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    How do guys show they are attracted to a girl?

    How can a girl tell if a guy is physically attracted to a girl - besides the obvious "touching her". Also,is there a difference in how a shy guy might show his attraction..

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    If he's very interested in you you'll catch him watching you everytime you turn around. If it's a shy guy he'll probably be embarrassed and look away when he's caught. Also, he'll go out of his way to walk past you all the time so he can look at you.

    Why don't you just go up and start talking to him? If he doesn't know your name just say, 'Hi my name's ......' Sometimes if you're waiting for the guy to make the first move you could be waiting for years! I know this from experience.

    Good luck

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    He may mirror your movements...if you tilt your head, he will, if you start playing with a pen, he will, etc.

    He'll be facing towards you...with his entire body, legs and such.

    He'll probably find a reason to touch you.

    He'll notice/compliment you on little things.

    He'll hold eye contact for longer, or you'll catch him staring at you.

    He'll most likely flirt with you, lol.
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    He may totally ignore you, thus making you think that he doesn't like you, thus ending any chance at possible bliss, thus answering threads in a tone that suggests he's been through such pain.

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    KO, you are one funny dude!!! Tigris and Mrocza, thanks for your answers!

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    "signs" of interest are FAR overrated. Something you think is a sign is not, yet something you don't think is a sign really is. I have noticed over the years that the people who look for "signs" of someones interests are the ones who are in turmoil wondering whats going on here, are they interested, etc. The people that actually have the guts to ask someone out, they NEVER end up in this situation.

    The point of my post? If you want to know, ASK THEM OUT! You are making this difficult on yourself.
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    I agree with Diggity. You can't always rely on "vibes". When I met my ex (whom I dated for 4 years) I just walked up to her and asked her what she was reading. She didnt even glance my way the entire time I was sitting right in front of her in the cafe. Later I came to find out that she was checking me out but our eyes just never met. It's a good thing I didn't rely on "signs" and just went over to her...those were 4 of the best years of my life.

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    "How do guys show they are attracted to a girl?"

    I don't. lol

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    omg i can so relate.. i hate it when shy guys dont have a clue dammit.. what to do with shy guys.. *jumps to the shy guy forum*

    My guy looks at me all the time
    Does that mean he likes me
    I know this coz i look at him all the time too
    Lately he's not looking at me anymore
    Because he thinks i have another guy on hand
    mixed signals just suck.

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    I agree with Diggity Dogg. I don't have a lot of experience in this field, but when it comes down to it, this whole shebang is about two people interacting. You're not dealing with a machine and dating certainly shouldn't be seen as some form of tactical game.

    Just spend time with the person and just see where it goes from there. It's all about creating rapport and a sense of comfort.

    Good luck!

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