long" to you?

06-25-2006, 11:45 PM	#4
SaRaHmArIe8588 Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: NY Gender: Female Posts: 310	i dont know the laws down there but i highly doubt any charges could be pressed because you are BOTH minors. If the situation was different and you were older..then it would be a different story..But you are both under the age of consent. Atleast..thats how things work in NY.. Maybe someone in your state can help you out

06-25-2006, 11:47 PM	#5
Maverick32x Offline Gold Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: IL Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 1,010	law trouble eh? well you have to be 18 in order to give consent... but seeing as that you're both the same age.. it would have to be a pretty evil judge to sentence you on rape charges. I guess it is possible, if her parents really dont like you, or don't want her daughter to be scarred with it... i had something similiar happen to me when i was 16.. she was 17... and we ended up having an abortion.. and before that ever happened i was 100% against such a thing.. in my eyes it was a horrible crime.. but when you are put in the position of ruining the rest of your life.... well.. you really dont have much of a choice.. i felt.... There are alot of places you can go for that sorta thing if it comes down to it... but try not to freak her out, since if you freak her out.. i will try to sidestep the technical details.. but basically:: she'll be late on her period cuz her hormones will be really messed up cuz of the stress... good luck man the one good thing that came from it for me was that i ALWAYS use a condom no MATTER WHAT.

06-25-2006, 11:49 PM	#7
Maverick32x Offline Gold Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: IL Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 1,010	No, there isnt a pill for it to my knowledge... and the last thing you should be doing is getting angry at her, or anyone else.. you make choices.. and you live with them.... deal with whats happening now, not what happened in the past. Do you have any older friends that can drive? or you could take a Bus/train downtown if you are close enough? usually in a city there are some places to get tested confidentially.