advise for all the adults from a teen

slayer · 10-14-2005, 07:31 PM

OK, so here it is to all the adults. Sorry to tell you this, but teens have sex, and now younger than ever. I know there are those who know this, but then again... OK, so when your people come on these forums and ask for advise then just give them to them. Its ok if you advise them as an adult does, but you are in no possition to stop them. I know i have recieved some good help here, but everyone deserves the same respect. Some young people that just cant talk to their parents come to forums like these to have their questions answered, and not to be lectured. Thanks.

darkblue · 10-14-2005, 07:39 PM

But they also must be aware of the risks that they're potentially puting themselves under.

How would you like to be a daddy in your teens because you thought it was 'mature' of you to engage in sexual intercourse?

Could you support a child?
I don't think so.

Possibilities of STDs - How would you like to contact herpes, HIV etc etc, in your teens? Just think, if you caught AIDS, you've just put yourself through an unimaginable life of suffering and regret because you just couldn't wait.

So - while I, and whoever else agrees with me, will give advice to anyone; at any age. They will hear what the risks are and what they could be letting themselves in for.

slayer · 10-14-2005, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by darkblue

But they also must be aware of the risks that they're potentially puting themselves under.

How would you like to be a daddy in your teens because you thought it was 'mature' of you to engage in sexual intercourse?

Could you support a child?
I don't think so.

Possibilities of STDs - How would you like to contact herpes, HIV etc etc, in your teens? Just think, if you caught AIDS, you've just put yourself through an unimaginable life of suffering and regret because you just couldn't wait.

So - while I, and whoever else agrees with me, will give advice to anyone; at any age. They will hear what the risks are and what they could be letting themselves in for.

uh i did say its ok to tell them the warnings. well i said its ok to give advise as an adult would, but thats what i meant. But people need to realise that accepting it is better, because young people fear telling bacause they know exactly what adults will say. And obviously adults will respond to that like "then why even bother asking?" well, because obviously teens feel there is no stopping them, lol.

darkblue · 10-14-2005, 07:44 PM

That's where you are wrong. There are little things stopping them; they're called laws.

darkblue · 10-14-2005, 07:46 PM

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Jetta · 10-14-2005, 07:47 PM

Well as an adult who has lived through some mistakes created by having sex before I was really ready for the consequences of that interaction. The advice I give comes from the fact sex isn't just for fun, there are rammifications of that action. So if you are going to do the deed even with protection your fun could end much sooner than you had planned.

Also not all children are healthy mentally, physically, etc. This is what adults know and are trying to protect you teens from. But as a teen you think you're invincible, and it won't happen to you. But when it does happen you'll see those around you were only trying to protect you from making a mistake much like we may have done at your age.

Life is meant to be lived so if having sex is what you want to do, then go ahead. But realize that every action has a consequence and you aren't always aware of that consequence until much later.

slayer · 10-14-2005, 07:52 PM

oy, im not here to argue my friend, i was just voicing my opinion. Now i know there are laws, but laws dont stop anything ok. The are rules, but every single rule in the world is broken, every single one. So who is to stop those rules from being broken? This is exactly why i made this post. just because i know that there are those that deny that teens are doing this. Sure it is illegal, but we dont are, lol. The only ones that can stop this is ourselves, so give the proper advise if you will, im not telling you to tell a 13 year old how to give a BJ. But dont judge. Its the way life wrks. Nature meant for TEENS to be the main reproductive people, thats why we are more fertile and our sperm is more effective.

darkblue · 10-14-2005, 07:53 PM

There are no precautions a teen can take that will be 100% effective.
There is always a chance of pregnancy.

And that's the physical aspects.
Try explaining to a girl that is infatuated with the person she had sex with; that he used her and is now just another notch on his belt...

slayer · 10-14-2005, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Jetta

Well as an adult who has lived through some mistakes created by having sex before I was really ready for the consequences of that interaction. The advice I give comes from the fact sex isn't just for fun, there are rammifications of that action. So if you are going to do the deed even with protection your fun could end much sooner than you had planned.

Also not all children are healthy mentally, physically, etc. This is what adults know and are trying to protect you teens from. But as a teen you think you're invincible, and it won't happen to you. But when it does happen you'll see those around you were only trying to protect you from making a mistake much like we may have done at your age.

Life is meant to be lived so if having sex is what you want to do, then go ahead. But realize that every action has a consequence and you aren't always aware of that consequence until much later.

LOL, OK, why do all adults do this also. sorry but i never said i was talking about me, i was talking about you guys acceptance of reality. I never said i was having sex, or am going to yet.

darkblue · 10-14-2005, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by slayer

oy, im not here to argue my friend, i was just voicing my opinion.

If you are voicing adult concerns; then be treated like an adult.
It's on the forum and I'm expressing my opinions, too.

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Now i know there are laws, but laws dont stop anything ok.

They don't stop anything, hu?
I'm going to go and murder my neighbour then - they've been making a lot of noise recently...

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The are rules, but every single rule in the world is broken, every single one. So who is to stop those rules from being broken?

Your 'maturity'/'mentality', of course you can break laws - but remember that they are there for a reason; protection.

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This is exactly why i made this post. just because i know that there are those that deny that teens are doing this.

I'm very aware that some teens have sex... I'd be blind not to notice.

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Sure it is illegal, but we dont care, lol. The only ones that can stop this is ourselves, so give the proper advise if you will, im not telling you to tell a 13 year old how to give a BJ. But dont judge. Its the way life wrks.

I never judge - I give facts to allow the poster to make an informed decision.

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Nature meant for TEENS to be the main reproductive people, thats why we are more fertile and our sperm is more effective.

LOL!
Wrong.

10-14-2005, 07:31 PM	#1
slayer Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 50	advise for all the adults from a teen OK, so here it is to all the adults. Sorry to tell you this, but teens have sex, and now younger than ever. I know there are those who know this, but then again... OK, so when your people come on these forums and ask for advise then just give them to them. Its ok if you advise them as an adult does, but you are in no possition to stop them. I know i have recieved some good help here, but everyone deserves the same respect. Some young people that just cant talk to their parents come to forums like these to have their questions answered, and not to be lectured. Thanks.

10-14-2005, 07:39 PM	#2
darkblue Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Glasgow, Scotland. Gender: Male Posts: 5,085	But they also must be aware of the risks that they're potentially puting themselves under. How would you like to be a daddy in your teens because you thought it was 'mature' of you to engage in sexual intercourse? Could you support a child? I don't think so. Possibilities of STDs - How would you like to contact herpes, HIV etc etc, in your teens? Just think, if you caught AIDS, you've just put yourself through an unimaginable life of suffering and regret because you just couldn't wait. So - while I, and whoever else agrees with me, will give advice to anyone; at any age. They will hear what the risks are and what they could be letting themselves in for. __________________ _________________ Aut vincere aut mori. "Whoever loves; becomes humble. Those who love have, so to speak, pawned a part of their narcissism." - Sigmund Freud Man is nothing else but that which he makes of himself. That is the first principle of existentialism - J.P. Sartre

10-14-2005, 07:44 PM	#4
darkblue Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Glasgow, Scotland. Gender: Male Posts: 5,085	That's where you are wrong. There are little things stopping them; they're called laws. __________________ _________________ Aut vincere aut mori. "Whoever loves; becomes humble. Those who love have, so to speak, pawned a part of their narcissism." - Sigmund Freud Man is nothing else but that which he makes of himself. That is the first principle of existentialism - J.P. Sartre

10-14-2005, 07:46 PM	#5
darkblue Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Glasgow, Scotland. Gender: Male Posts: 5,085	[Only registered and activated users can see links. ] [Only registered and activated users can see links. ] __________________ _________________ Aut vincere aut mori. "Whoever loves; becomes humble. Those who love have, so to speak, pawned a part of their narcissism." - Sigmund Freud Man is nothing else but that which he makes of himself. That is the first principle of existentialism - J.P. Sartre

10-14-2005, 07:47 PM	#6
Jetta Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Minnesota Gender: Female Age: 35 Posts: 2,354	Well as an adult who has lived through some mistakes created by having sex before I was really ready for the consequences of that interaction. The advice I give comes from the fact sex isn't just for fun, there are rammifications of that action. So if you are going to do the deed even with protection your fun could end much sooner than you had planned. Also not all children are healthy mentally, physically, etc. This is what adults know and are trying to protect you teens from. But as a teen you think you're invincible, and it won't happen to you. But when it does happen you'll see those around you were only trying to protect you from making a mistake much like we may have done at your age. Life is meant to be lived so if having sex is what you want to do, then go ahead. But realize that every action has a consequence and you aren't always aware of that consequence until much later. __________________ "Reality is what won't go away when you stop believing in it." -Phillip K* "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves." -Carl Jung

10-14-2005, 07:52 PM	#7
slayer Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 50	oy, im not here to argue my friend, i was just voicing my opinion. Now i know there are laws, but laws dont stop anything ok. The are rules, but every single rule in the world is broken, every single one. So who is to stop those rules from being broken? This is exactly why i made this post. just because i know that there are those that deny that teens are doing this. Sure it is illegal, but we dont are, lol. The only ones that can stop this is ourselves, so give the proper advise if you will, im not telling you to tell a 13 year old how to give a BJ. But dont judge. Its the way life wrks. Nature meant for TEENS to be the main reproductive people, thats why we are more fertile and our sperm is more effective.

10-14-2005, 07:53 PM	#8
darkblue Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Glasgow, Scotland. Gender: Male Posts: 5,085	There are no precautions a teen can take that will be 100% effective. There is always a chance of pregnancy. And that's the physical aspects. Try explaining to a girl that is infatuated with the person she had sex with; that he used her and is now just another notch on his belt... __________________ _________________ Aut vincere aut mori. "Whoever loves; becomes humble. Those who love have, so to speak, pawned a part of their narcissism." - Sigmund Freud Man is nothing else but that which he makes of himself. That is the first principle of existentialism - J.P. Sartre