Gathering mini party today

silentbutdeadly · 04-14-2006, 03:24 AM

Hey, okay so theres ment to be a party in a park today,so ill be of to that I have got a couple conversations starters like (Hi, how r u or how was your holidays, if there doing anything for easter) maybe some mild compliments and and maybe a couple of ways to break the ice without using pick up lines but I need some more topics and maybe even some one line dialogue dont worry I wont say that line roboticlly but any at all because I want to be equipt I know I should let go a bit and relax and loose myself. But theres about two girls that I especialy want to know now they both know who I am but I havent had proper convo with them so I sort want to break the ice btw us and try and have comfortable convo with them and stay confident....any ideas and kind of quick thank you..

robowarrior · 04-14-2006, 07:15 AM

Everyone has to have a little bit of 'jamacain' relax idea in them, don't worry about the convo, just ask a question and you'll get a convo starting, and if you notice that the convo is dying ,just ask another question, then talk about something exciting like going to the (x) , or doing something fun like (x) , its as easy as that.

silentbutdeadly · 04-15-2006, 12:34 PM

Hey, so I came back from this party and until I re-thought about how I was at the party it suddenly occured to me that I screwed up alot now Im not going to sit hear beating myself up about it but I wanna do sumthing about it. Because I felt priviledged going to that gathering and spending 5 hours with 5 hot girls now I guess you could say I was rather intimidated by that fact and making me quite quiet and always in deep thought about if what I am going to say would be interesting also was a bit nervous. Even as a jokey comment one of the girls asks me why im being quiet and boring I replyed with I dnt know because I really didnt know all confidence completely went out the window. Now this is the second time of been to these gatherings bt each time different people have been there but everytime I come back I always feel unsatisfyed but atleast I can see where Im going wrong. IT's like trial error and improvement for me why can't it just be trial without error. Now luckly two girls that organised it know that im quite shy and im friends with them so in future there could be a possibility for me to come again. I could also make it up to these 5 hotties back at school its just a question thinking and doing. Also why is it that I always look back on my day and am able to be like "dammit I could of said that." How can i think faster at those situations and relax!!....

04-14-2006, 03:24 AM	#1
silentbutdeadly Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: canada Gender: Male Age: 18 Posts: 63	Gathering mini party today Hey, okay so theres ment to be a party in a park today,so ill be of to that I have got a couple conversations starters like (Hi, how r u or how was your holidays, if there doing anything for easter) maybe some mild compliments and and maybe a couple of ways to break the ice without using pick up lines but I need some more topics and maybe even some one line dialogue dont worry I wont say that line roboticlly but any at all because I want to be equipt I know I should let go a bit and relax and loose myself. But theres about two girls that I especialy want to know now they both know who I am but I havent had proper convo with them so I sort want to break the ice btw us and try and have comfortable convo with them and stay confident....any ideas and kind of quick thank you.. __________________ Silentbutdeadly

04-15-2006, 12:34 PM	#3
silentbutdeadly Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: canada Gender: Male Age: 18 Posts: 63	WHY! is it always practice makes perfect for me Hey, so I came back from this party and until I re-thought about how I was at the party it suddenly occured to me that I screwed up alot now Im not going to sit hear beating myself up about it but I wanna do sumthing about it. Because I felt priviledged going to that gathering and spending 5 hours with 5 hot girls now I guess you could say I was rather intimidated by that fact and making me quite quiet and always in deep thought about if what I am going to say would be interesting also was a bit nervous. Even as a jokey comment one of the girls asks me why im being quiet and boring I replyed with I dnt know because I really didnt know all confidence completely went out the window. Now this is the second time of been to these gatherings bt each time different people have been there but everytime I come back I always feel unsatisfyed but atleast I can see where Im going wrong. IT's like trial error and improvement for me why can't it just be trial without error. Now luckly two girls that organised it know that im quite shy and im friends with them so in future there could be a possibility for me to come again. I could also make it up to these 5 hotties back at school its just a question thinking and doing. Also why is it that I always look back on my day and am able to be like "dammit I could of said that." How can i think faster at those situations and relax!!.... __________________ Silentbutdeadly

04-14-2006, 07:15 AM	#2
robowarrior Offline Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: There where a man is happy. Posts: 1,957	Everyone has to have a little bit of 'jamacain' relax idea in them, don't worry about the convo, just ask a question and you'll get a convo starting, and if you notice that the convo is dying ,just ask another question, then talk about something exciting like going to the (x) , or doing something fun like (x) , its as easy as that.