Ok.. I was curious... how many of you are in a relationship, or have in the past, and shared each other's e-mails? Or checked each others... behind their back or with them knowing??? ANd those of you who have check your bf/gf's e-mails, did he/she mind about it?? And do you think it's bad to do so??
Basically my bf knew I had his password, and I found out he had mine. So I know he's checked mine, which doesn't bother me because I have nothing to hide. But today I brought something up I saw in his e-mail... and apparently he forgot I had his password and he flipped out and went nuts asking me why I checked it and how often. TOo be honest.. .I do check it every now and then, which I told him, and I do it because I don't trust him 100% because he has lied to me in the past, so I need to see if he's loyal or not. So after that fight he changed his password and is so mad that I can't trust him all the way and this and that and now he's ignoring me. This is bugging the crap out of me! That is the type of open/serious relationships I like, I like to share everything and I think my bf should too.. there should be nothing to hide so I don't understand him going nuts about it. He says he's not hiding anything but in my opinion... why would he freak out so much if he wasn't hiding anything?? WHy are guys so insecure about their gf's checking their e-mails. What's the big deal?!?! How can you tell someone you want to marry them if you can't even share your password?!??! ANy advice would be nice!.. Thanks