My boyfriend and I were together for 10 months, split for a little over a month and are now back together. We both want to make things work but I don't know if we can because well, how can you work things out with someone who can't communicate. He is very uncomfortable talking about almost everything. He does a few couple of things to avoid a serious conversation. He'll make jokes, he'll change the subject, he'll zone out and think about something like pizza or anything else that's totally irrelevant and worst of all he'll get angry, really angry so then we get into a fight. He hates talking about anything that's wrong but how is anything supposed to get resolved if we just pretend a problem doesn't exist? It doesn't even matter what the problem is really, I just need some help. I don't yell or scream or anything really. It's not like I start fights with him, it's just that if something bothers me I would like to be able to talk to him about it but I know of no effective way to approach him. Any adivce? Please?