Gender preferences in the first child!!!!!!!!

yeawutever · 06-17-2006, 09:58 AM

Based on my case and lots of stories, it is known that mostly all the men when asked "What would you want a boy or girl". They tend to say "It doesn't matter, as long it's healthy". Yet if you were to insist on what they are really thinking, the answer would be "A boy, a man off course, a man I can teach how to stand up for himself, a man I can talk about politics, sports, girls, etc. Years ago in my country, you could only take the test once and if yet the gender was still unknown then you would have to wait till pregnancy. Well ok, so most seem tot wait a boy as their first child, yet when the surprise comes, that it's not a boy, at first they will be like "Oh well, it's not", but then they'll love their girl child even more.

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robowarrior · 06-18-2006, 12:22 PM

It looks like you suffer from penis envy. Honestly didn't you get all the attention and love you wanted during your childhood? Did you really feel asif 'boys' got more exclusive rights then you did?

Unless you life in one of those relgious country's where Muslims are suppressing the woman to wear headscarves, and are allowed to beat their woman, or maby in China i could feel for your case, however stil..

Regardless of wether you are a man or a woman, there's a song that goes ' you gotta fight for your right, every morning' and i feel woman aren't doing enough at all into standing up for their rights. Most woman i see , just follow their men like a sheep and go knit in some corner, i would LOVE to see them (if necessary) to stand up, group themselves and DEMAND equal rights.

No more hogwash of (men can have this and that) utter non-sense, a girl can do 99% of what a man can nowadays, there's no reason at all why this couldn't happen, but of course never will if woman never claim their rights they will always be walked over.

And personally i don't believe what you say is true at all, you are just insisting an answer, and only counting in those men who said to prefer a boy, i personally would love (as a guy) to have a girl. A little princess. So to say all men prefer a boy is just rediculous, you should make a poll for the guys too.

Upsetwifeofone · 06-18-2006, 04:04 PM

I don't agree at all. My husband was over the moon that his first child was a girl, just as happy with the four boys we had, then the next three girls. Now I'm pregnant with our last daughter and he is over the moon again, we will have an equal balance of five boy sand five girls (eldest child is from my ex relationship)

Our daughter is working with her father in his horticultural business and does as much hard graft as him, so equal opportunities for different sexes!

06-17-2006, 09:58 AM	#1
yeawutever Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Gender: None Specified Age: 22 Posts: 5,671	Gender preferences in the first child!!!!!!!! Based on my case and lots of stories, it is known that mostly all the men when asked "What would you want a boy or girl". They tend to say "It doesn't matter, as long it's healthy". Yet if you were to insist on what they are really thinking, the answer would be "A boy, a man off course, a man I can teach how to stand up for himself, a man I can talk about politics, sports, girls, etc. Years ago in my country, you could only take the test once and if yet the gender was still unknown then you would have to wait till pregnancy. Well ok, so most seem tot wait a boy as their first child, yet when the surprise comes, that it's not a boy, at first they will be like "Oh well, it's not", but then they'll love their girl child even more. Here is a site into it: [Only registered and activated users can see links. ] __________________ Opened-minded to those in need of help. Not everything is black and white as it seems.... If you're gonna do something, think twice and make sure it's something worthy that you don't later on regret!!!!!!!!!!! Still in a LDR with boyfriend. Last edited by yeawutever; 06-17-2006 at 10:01 AM.

06-18-2006, 12:22 PM	#2
robowarrior Offline Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: There where a man is happy. Posts: 1,964	It looks like you suffer from penis envy. Honestly didn't you get all the attention and love you wanted during your childhood? Did you really feel asif 'boys' got more exclusive rights then you did? Unless you life in one of those relgious country's where Muslims are suppressing the woman to wear headscarves, and are allowed to beat their woman, or maby in China i could feel for your case, however stil.. Regardless of wether you are a man or a woman, there's a song that goes ' you gotta fight for your right, every morning' and i feel woman aren't doing enough at all into standing up for their rights. Most woman i see , just follow their men like a sheep and go knit in some corner, i would LOVE to see them (if necessary) to stand up, group themselves and DEMAND equal rights. No more hogwash of (men can have this and that) utter non-sense, a girl can do 99% of what a man can nowadays, there's no reason at all why this couldn't happen, but of course never will if woman never claim their rights they will always be walked over. And personally i don't believe what you say is true at all, you are just insisting an answer, and only counting in those men who said to prefer a boy, i personally would love (as a guy) to have a girl. A little princess. So to say all men prefer a boy is just rediculous, you should make a poll for the guys too.

06-18-2006, 04:04 PM	#3
Upsetwifeofone Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Hertfordshire England Gender: Female Age: 38 Posts: 71	I don't agree at all. My husband was over the moon that his first child was a girl, just as happy with the four boys we had, then the next three girls. Now I'm pregnant with our last daughter and he is over the moon again, we will have an equal balance of five boy sand five girls (eldest child is from my ex relationship) Our daughter is working with her father in his horticultural business and does as much hard graft as him, so equal opportunities for different sexes!